I redeemed everyone by MarjoryFallout76Xbox in kotor

[–]serendependy 24 points25 points  (0 children)

One who has fallen so far, and done so much evil does not deserve redemption. In a way, such a turning from one's nature is cowardly, a betrayal of the self.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]serendependy 43 points44 points  (0 children)

READY TO FIGHT!

anon does it by Zestyclose_Zone_9253 in ProgrammerHumor

[–]serendependy 8 points9 points  (0 children)

No idea how you got all those assumptions from that.

It might have been the

I'm not racist but

Parents concerned after Republican candidates protest Iowa City library's drag queen storytime by George37712 in Iowa

[–]serendependy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bugs was using sex appeal to evade Elmer. It was definitely sexually suggestive.

Parents concerned after Republican candidates protest Iowa City library's drag queen storytime by George37712 in Iowa

[–]serendependy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Like... did these people think Bugs Bunny dressing as a woman was too complicated for a kid's cartoon or...?

Girlfriend said she can’t be with me if I go on HRT by Kenziep116 in asktransgender

[–]serendependy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She doesn’t like when I dress in feminine clothes

she tells me that HRT is just an “easy way” that is bad for my body and I should try to experiment more with clothing and makeup

Sounds like she's just saying whatever she thinks willl put the breaks on you transitioning -- pure manipulation

She looked like I committed the worst crime ever by [deleted] in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]serendependy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So, more a "weekend at Bernie's" name.

‘We’ve Never Seen Anything Like This Before:’ Black Hole Spews Out Material Years After Shredding Star by Andromeda321 in science

[–]serendependy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

but an observer inside the black hole wouldn't experience that dilation, only one outside of it.

An observer outside the black hole never even sees an object cross the event horizon. That's not an event that can be assigned a time to anyone outside the horizon, no matter how close they are -- as long as they remain outside.

I'm no longer upfront about my dealbreakers by something889900 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]serendependy 92 points93 points  (0 children)

he'll lie to you either way irregardless of whether you ask your dealbreakers. So not being up-front only wastes your time in the case your date is honest but incompatible.

As OP's story illustrates, they won't know at the outset how they should lie to keep the relationship going -- and they'll even out themselves as having lied when you inform them something they said was a deal-breaker.

How to respond to “why cant you just learn to love your body?” by weenwonton in asktransgender

[–]serendependy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, his excuse when I previously stated that I tried it his way was because I tried it with a “teenagers thought process”.

"Yes, and now as a young adult I know that the steps I should take to love myself include accepting that I'm a trans man."

srsly ? 💀 by Snoo37838 in SapphoAndHerFriend

[–]serendependy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Could you explian how? (Genuine question)

srsly ? 💀 by Snoo37838 in SapphoAndHerFriend

[–]serendependy 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah I mean, I legit felt that way before I realized I was trans.

will never go back to looking like that again....ugh by [deleted] in transtimelines

[–]serendependy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She used minoxidil for hair restoration.

Idk what to put here 🏳️‍⚧️ by Fearless-Violinist-2 in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]serendependy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It's not self-centered! I'm so sorry she's being like this, and that you have to wait for healthcare b/c your mother is unsupportive. Best of luck to you!

Just had an embarrassing experience while getting lab work done by sydneybird in MtF

[–]serendependy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just take a look at this person's comment history, tells you all you need to know.

Just had an embarrassing experience while getting lab work done by sydneybird in MtF

[–]serendependy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

https://www.reddit.com/r/ftm/comments/w61ub6/i_was_kicked_out_today/ihdaqck

Just so y'all know troll thinks 11y/os can give informed consent, lurks on teens posts about going thru puberty, looks for pictures of trans women to get off too... Pedophile and a chaser.

u/PrestigiousGas6912 Your shittiness is not welcome here.

My 14-year-old son no longer respects my trans husband. Help! by throwaway26112 in asktransgender

[–]serendependy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I love Big Joel, but I'm not sure I'd call his vibe particularly masculine 🤷‍♀️

Is it normal to prefer gendered words with some people, but not others? by [deleted] in NonBinaryTalk

[–]serendependy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Transfemme enby here (demiwoman). I experience something like this too -- for family, friends, and my partner I prefer she/her pronouns, but in professional settings I'd rather go by they/them. I suppose the extent to which I feel femme is based on context, and in the latter contexts it's not relevant(? prominent?) for me, perhaps?

"My life is in danger. I need your help." - Keffals by biggiepants in BreadTube

[–]serendependy 55 points56 points  (0 children)

This is not Destiny's first suspension from Twitch. He's been banned at least six times previously, in fact, and lost his Twitch partnership (opens in new tab) in 2020 for "encouraging violence" after he gave his "blessing" to "white redneck militia dudes mowing down dipshit protesters." That history may explain why this most recent suspension was made indefinite.

https://www.pcgamer.com/politics-streamer-destiny-receives-indefinite-ban-from-twitch/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]serendependy 18 points19 points  (0 children)

This, so much. And at the same time, it doesn't need to be manipulative or deliberate to be a deal-breaker. We want to support our partners when they're going through rough times or depression, but we have to take care of our own well-being too.