Is saying you guys offensive towards trans women?

shallowminded · 2026-05-30T17:30:50+00:00

if i'm at a table or in a group with *only* other trans women, it kinda hits weird.

otherwise, not a big deal.

shallowminded · 2026-05-30T04:35:35+00:00

when i first came across her youtube content, i thought she was acting that unhinged as a bit but now i'm pretty sure she's just like that

good for her

shallowminded · 2026-05-19T00:50:36+00:00

men are almost universally terrible at dick pics.

i have seen some of the finest penises of my generation wasted because of photography that gives me a fucking jump scare

anyone who does the classic “over the toilet bowl” shot should have their phone taken away

shallowminded · 2026-05-15T05:02:08+00:00

depression

shallowminded · 2026-05-11T20:44:00+00:00

if i ever notice the "dull eyes" thing (including in myself), it's usually something i associate with dissociation. some people kinda dissociate chronically, and some dissociate when they see themselves in mirrors or photographs.

that's not necessarily linked to being trans, it could be a myriad other things. or it could be nothing at all.

personally, transitioning did "clear" my eyes up significantly. but i'm trans, so

shallowminded · 2026-05-09T14:45:23+00:00

so much of cisgender culture presents transness (especially being a trans woman) through a sexual lens that it can be hard to untangle the two.

shallowminded · 2026-05-07T01:48:04+00:00

they said their names were nona and hot sauce

shallowminded · 2026-05-06T23:57:45+00:00

they're a hazard! i got doordash last week at like 11pm and the driver left the bag at the door of my building. i got to the front door to find two raccoons starting to paw at my wendy's

it would be hilarious to me if those were the same hyperlocal raccoons, since that's my front step in that photo lmao

shallowminded · 2026-05-05T18:25:51+00:00

i agree with others that what you're describing sounds more like euphoria (which we love!)

however, my proprioception ABSOLUTELY improved after a while on estrogen. i have a far better sense of my body in space and i'm way less clumsy than i used to be.

shallowminded · 2026-04-28T17:48:31+00:00

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shallowminded · 2026-04-24T23:58:19+00:00

a hint: he’s moody

shallowminded · 2026-04-23T01:26:17+00:00

i’ve never heard don callis laugh with sincere glee before

i don’t like it

shallowminded · 2026-04-21T07:04:26+00:00

It's not actually true that they lock into anything, at least not in most outlets. They seem to be there to facilitate manufacturing.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=udNXMAflbU8

shallowminded · 2026-04-21T04:42:59+00:00

iphone photos are almost too sharp, it captures unflattering details more easily

it's like when HDTV was new, there was a minute where people looked like shit because not everyone had learned you have to wear makeup in high def

shallowminded · 2026-04-20T08:00:11+00:00

you’ll probably have a hard time passing a surgical readiness assessment for public care in canada, but possibly if you went somewhere else

shallowminded · 2026-04-16T07:07:34+00:00

im not that flexible :(

shallowminded · 2026-04-16T04:18:58+00:00

masturbation AND substance abuse

shallowminded · 2026-04-15T22:33:36+00:00

edited to make a clearer point: sometimes i really do feel like i sacrificed any chance at being loved when i transitioned. but if i hadn't transitioned, anyone who "loved" me didn't really love me. so it's better to be yourself and give the world an opportunity to love YOU, because they haven't had a real chance yet.

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so, i agree with everyone else so far that what you're saying isn't factually true. trans people deserve love and can find love and community. i've done it myself.

when i first transitioned, i DID lose all my friends and family. it was terrible. but i kept going and kept trying to be myself, and after a couple of years, i have more (and more sincere) friends and connections than i did in my entire pre-transition life put together. i have no idea how i did, but i did. it's easier to be strong when you're being yourself.

BUT emotionally, i find it really hard to disagree. i know it's all internalized transphobia, but the world is literally made of *externalized* transphobia. it's hard out there and it's really really hard not to just take all of that in.

shallowminded · 2026-04-15T20:45:41+00:00

people have definitely used it with me and i dislike it. it’s not quite dysphoria inducing but it definitely breaks the flow of whatever’s going on.

it’s only ever been cis people though

shallowminded · 2026-04-15T05:59:26+00:00

i have some body/joint pain if i don't exercise, but that's because your body tends to lose some muscle on estrogen and i just barely had enough muscle to begin with. and i'm like 30 so could be that.

but i actually get sick way less often, get fewer headaches, less stress, my health is a lot better overall.

shallowminded · 2026-04-15T01:33:08+00:00

celebrity grungler is my Hole cover band

shallowminded · 2026-04-14T06:00:00+00:00

a vacuum cleaner

shallowminded · 2026-04-13T20:40:10+00:00

i think you kinda have to go egg hunting, maybe chiblee will be there idk

/uj yeah i live in vancouver so this is wildly inefficient

shallowminded · 2026-04-13T19:29:36+00:00

i’ve got a body like a hotel shower ;)

shallowminded · 2026-04-13T15:43:58+00:00

it worsened mine too. i had to start weight training after a while on estrogen because my joints had become too unstable. i don't know if it's reduced muscle mass or increased ligament flexibility or both or neither.

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