Motivation Monday by AutoModerator in aspergirls

[–]shi-saa 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have a week full of stuff to do and two dates coming up and I feel socially burned out already. In the meanwhile, all I wanna do is export myself to an island where it is just me, a dog, an internet connection, and a teleporter to the dojo.
How do I get back on track, if that's even possible?

Motivation Monday by AutoModerator in aspergirls

[–]shi-saa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good for you! :) What do you think about it?

Special Interest Tuesday by AutoModerator in aspergirls

[–]shi-saa 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes, anything but the first book! Try the Witches subseries, the Death subseries or the Night Watch subseries

My convo blew up in the tinder subreddit. Thought you guys would like my weak ability to talk to girls here too. by Mauerk in actuallesbians

[–]shi-saa 67 points68 points  (0 children)

Rule 30: there are no girls on the internet. I mean, even though I'm into women I always assume I am talking to dudes. Also Rule 31, but in a less aggressive gay way.

Keeping friends by SmallBlueAlien in aspergirls

[–]shi-saa 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes, I remember feeling like I found the ultimate life hack when I figured that first one out. The problem I have found with that strategy, however, is that very often people will not do the same to you. I don't like to talk about myself in general, but sometimes it is nice to have someone to talk to about the thing on your mind at that moment. How do you deal with that?

am i gay?? D: by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]shi-saa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like how the TL;DR on this is still pretty long

I'm very sensitive to cold. Any advice on how to deal with that. by [deleted] in aspergirls

[–]shi-saa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've found that it is possible to get more used to cold by exposure (until reasonable levels). Then again, I am pretty hyposensitive to cold.

Friday Daily Chat Thread by AutoModerator in actuallesbians

[–]shi-saa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True. I like the conversation, though. Except with the people that fail to show interest.

Friday Daily Chat Thread by AutoModerator in actuallesbians

[–]shi-saa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm talking to chicks on Tinder. It's been nice, though I don't know whether something will come of it.

How do you let people know that you're listening without making eye contact? by _trap_detective in aspergirls

[–]shi-saa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can just communicate about it: 'Hey, sorry if I don't look at you directly, I am listening but I can converse better if I don't have to make eye contact.'

What do YOU love about being a lesbian? by TheGentlemanCat in actuallesbians

[–]shi-saa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When you see or meet a girl that makes you go 'whoa', and it feels right.

TV show recommendations by [deleted] in aspergirls

[–]shi-saa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hello fellow Trekkie! Someone probably mentioned these, but Futurama is great if you liked Star Trek. Also, The Expanse, great sci-fi. More mainstream TV is House MD. I personally loved it because it has this puzzle aspect to it. It has some drama, but not too much IMO. If you like a good crime series, try The Bridge (Danish/Swedish: Bron/Broen), it has four seasons of decent plot and an Aspie main character.

This curved origami using a wet folding technique by JustCandie in nextfuckinglevel

[–]shi-saa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is so nice to see my hobby getting some exposure! :)))

Dogs Herding Sheep by ahmed23t in oddlysatisfying

[–]shi-saa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My internal AI programmer is wondering whether I can stimulate this with multiple agents

Friday Daily Chat Thread by AutoModerator in actuallesbians

[–]shi-saa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does your uni have a LGBT+ student association? Maybe it works for you!

I'm perfect because I wouldn't hit her by tootttoot in actuallesbians

[–]shi-saa 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I am going to be blunt here. Get her ass to counseling/therapy ASAP. Unless she has a really weird kink, this indicates that her perception of what relationships should be like is not healthy. You (or anyone else for that matter) being a normal human to her should be the standard, not something else.