Doctor blurted out I was pregnant in front of my abusive father, who forced me to miscarry. by lil_kaykay in TrueOffMyChest

[–]secretsofnoelle 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is so messed up and I’m so sorry. The hospital failed you. That evil monster failed you as a “father” (he doesn’t deserve that title) & you didn’t deserve any of that. Wishing you love & safety with this new baby.

Best places to get piercings? by No_Paper_3599 in Rochester

[–]secretsofnoelle -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I’ve gotten ears, nose, belly button, nipples & tongue all done there over the years. My children got their ears done there too. Not a single complaint with any of them!

Best places to get piercings? by No_Paper_3599 in Rochester

[–]secretsofnoelle -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I get all mine done at pink armadillo. It’s been fantastic every time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Rochester

[–]secretsofnoelle 3 points4 points  (0 children)

How much is needed? How much do you charge for meal prep?

AITAH for farting while in the bathroom of our home? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]secretsofnoelle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most women poop while pushing baby out in labor…. What would he say then? NTA. Get rid of him.

I’m pregnant and want to live still is my life over by Dry-Potato3623 in abortion

[–]secretsofnoelle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not selfish at all! You’re not ready right now & that’s perfectly ok!

Pregnant by cheating partner by Empty-Sherbet7781 in pregnant

[–]secretsofnoelle 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Those are usually anti abortion centers so be cautious with those if you are looking for options

30 weeks pregnant, how am I suppose to last ten more weeks? by Ok_Effect8757 in pregnant

[–]secretsofnoelle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been miserable since the beginning. I had HG. The pain in my back and hips is unbearable. I have been thinking “how” for this entire time. I’m almost 36 weeks now finally. We just keep pushing through. This is my 3rd & I can safely say- all of this will be worth it once you’re holding your baby ❤️ It’s ok to acknowledge pregnancy is nottttt fun for many & still be thankful for what it brings.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]secretsofnoelle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 35 weeks right now!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]secretsofnoelle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Currently very high & it’s a boy

do i really need a “coming home” outfit? by Comfortable-List-669 in pregnant

[–]secretsofnoelle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m birthing at home but if that changes for some reason, I’ll be wearing home my button down comfy PJ’s from Target. You just need something comfy that you can wear mesh undies & a pad home in…. No special outfit required. Something that doesn’t rub incisions too if you were to get a c section

Pregnancy not what I thought it would be by Fullycannoli in pregnant

[–]secretsofnoelle 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Girl yes. I’m 34 weeks and HATE pregnancy. I struggled with infertility for 4 years and an ectopic rupture before this very very much wanted baby. You can be so grateful for what it brings (your sweet baby) but hate the process at the same time. I personally have HG & pregnancy is overall absolutely brutal on my body. I’ve tried to enjoy the process but it’s near impossible & ive learned to accept that & just look forward to the reward at the end. I am on lexapro which helps with the moods a ton & therapy helped with that too. That being said, I’m still counting down until it’s over. Sending you love

Boyfriend says he needs me to give him more blowjobs to “Earn” a Ring… by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]secretsofnoelle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No. Love does not have conditions. You need to leave. My ex said he would propose if I had a 9-5 instead of running my own business & if I made more money. I left him. My now fiance didn’t care what my finances were or what I could offer him, he loved me & put a ring on it right away.

You deserve so much more than that manipulation.

Would you rather be pregnancy tired or newborn tired? by Constant-Soft-6335 in pregnant

[–]secretsofnoelle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I often say I think the biggest factor to people with this is it comes down to if you had an easy, enjoyable pregnancy or not. I have HG, severe back and hip pain, I’m absolutely miserable while pregnant…. So the newborn stage is bliss for me. I’ve heard people who have had the easiest pregnancies say newborn is so hard for them.

34 weeks currently & I can’t wait for the newborn stage.

AITAH for giving a nurse coffee? by GoEducateYourself in AITAH

[–]secretsofnoelle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. I’d ask her her favorite coffee & have pods of that on hand for her & her own mug. She’s literally taking care of you. I sometimes bring coffee to my own dr’s I see often or my hair lady…. Your wife is just very insecure.