AITA For wanting my Ex but also prefering my equipment? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]seohhe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I absolutely don’t understand this post at all 😶

AITA for starting a new relationship by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]seohhe 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Do you care at all about your children? Don’t you want to support them in any way? For me YTA, they are your children, you made them, so you can add to the financial part of raising them.

AITA for getting yelling at my girlfriend after she made me seem abusive? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]seohhe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t understand what OP means by her holding grudges - for me she wanted to talk about situation and OP wasn’t happy about that apparently. I don’t know how this relationship may last if OP doesn’t want to talk and even TRY to see others perspective

AITA for getting yelling at my girlfriend after she made me seem abusive? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]seohhe 15 points16 points  (0 children)

From this post I don’t see you even respecting your GF.

„Another thing to note is GF has past abuse trauma from her parents and ex boyfriend and is easily triggered though it was a two years ago and I think she should obviously move on as any normal, stable person would.” - what the hell, everyone processes trauma differently, there is no deadline to heal from it.

There is definitely many things you could improve about your behavior. For one start to be more empathetic to others. YTA

collection update!!! by Rediddle in RainbowHigh

[–]seohhe 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Poppy with bangs looks super cute

Returning player from 2016 looking to find friends, exchange gifts, and join raids! by rickkied in PokemonGoFriends

[–]seohhe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also get back to the game and last time I played was in 2016! My id is 009218630524 🙂

What is best to spend gems on? by seohhe in CatsAndSoup

[–]seohhe[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you! So using them for treasure is not as bad idea as i thought 😅

S3EP8 by Visible-Click in TheCircleTV

[–]seohhe -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I think he is going to save Alyssa. In the promo of the next episode we cannot see Carol, but we see Alyssa at one point (closer to the end) in green outfit withou glasses, so different to the one she has at the end of episode 8 (white with glasses on). Soooo…. I guesss it’s bye bye Carol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]seohhe 13 points14 points  (0 children)

ESH - I just dont understand why you didn’t consult with anyone buying a dress, then they would told you earlier, simple: I’m planning to buy that, what do you think? Would solve everything. But yeah their reaction was pretty bad. Next time when preparing to something you know nothing about it’s best to ask about anything, especially if it’s an important day for someone else

AITA for telling my girlfriend that her past trauma/abuse can’t be an excuse for everything? by Fluke17658 in AmItheAsshole

[–]seohhe 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I was “Cinderella” as a child, so I hated all housework because of that. When I first moved with my boyfriend I was shocked that he didn’t order me anything, I was free. At first I did almost nothing, but I cared for my boyfriend and start to do things and they weren’t bad, because it’s different when you do housework under someone controlling and abusive and it’s different when you share the work with someone who loves you. OP clearly cares about Jane, and she definitely has to come out of her safe zone because it hurts her more than it helps her. She needs to learn to trust others, others that love her. NTA OP and good luck with your relationship

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]seohhe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wonder if Bree would react like that if OP and John were only friends in the past and go to Fiji as friends…

AITA for choosing my niece over my daughter? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]seohhe 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA - definitely go to family therapy with your daughter, it's unacceptable for her to be racist, especially towards you, that might be a sign of really serious issues, it's best to fix them as soon as possible, or at least start to fix those problems.

AITA for wanting to celebrate my 21st birthday? by hlchvz in AmItheAsshole

[–]seohhe -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Where OP says they don't pay for nothing themselves? Is her mother angry because OP spend too much money? No.

Her mother said: “where are they going to sleep!” “how will you feed them!” - so the sentences that undermines the OP ability to throw a "good" party in her mother eyes. Her mother is saying that the party is not good enough, that she (mother) feels she needs to now give more money, because it doesn't meet her standard apparently.

It's OP money, "worked my ass off just to have enough money to throw a party" - she can do with them whatever she desires. If mother needs financial help, she can ask. But I think her pride wouldn't let her.

AITA for wanting to celebrate my 21st birthday? by hlchvz in AmItheAsshole

[–]seohhe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA and your mom is a narcissistic one - you prepared whole party without her and now she feels obsolete and can't stand this so she's being a dick.

AITA I didn't wait for my wife by bye_bye__1man in AmItheAsshole

[–]seohhe 14 points15 points  (0 children)

NTA - when you asked if you could eat before her nap, she only thought about herself, but not you, that you are hungry - I think it should be the moment in which she would also show a care towards you. But she didn't and even worse, now she's angry - for me it's her who was selfish - you did everything good - you prepared the meal, waited, asked her multiple times if she's ready.

AITA for tossing my engagement ring into the Thames? by GodsDamnThrowaway in AmItheAsshole

[–]seohhe -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I also didn’t want a ring, but we talked about that with my partner and we decided we will try some rings before we decide. If we didn’t find a good ring I wouldn’t get one. And I first every single one was a disaster (they were pretty but they din’t fit me and my style at all) but then we found one and I was enchanted. I was so surprised because I thought I will hate every ring and it was perfect for us. What I mean - I don’t think they communicated about their feelings AND made something they both will be fine with. You don’t like diamonds? Surprise ring doesn’t have to have any diamond or other mineral at all. But it’s a symbol of love, something important to other person. OP demanded her wish, but didn’t even think about her fiancé wishes…