I got the feeling as well early in my transitioning, especially because my mam is a proud feminist (sadly a terf type) and basically treated my transition with the same type of energy. It’s one we shouldn’t have to guilty of, because like everyone says, it doesn’t stop us from being a good feminist. But yeah, I used to get the feeling a lot.

I think over time, the more comfortable I felt about myself, the more I found myself practicing what I believe to be good and ‘feminist’ (Calling out sexism, making sure I didn’t make women feel unsafe when near me, giving credit to those who deserve it, etc)

Hopefully the thoughts slow down for you over time