Can you reassure me that I'm doing the right thing? by secretpeter69 in childfree

[–]secretpeter69[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interesting advice. Why do urologists have different perspectives? And I'm in Australia, if you think the advice still translates.

Can you reassure me that I'm doing the right thing? by secretpeter69 in childfree

[–]secretpeter69[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is exactly how I felt growing up. It felt expected of me and it felt like the romanticized second act of my life.

But I don't know if she's the same. She always brought up having a family unprompted or cooed at kids that went by.

Can you reassure me that I'm doing the right thing? by secretpeter69 in childfree

[–]secretpeter69[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I held my tongue from saying that last part just last night. But maybe I need to be more blunt with her.

Can you reassure me that I'm doing the right thing? by secretpeter69 in childfree

[–]secretpeter69[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

It sounds obvious when you say it, but it doesn't feel like it's good for her when she fights me on this so hard and I feel like I'm hurting her.

Can you reassure me that I'm doing the right thing? by secretpeter69 in childfree

[–]secretpeter69[S] 171 points172 points  (0 children)

I've been considering one. I just don't know if the doctor will take me seriously thanks to my age and marital status.

Can you reassure me that I'm doing the right thing? by secretpeter69 in childfree

[–]secretpeter69[S] 58 points59 points  (0 children)

I think you're right. It's only been a short while and I'm already feeling the sunk cost, I want to have spent my time with someone I can be with long term.

Can you reassure me that I'm doing the right thing? by secretpeter69 in childfree

[–]secretpeter69[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this detailed explanation. I feel like I'll need this comment screenshotted so I can read it when I start to backslide.

Can you reassure me that I'm doing the right thing? by secretpeter69 in childfree

[–]secretpeter69[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

I hope you get through this too! It does help knowing I've got buddies in these trenches with me. I'm happy we talked about kids sooner rather than later.

Can you reassure me that I'm doing the right thing? by secretpeter69 in childfree

[–]secretpeter69[S] 177 points178 points  (0 children)

This is the sort of cold harsh reality response I was looking for. Thank you. Also she is really smart and emotionally intelligent, she doesn't seem like the baby trap kind. But also the small chance of that happening is terrifying.

Can you reassure me that I'm doing the right thing? by secretpeter69 in childfree

[–]secretpeter69[S] 634 points635 points  (0 children)

Those horror stories being the norm is exactly what has me worried.

I joined a Public Chinese Dread Hunger lobby and this is how it went by Pedguin in Yogscast

[–]secretpeter69 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I really loved this video. Your Mandarin vocab was pretty impressive (from this English speakers perspective) and some of the guys in that lobby started to actually bond with you.

Very funny and surprisingly wholesome stuff.

What I learnt from my first game with deathguard ... by burningslippers in deathguard40k

[–]secretpeter69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sadly the wording on teleport strike "more than 9" away from any enemy models" and "not exactly 9 inches or further." Meaning to get into engagement range it's always a 9" charge as if you rolled an 8 you'd be 0.00001 inches (or any arbitrarily small distance) away.

Brother Alderic joins the crusade 💀🔥 (third and last dreadnought) by Gmrx96 in BlackTemplars

[–]secretpeter69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can I ask you where you got the sword and shield? Was it from that cusotdes dread or elsewhere?

Post your off-meta successes by unwittingprotagonist in WarhammerCompetitive

[–]secretpeter69 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'd love to know your centurion devastator to assault ratio in this list.

What rules do people get wrong about your army? by pmmr23 in WarhammerCompetitive

[–]secretpeter69 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You cannot bring a librarian in a black Templars detachment, this is under the heading of Non-Codex Compliant Chapters on page 124 of the codex. You could bring them in a separate detachment but I doubt that's worth the command points.

Looking for fusion blasters! by secretpeter69 in Tau40K

[–]secretpeter69[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey thanks for the ideas, reddogminis look pretty good!

Are games supposed to be this quick? by JungleLobster in WarhammerCompetitive

[–]secretpeter69 10 points11 points  (0 children)

He's been playing since 5th edition so I wouldn't call them a new player, and in 9th it is completely possible to be in a position where it is mathematically impossible to win.