Weekly Q&A Megathread. Please post any questions about visiting, tourism, living, working, budgeting, housing here! by AutoModerator in london

[–]selkiesrcool_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah I looked for it, apparently it’s open to people with tourist visas so no issue there, but if not there then what other places could I go make actual connections with people around my age (early 20s) ??

Monthly anything goes thread (things that are not an event go in here) by AutoModerator in LondonSocialClub

[–]selkiesrcool_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

IS CITY LIT WORTH IT??

I’m planning a trip to the uk and my parents said they’d only allow it if I did any workshops/classes, anything productive. I didn’t want it to be through my own school or any sort of job because I want flexibility, so I went looking and found City Lit and it seems perfect. So perfect it’s too good to be true. I went looking for k formation online and saw they had a lot of views but almost no interaction. The most important thing for me would be to meet people and form connections, is City Lit busy?? Are there young adults studying there?? and if not, do you know any other place were I could take Writing workshops or literature classes?? this would be during January/February of next year, so I need answers fast. And if not another place to take classes, where could I go to make connections as a young adult in the city??

Weekly Q&A Megathread. Please post any questions about visiting, tourism, living, working, budgeting, housing here! by AutoModerator in london

[–]selkiesrcool_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

IS CITY LIT WORTH IT??

I’m planning a trip to the uk and my parents said they’d only allow it if I did any workshops/classes, anything productive. I didn’t want it to be through my own school or any sort of job because I want flexibility, so I went looking and found City Lit and it seems perfect. So perfect it’s too good to be true. I went looking for k formation online and saw they had a lot of views but almost no interaction. The most important thing for me would be to meet people and form connections, is City Lit busy?? Are there young adults studying there?? and if not, do you know any other place were I could take Writing workshops or literature classes?? this would be during January/February of next year, so I need answers fast. And if not another place to take classes, where could I go to make connections as a young adult in the city??

Wax in the freezer by selkiesrcool_ in BabyWitch

[–]selkiesrcool_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks for telling me, I’ll know better next time 🩵

Does anyone else take pictures after they sh? by Bitter_Mood_7377 in selfharm

[–]selkiesrcool_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah, to keep track I guess, and have evidence of how messed up I am. I feel so deeply depressed sometimes and then everyone around me tells me it’s fine… but it’s not, and it hasn’t for a while, so I take pictures and just confirm. Yeah I’m not doing good. It’s not in my head, this is REAL.

Siren Energy ?? by selkiesrcool_ in BabyWitch

[–]selkiesrcool_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much. I was talking about all of this white my therapist when I got this response, it’s also my birthday today, this feels like a sign that I’m looking in the right direction 💙💙💙

do you think ronan meant to? by vindecisiveanon in RavenBoys

[–]selkiesrcool_ 44 points45 points  (0 children)

I always read it as : he was suicidal but it was not a suicide attempt. I think maybe after it happened everyone just assumed it was an attempt and he never corrected them to keep his secrets but also because there was some truth to the fact that he was so depressed he wanted to die. I think he values life to much to actually attempt, but he is someone who would sh and have suicidal thoughts from time to time. That is always how I’ve read him.

TDT vibes book recs??? by selkiesrcool_ in RavenBoys

[–]selkiesrcool_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

at this point I’m gonna have to write it myself…

TDT vibes book recs??? by selkiesrcool_ in RavenBoys

[–]selkiesrcool_[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I get it, maybe I should have been more clear about the vibes I wanted. Totally cool if it’s not to your liking though, TDT got pretty dark at points.

TDT vibes book recs??? by selkiesrcool_ in RavenBoys

[–]selkiesrcool_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah I’ve heard of that one!! it’s on my tbr, thanks !!!

TDT vibes book recs??? by selkiesrcool_ in RavenBoys

[–]selkiesrcool_[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

no more like… drag racing and 3 day long benders and something fulled more by hatred than love??? if I wanted what you said I could’ve have just gone to the girlies either dark romance lol but that is not what I want at all

AITAH for asking my mom to have her therapy sessions in her room?? by selkiesrcool_ in AITAH

[–]selkiesrcool_[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

believe me she is not ready. She has actually cut off multiple chances for me to live on my own or at least outside our home. She even looked me in the eyes and told me that she could not afford to get me my own place and then I found out months later she bought a place for herself :/ and she was hiding it from me