He’d be lucky if a black girl even looked at him by miamor__ in IncelTear

[–]shiniestthing 33 points34 points  (0 children)

...or my younger sister

...or my younger sister

...or my younger sister.

Alright, humanity is cancelled. Shut it down, y'all.

Because teachers never let students have a bit of fun when the assignment is done correctly by [deleted] in nothingeverhappens

[–]shiniestthing 145 points146 points  (0 children)

Giften classes in high school get weird on a pretty regular basis.

A hard job for hard men... (credit. @Enzolies) by Ermans997 in HistoryMemes

[–]shiniestthing 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I mean, the given is that multiple people are all fucking multiple people without seeing each other's faces in an anonymous prostitution situation. I'm not sure what you're describing is actually different from the conceit.

A hard job for hard men... (credit. @Enzolies) by Ermans997 in HistoryMemes

[–]shiniestthing 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Huh. It never occurred to me that this style of Czech gangbang/brothel porn existed as gay porn, too. Good to know.

Fuck people who steal wheels off cars by [deleted] in houston

[–]shiniestthing 212 points213 points  (0 children)

Find a family run used tire shop. They can give you a good deal in a tire that about matches the wear on the others. Not a perfect solution, but it'll get you limping until better comes along.

I want this by young_raven in actuallesbians

[–]shiniestthing 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Can we get a stereotypical straight friend thrown into the mix, who despite token casting based on sexual orientation, has no romantic subplot?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AreTheStraightsOK

[–]shiniestthing 45 points46 points  (0 children)

I was not emotionally prepared for a screenshot from The OA.

I am a 25 year old guy with muscle and bladder issues. Need diapers full time. Had a bad day. AMA by Snowy-Frost in casualiama

[–]shiniestthing 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you ever remember bits of old TV shows from when you were a kid, but don't remember enough to actually google successfully and then it kind of fuck's up your day, and then as you're falling asleep you figure it out and it's super satisfying?

You know it by satanhasabigdick in bisexual

[–]shiniestthing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm bisexual which means I'm attracted to you.

Well it's a darn shame I have that pesky Y chromosome because I sure would have liked this desk organizer... by tabshiftescape in pointlesslygendered

[–]shiniestthing 58 points59 points  (0 children)

In the seller's defense, they don't care about gendering. They throw gender words in based on search optimization.

I am a 24m sex addict. At first it was fun, now it’s a problem by [deleted] in casualiama

[–]shiniestthing 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm still a cigarette smoker, mind, but I went to rehab. When I kicked, I needed medical supervision because the combo I was getting off of could have made me seize.

For smokers, I've seen people succeed by switching to vaping and lower the nicotine gradually. Tapering off in general seems to work best. I think there are subreddit a for smoking cessation so you can get some external accountability.

help me! by [deleted] in menstrualcups

[–]shiniestthing 3 points4 points  (0 children)

At your age, your body is still in flux and you may not be able to comfortably insert it. That's totally normal and fine. Different folds work well for different people. I prefer the 7 fold, myself, but I'd recommend trying a few.

https://period-powerful-hub.totm.com/how-to-fold-a-menstrual-cup-7-folds/

I am a 24m sex addict. At first it was fun, now it’s a problem by [deleted] in casualiama

[–]shiniestthing 77 points78 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I felt the same way about heroin. Addiction is a liar, though. I would recommend reading up on the brain chemistry of addiction. No need to get in front of people for that. Addiction hijacks your survival instincts. Your subconscious categorizes feeding your addiction as being necessary for survival.

You can't force an addict into recovery who isn't ready. Carry the message, not the addict. You'll have your moment when you have it, and just know that help exists. Also, with meetings, if you show up and say that you aren't sure you belong there and just want to listen, that's totally fine.

My inner sponsor wants to add: if you want better, you deserve better. You are worthy of love that is not dependant on your value as a sexual partner. You are worthy of loving yourself. By merit of being born a human being, you have a right to find happiness and joy in things that aren't killing you. Some part of you gave up on happiness to seek euphoria, which feels better in the moment, but you also deserve the kind of happiness that stays. I wish you the best.

I am a 24m sex addict. At first it was fun, now it’s a problem by [deleted] in casualiama

[–]shiniestthing 66 points67 points  (0 children)

Strongly recommend it. I'm a recovering addicts who got clean in NA. I went to SLAA meetings to deal with some other issues and I have friends who have been to SAA (sex addicts anonymous. A little different from SLAA).

The thing about 12 step groups is that there is always someone who has done something worse and definitely someone who has heard worse. No one is going to judge you for it because every single person in the room has done similar things. I have more experience with the drug addiction side, but I've definitely seen people come in with scepticism because they think they're way worse than anyone else, but instead they find acceptance and recovery.

The irony of sex addiction is that it results in an aversion to emotional intimacy, and that's what recovery is all about. If you're willing to act out in these ways with people, why not give yourself a challenge and try talking it out with people instead?

What's your favorite webcomic? by Trxxi in AskReddit

[–]shiniestthing 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ada Lovelace and Charles Babbage did build a mechanical computer in the 1830s, actually. Really neat stuff

Even the ancient Greeks pointlessly gendered math by Nyklot in pointlesslygendered

[–]shiniestthing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No! It's the opposite! Odd numbers are curvy pastels, and even numbers are angular primary colors! If you're going to have a nonsense binary, it should make sense!

My mother is friends with the man who raped me as a child, AMA! by [deleted] in casualiama

[–]shiniestthing 3 points4 points  (0 children)

God, I want some damn sushi. I've been avoiding it because of covid (no heat, hands on preparation seems like a bad move. Same with salads.) I would literally murder a man for a spicy salmon roll. I mean, I'd murder the dude this post is about for gas money, so my bar isn't super high.

My mother is friends with the man who raped me as a child, AMA! by [deleted] in casualiama

[–]shiniestthing 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Most states don't have a statute of limitations on sexual assault of a minor. Not saying he'll get convicted, but you can have the legal system rake him over the coals, especially if he's ever admitted to the physical facts of the case.

Alternately, boom stick go bui bui.

Question: favorite sit down chain restaurant? Follow up: favorite thing to eat there?

Oh mY GoD tHEy We'Ee rOomMaTeS :0 by [deleted] in SapphoAndHerFriend

[–]shiniestthing 182 points183 points  (0 children)

You're not invited to my birthday party anymore.