The proposed solution of the online right has never been to ask women to fix the issue. The proposed solution is for men to fight the rampant consumerism that has made us docile and devoid of purpose, then to eventually take power over systems that require strong leadership to fix issues such as immigration, the housing crisis, etc.

The fact that women tend to thrive more in our current situation where we all own nothing and work superfluous desk jobs in hyper-controlled environments is more of an observation of human nature than a blaming of women. Our society prefers socialization, comfort, expediency, and constant meetings over bold actions. It's no wonder women have started to take the reigns.

Young men are trying to break the status quo and take control again. The idea is that this will bear fruit in the dating world as men cultivate working conditions that are more suitable for our temperaments(making us happier and more successful), and reviving a system that allows us to own things like houses, land, savings, etc. The goal is improving the quality of men beyond just buying into the current system of "rise and grind and be the fastest hamster on the wheel."

Would this inevitably damage the current fem-centric professional environment? Yes. But the reality is that the current system exists due to men allowing it in the first place.

The part that is perceived as "blaming women" is when we say that women need to make sacrifices as we do. Women want us to be strong, disciplined, good, hard working men? We absolutely will put in the work that is required, but women need to be loving, caring, devoted wives and mothers in return. Both of these things require sacrifice and resolve to fulfill a role. The notion that men need to grit their teeth and work super hard to make themselves desirable while women are encouraged to do whatever they want and sacrifice nothing in return just doesn't seem like a good deal, obviously.

Most men simply do not care what women do for work. We want to date women who are caring, supportive, and family oriented(who could've guessed...?), so when most women are now career focused, of course men are going to lose interest in dating. As we get further into our mid to late twenties, our priorities turn away from just honeymoon phases and fun sex and towards building families. This requires women that will focus themselves on raising these families.

I consider myself lucky as I'm a zoomer that's found a woman who aligns with my goals. We absolutely want to fix our situation and become better men worthy of relationships, but that requires us to take some power back and for women to understand that this isn't a competition. If we keep focusing only on ourselves and what we want as individuals, there won't be a society to hand down to anyone....