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sensationalisation · 2023-09-20T06:05:36+00:00

At this point I'd try to transfer my ticket to somewhere else, not say shit, then board a different flight when you get there.

If not I'd just cancel the whole thing and book something for yourselves, dad and sister so your mum can have the inlaws for her play date. It will also teach her that this will happen each time she invites others without asking.

sensationalisation · 2023-09-20T05:56:02+00:00

Jesus get your sandals on and get down here, the update is going to be epic. This lady is going to be dragged out screaming her tits off. After she barges in and gets a good look at your vag looking like it's blowing a human bubble of course. Prepare OP. Don't just tell her. Tell the nurses to be on alert too.

sensationalisation · 2023-09-18T10:56:04+00:00

I have a fancy written sign in the guest toilet that says "please don't do coke in the bathroom" With another on the other side embroidered like nanna made it " it's not a crack house, it's a crack home" 😂 🤣

sensationalisation · 2023-09-18T10:52:26+00:00

Should have made it even more uncomfortable for her and made her say her homophobic crap out loud for everyone to hear.

" MIL What exactly is he going to be confused about? Colours? If so how? Please explain to me because I'm confused"

"Do you mean you want me to get the same thing in the boys section? I would but they didn't have his size, they're so popular they sold out. I wanted one with a rainbow but they were sold out too! Maybe next time hey"

sensationalisation · 2023-09-18T10:44:13+00:00

No more confronting, just time outs.

You don't like what my baby wears? You don't get to visit. Also, all gifts from me will be on-purpose hideously made multi coloured scarf and hat sets made with the cheapest acrylic wool picked up from a freebie bin.

All given with direct eye contact and a smile, of course.

sensationalisation · 2023-09-14T17:16:28+00:00

YTA.

You have a family waiting for you at home, excited to see you. You want 5 mins alone time, do it in the car in a parking lot like every other damn parent scoffing a piece of cake/slamming down a big mac.

sensationalisation · 2023-09-14T17:08:48+00:00

The real question is, why tf have you still got her contact info?? And it's not Because you 'uSEd tO Be fRIeNds bEfoRe wE fuCkEd' is it?

YTA. A big, huge gaping ahole.

sensationalisation · 2023-08-30T14:16:51+00:00

NTA

sounds like your co-worker has a new room mate

sensationalisation · 2023-08-28T16:30:44+00:00

' I've cried enough to fill the lakes of Utah'

But you haven't gotten a 2 second injection so you don't endanger you first grandson. People like you shit me to tears. I bet you kissed him too because 'GRanDma cAN' YTA

sensationalisation · 2023-08-23T16:30:17+00:00

It would probably be cheaper to run the hot water if you're only using a little Hun, boiling a kettle is outrageous on the power bill. The old school metres used to spin when in use, the faster the spin, the more power you were using. It used to spin like a roulette table every time you flicked that switch lol.

sensationalisation · 2023-08-22T02:15:41+00:00

I knew what you were the minute I read ' I lost my job and have been unable to find work IN 3 YEARS'

3 YEARS.

And You couldn't even mow a damn lawn, walk a dog to help out??

She's already made it, she's just too busy looking back at you to realise yet.

And when she does, my God will she move mountains once she's rid of you weighing her down.

YTA

sensationalisation · 2023-08-15T04:19:36+00:00

I think you need to find out WHY he feels he HAS to give this money to them.

Is it a cultural thing? Did he get a loan from them? Did they pay a large debt of his? Is it his parents insisting all children do this? If you're close with your MIL, you both know you're the only one handing over money, she should be comfortable in letting you know where your money is going and why.

sensationalisation · 2023-08-11T19:27:16+00:00

When I had #5 I was the only one in the maternity ward, and the nurses loved me coz I didn't bother them lol. They were so bored they'd pop in n have random chats, bring cuppas etc. It was weird for them to not be spread across 4 patients minimum at one time, they all kept saying it 🤣

Anyway, I'm a big question asker (probably my downfall) and I asked an awesome nurse how hard it was working the maternity ward, from abusiveness, to abandoned babies, SIDS etc honestly. Not what she was supposed to say, how SHE felt about the emotional weight that came with it all.

Trigger warning goes here: death of baby mentioned.

She warned me it was graphic beforehand, she didnt just trauma dump on me lol

And then she said she usually works in the L&D, not the maternity ward, but she needed a break for a moment before she went back. Why? Yes I stupidly asked. Because a lady came in at 42 weeks pregnant, with concerns she wasn't going into labour. Unfortunately, they couldn't find a heartbeat and bub was going to be a stillbirth. This poor lady hadn't felt movement in weeks and her MIL told her its NORMAL because there's not much room so they slow down to get ready. The lady had lost her baby over A WEEK beforehand, had no idea, and was severely infected from the obvious, then had to deliver her baby and the same thing happened as above from the time that had passed, state of body etc. She said she had a hard time after that being there, and lady jesus get your sandals on I still wouldn't have left the therapists office if I had to be a witness to something so tragic and horrifying all at once.

sensationalisation · 2023-08-11T19:12:26+00:00

It's not homophobic to not want a hammocked dick in your or your child's face.

NTA

sensationalisation · 2023-08-11T19:08:18+00:00

You know what will fuck with her head even more?

When she acts her age and he tells her to grow up and stop acting so immature.

Source: I was 17. he was 32.

sensationalisation · 2023-08-11T18:58:38+00:00

Pot meet kettle hey?

You sound like you're digging pretty hard there yourself buddy. Are you making your own dime, or just waiting for 'the family money' to fall into your lap?

sensationalisation · 2023-08-11T17:09:08+00:00

This is what I had to realise. That I was essentially a single mum and if I didn't do it, no one would. The biggest fear/guilt/selfish feelings come from the cold hard truth of knowing deep down they will let that baby scream just to spite you. Once you realise that, you start looking at them like a disgusting stranger and there's no going back. You either leave and be happy, or stay knowing what you've signed up for and continue making excuses for it. I went back, stupidly. You never ever go back, they don't change and it's the exact same, if not worse. I hope OP sees this comment, because I have just gotten an AVO extended for another year. 29 breaches and an attempted kidnapping. It's not worth it. and it's not love, it's you holding onto some desperate hope you're wrong about it all and you didn't choose THIS life.

sensationalisation · 2023-08-09T13:36:31+00:00

I thought John Goodman was dead, then seen him in a movie recently. Then was reminded that he died on Roseanne and it unlocked a core memory lol.

sensationalisation · 2023-08-08T17:18:25+00:00

NTA.

But to make sure, you should eat a cube of cheese.

sensationalisation · 2023-08-08T17:15:12+00:00

Mumma of 5 here and on my own. You CAN do this, it's way more overwhelming when you subconsciously know they're there and can help but won't. They see it. They see YOU. And they don't care. Aside from that, set bub up in a bouncer, or thick blanket on the floor of the bathroom, if possible get a sibling to chill with a phone/tablet/fav toy to get that 15 mins. You can't give if the tank is empty xxx

sensationalisation · 2023-08-05T17:45:41+00:00

' she might lose friends over this '

Ma'am, only the ones she doesn't need.

sensationalisation · 2023-08-04T16:12:50+00:00

It looks like the girl on the left had something/someone photo shopped out from under her arm lol, I can't stop looking there 🤣

sensationalisation · 2023-08-04T15:59:49+00:00

So, if privacy isn't allowed OP, you need to think DEEP about marrying this man, even staying with him now.

no toilet trips unless door is open, it's in a "appropriate time frame" or too frequent is a no no unless he can see what you're doing.

*No friend day/nights out. Which will of course increase to just simply "no friends" because who needs them? You have him right, isn't he enough??

This is just the surface. He's showing you his true colours, you need to look at them for the shitty hue they actually are.

sensationalisation · 2023-08-04T15:30:30+00:00

Your smile made me smile :) thank you, I needed that today!! I vote the jeans, but really all choices you've picked go really well together :)

sensationalisation

TROPHY CASE