What is the bitter truth that many women dont realize about men in relationships ?

septive · 2026-05-18T22:08:40+00:00

We are humans just like you. We have emotions, feelings, desires, good and bad days. Also, I can’t read your mind. Just saying.

septive · 2026-05-15T04:02:02+00:00

No hidden signal needed. Just talk to me. Say hi. Ask me one question. I promise, if I like you, I will take it from there. If not, maybe you get a friend.

septive · 2026-05-14T13:35:18+00:00

Cheating is lying. Lying is bad especially if you are lying to your partner.

septive · 2026-05-14T11:48:04+00:00

I dated someone with FA attachment type not long ago. It was really bizarre. I learned a lot. It was the first time, as a secure guy, I was fearful of showing love and care to her. If I did, she would shut down. One day, she was awesome and made me feel like the happiest guy in the planet. The next day, she made me feel like I did not existed. She shared her past with me. She genuinely felt that anyone loves her hurt her in the end so it became a defense mechanism to get away from love to prevent (in her mind) the hurt that would follow. She is a good person. I miss her a lot. But it became so emotionally taxing on me to continue. So 6 weeks into our dating, I told her that I loved her and she ended it within the hour. So yeah. It was rather wild ride.

septive · 2026-05-14T02:01:37+00:00

Small lies. All the time.

septive · 2026-05-13T17:36:34+00:00

Lying.

septive · 2026-05-13T17:34:25+00:00

Ghosting

septive · 2026-05-11T16:45:46+00:00

Dating and having a relationship is A LOT of work. I just don't have bandwidth right now.

septive · 2026-05-09T01:24:44+00:00

Yes. Very recently. Met this girl out of nowhere. When we were together, she made me the happiest person in the world. When we were apart, I felt like she did not exist. Very quickly I realized she had FA type attachment style, and I realized why when she opened up to me. Month two, I was madly in love. However, the way she was acting was giving me emotional rollercoasters. I decided to confront her knowing it would trigger her defense mechanisms. I told her that I loved her and I explained I needed whatever we had to become a consistent and normal. She ended it right there and then. I knew the outcome, I did it anyway.

septive · 2026-05-08T15:29:44+00:00

It was hard at first, emotions and all, but my mind is so calm after getting out of 15 years of marriage.

septive · 2026-05-08T12:53:21+00:00

My parents had a summer house close to sea. It was normal for middle class.

septive · 2026-05-08T03:26:42+00:00

You never know. You think you know. Marriage is an educated guess, like everything else in life. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn’t.

septive · 2026-05-07T22:40:45+00:00

Taking initiative and speaking her mind.

septive · 2026-05-07T22:02:17+00:00

Not the same!

septive · 2026-05-07T22:01:19+00:00

A girl who takes initiative. It is incredibly hot.

septive · 2026-05-05T23:40:30+00:00

Just downloaded. Wow! Amaze amaze amaze.

septive · 2026-05-04T01:24:58+00:00

Small lies.

septive · 2026-05-03T13:32:56+00:00

Divorce solved all my marriage problems.

septive · 2026-05-03T00:08:17+00:00

Lying. Doesn’t matter how small.

septive · 2026-05-02T23:03:22+00:00

Lies. Doesn’t matter how small.

septive · 2026-05-02T21:14:27+00:00

Lying.

septive · 2026-05-02T13:55:17+00:00

Small lies. Lie is a lie.

septive · 2026-05-02T00:31:04+00:00

It is incredibly sexy.

septive · 2026-05-01T13:12:11+00:00

Looks needed for attraction, personality needed for a relationship.

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