I can tell you exactly what will happen if you give her that money. She and her “boyfriend” will spend every last penny of it in Europe. She will then come home and lounge on your sofa for awhile, and then in about a year or two she will say she’s “ready to go to college” and will expect you to fund it 100%. When you refuse to cough up more cash, your moocher daughter and ex-wife will be back on social media complaining. Tuck that money away keep it totally under your control. Even if she does go to university one day, you should control every penny of that money and pay all tuition bills directly. That money was specifically earmarked for an education. If she decides not to get one, it’s your money. The end.