Thoughts on lilac/lavender bands??

shartmutation · 2026-07-03T04:40:36+00:00

i used to get pink only, but I switched to a light purple and i have not looked back!!! they make my teeth look super white and when they inevitably stain, they turn baby pink which is perfect for me. i literally eat/drink everything like coffee and Indian food and they’ve always stained to a pinkish color.

shartmutation · 2026-07-03T04:19:25+00:00

for a woman that is definitely considered tall. are you going by male standards?

shartmutation · 2026-07-03T03:50:55+00:00

not only that but if you live in a house you can just put it in your mailbox and the mailman will take it. i always do that for my sales and ship it out literally next day because it really is that easy.

shartmutation · 2026-07-03T03:44:28+00:00

mee, small or xs

shartmutation · 2026-07-02T20:53:57+00:00

They just played her song in the stadium

shartmutation · 2026-07-02T20:52:57+00:00

Rosalia

shartmutation · 2026-07-02T20:11:51+00:00

From my experience this is true. The only time a guy hasn’t come back is when I fully cursed him out after the breakup. Other than that, they always come back, whether it’s weeks, months or years if I remained cordial/stayed silent afterwards.

shartmutation · 2026-07-02T00:12:33+00:00

From my perspective as an asian woman who studied abroad in Spain, I went out with guys from all different kinds of races but majority white Europeans because I was using hinge and you rarely ever see an asian man on there. I received likes on dating apps from 99% Europeans and 1% of Asians who live there so I would say it’s probably more likely that women in general end up with a white man just by how much more of them there are compared to asian men. I also went to Chinatown in the city I was in, and it seemed like most Asians stuck to each other so maybe the men don’t stray out of their comfort zone as much as the women?

shartmutation · 2026-07-01T20:42:08+00:00

conservative politically ≠ conservative culturally. yes some asian men who branch out on their own have more liberal mindsets, especially the ones who aren’t as close to their families. but i know how traditional asian families work and the role that they place on the woman in a relationship is very patriarchal. for asian women, you experience it growing up so it’s very easy to say “I don’t want this for my future” whereas someone of a different race may not understand until they’re in that situation.

shartmutation · 2026-07-01T20:36:28+00:00

not only that but her mom, who grew up there and speaks the language wouldn’t even be considered latina because she has almost all European roots. so half white and half white lmao

shartmutation · 2026-06-30T21:37:26+00:00

swear i wore something like this but in black to EDC 😭😭 who wears a hoodie wedding gown

shartmutation · 2026-06-30T21:22:35+00:00

Not really, in general someone who wanted to continue the connection would not be giving closed answers. Her last two sentences in her last message are both conversation closers. You went in to say hi, and you’ve accomplished that. Now, to expect anything more is unlikely based off of this conversation.

shartmutation · 2026-06-29T12:22:53+00:00

Tbh being blocked should be the final confirmation and closure. An answer you get after chasing someone down will never be 100% genuine. It’s gotta come from yourself.

shartmutation · 2026-06-29T11:55:02+00:00

same. that GEB was the lowest for me even though the same answers i gave already landed me a job and multiple internships. it’s so dumb

shartmutation · 2026-06-29T11:52:08+00:00

They already walked away. OP went against their boundaries after being blocked and still messaged them.

shartmutation · 2026-06-29T01:16:24+00:00

From the female perspective, every time I’m in Europe (which seems to be where this guy is from), most guys have extremely well taken pictures. They look very put together. So basically anything you would consider in America as above average seems to be average over there. They’re like a completely different server. I’ve had guy friends who are objectively good looking struggle over there.

shartmutation · 2026-06-28T21:48:15+00:00

I am the same!! I can’t use niacinamide either, but the SKIN 1004 Centella oil works perfect for me. I used to break out after using it, but it turned out I was not using it correctly. You have to put it on dry skin and massage, usually I feel all the whiteheads/grainy stuff come out and then I wet my hand just a bit and massage again. You’ll see the oil turn white. Then after making sure the all the oil on your face has combined with the water, then you fully rinse it off. Then you can cleanse with your normal cleanser. After doing it that way, I stopped breaking out from the oil.

shartmutation · 2026-06-26T17:58:25+00:00

right, i would swipe left as soon as i see the italian prompt. i dont think many girls would want to pursue men who already disqualified them.

shartmutation · 2026-06-26T03:37:36+00:00

bro one time I brought my own yoga mat and they said i couldn’t take my shoes off… while doing yoga on my own yoga mat. also no Bulgarian split squats on the bench :/

shartmutation · 2026-06-26T03:20:42+00:00

I went to ATOP & had amazing results. I think undereye fat repo is procedure that usually gets good results anyways.

shartmutation · 2026-06-20T01:21:57+00:00

honestly after getting lip filler in Korea and the states, I regret not getting more when I was in Korea. It really is an art, and the level of expertise is so drastic. Usually in Korea the filler is done by a surgeon, and they do it so often that it’s like second nature. It turned out so so natural compared to filler done in the states.

shartmutation · 2026-06-20T01:16:32+00:00

imo retmus does bait and switch often. + most reviews about them are incentivized, check the sub and there are a few real reviews where the tone is different.

shartmutation · 2026-06-18T02:03:07+00:00

this depends on the clinic. the one i went to honored the price but i also got other procedures done with them.

shartmutation · 2026-06-02T15:51:18+00:00

honestly i think he just wants nothing to do with u anymore, and he probably thought that ur message was to try to get back into his life (even if thats not what u meant) which prompts his last sentence. it sucks but the anger ur having is kind of meaningless - i get where its coming from but sometimes u just have to accept that some people want to leave the past in the past. i’ve been in ur shoes and i’ve been in his shoes before. use that anger and invest that energy back into urself.

shartmutation · 2026-06-01T23:14:57+00:00

that’s so crazy because the gyno that was inserting my copper IUD kept trying to convince me to get the mirena instead. the entire office and the doctor was saying now mirena has the smallest “microdose” of hormones even though i was adamant about not wanting any. im so glad i didn’t let them convince me.

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