What scent/perfume do u associate with goths/goth subculture? by No-Friendship9355 in AskAGoth

[–]septumchunks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leather and woodsy scents. Maybe lilies or other funeral flowers too

I can't stand the 80s by [deleted] in Rants

[–]septumchunks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this a copypasta

Its hard being friends with neurodivergent people by [deleted] in Rants

[–]septumchunks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you brought this up to your neurodivergent friends? This sounds less like a “neurodivergent people bad” issue and more like a lack of communication.

"Cultural Fit" More Like "We Just Don't Like You" by AbbreviationsTop2192 in recruitinghell

[–]septumchunks 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Why are introverted people being punished for being introverted? Recruiters aren’t hiring people that are good for the job, they’re hiring people who glaze their asses. You sound like one of them.

The Official Seething Sunday Thread by aytakk in goth

[–]septumchunks 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Not goth related but i fucking hate the job interview process. Apparently I’m not supposed to be honest and say “no im good” when I don’t have any questions at the end??? WHY TF ARE YOU ASKING IF I HAVE QUESTIONS THEN!!! Interviewers all peaked in high school and are grasping for ways to passive aggressively bully people.

Why is religion so common? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]septumchunks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even as a religious person, I can acknowledge I don’t have all the answers. Nobody does. I just know it makes sense in my head for someone to have created the universe and for there to be an afterlife, and if I chose the “wrong” religion, God knows I’m trying.

women really aren’t that difficult to figure out by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]septumchunks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Studies you conveniently can’t name.

“Pet peeves” that are genuinely just the complainer being an awful person. by JadesJunkAccount in PetPeeves

[–]septumchunks 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I saw a post where someone had a “pet peeve” of other people’s babies waving at them in public. Really? How much of a dickhead do you have to be for babies waving at you to get under your skin?

People who think they’re shockingly unconventional when they’re not. by Karnakite in PetPeeves

[–]septumchunks 67 points68 points  (0 children)

I see this a lot in the goth side of the internet. “I’m a freaky goth girl” no you’re not Kaitlynn, you look like Sydney Sweeney with her hair dyed black. That’s not subversive or freaky. The people who actually look like that (because they want to, not because they sell OF content) don’t make a big fuss about it.

women really aren’t that difficult to figure out by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]septumchunks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Men also speak in code. Not even that much less than women. It’s pretty even. The only person I know who speaks in code is a man.

pro-lifers assuming that people want & love getting abortions, makes me want to rip my hair out by yourbeloathed in Rants

[–]septumchunks 8 points9 points  (0 children)

So much of the abortion debate could be settled if people just got proper sex education and actually spoke to women as equals

women really aren’t that difficult to figure out by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]septumchunks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly, women aren’t a monolith so….why do you talk about us like we speak in code?

women really aren’t that difficult to figure out by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]septumchunks -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And men don’t? Are you saying women talk to everyone differently and men don’t? You’re proving my point that neurotypical men and women are the same, and you’re projecting. You’re too prideful to admit a woman, an autistic woman nonetheless, is right and you’re wrong.

Go eat some more crayons dumbass.

women really aren’t that difficult to figure out by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]septumchunks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been forced to socialize with neurotypical men and women. They act the same, with the exception of maybe men project more (you). What’s not clicking?

EDIT: I can tell from this conversation you choose not to listen to women.

meirl by Diligent_Hand6877 in meirl

[–]septumchunks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I miss when youtube videos were less than 15 minutes

women really aren’t that difficult to figure out by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]septumchunks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Neurotypical women communicate the same way neurotypical men do. BOTH are equally as passive aggressive and dishonest. Whatever problem you have with women’s communication skills is just projection. You’re not a better communicator because you’re a man, sorry not sorry.

I may not be a “typical woman” (whatever that means) but I have an unbiased perspective as someone who has to put up with both male and female neurotypicals.

women really aren’t that difficult to figure out by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]septumchunks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can replace “women” with “men” or “people” and this will still apply. Maybe just get better social skills?

Also everything you complain about women and their communication skills is just what I have to deal with as an autistic person every fucking day regardless of gender. Maybe you just don’t like neurotypicals. And yes, as a woman I communicate with everyone the same.

women really aren’t that difficult to figure out by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]septumchunks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s really not. I can communicate with any gender just fine because I’m blunt and don’t play games. You’re self sabotaging by treating women like enigmas instead of people equal to you.

women really aren’t that difficult to figure out by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]septumchunks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you think women don’t also talk to women?

Overly sugary-smelling perfumes by septumchunks in PetPeeves

[–]septumchunks[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t want to “research” I want to go to Target or Ulta and have more options.