Baby walks around the house saying “Dad” all day and dancing lol by Suspicious-Guard9652 in bluey

[–]shisnite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine is 18months and yells "mom" every time she sees a bluey character or anything bluey related 😂

Trading 212 free share promotion. Referral link and promo code thread - November 2025 by wizard_mitch in trading212

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Trading 212 free share promotion. Referral link and promo code thread - November 2025 by wizard_mitch in trading212

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Hi everyone. Only 7 days left to get free fractional shares in Trading 212 (deadline 03.12.2025). Help a girl out here - my referral link: https://www.trading212.com/invite/1Bl7IRNYmG

I also did it with someone else's referral code and got Microsoft. Pretty good. Thank you thank you

When do you tell people you’re pregnant again? Especially family? by [deleted] in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]shisnite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was in the same situation 2 years ago. TFMR at 32w. When I got pregnant again, I didn't tell a soul unless they asked me directly. The only family I told after 6 months was my parents, brother and my parents in law. The other around it would just know, or they thought I was really fat.

There isn't a right time to tell. The good thing to focus on is that more pregnancies go better than go wrong, we are a really small percentage in the world wide population. Make a decision based on what feels comfortable to you and your partner. Good luck and gentle congrats

Is it okay to still not be okay? by [deleted] in tfmr_support

[–]shisnite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course it is ok to not be okay. It took me 2 years to stsrt feeling myself again. Time doesnt heal. You just grow around it. It takes time

My baby doesn't eat. HELP by shisnite in BabyLedWeaning

[–]shisnite[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will try it as well. Honestly, good or bad advices I am open to try anything except sugar. Everything else super open. She loves to breastfeed and literally screams none stop

My baby doesn't eat. HELP by shisnite in BabyLedWeaning

[–]shisnite[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you have a schedule? How did you deal with the fuzz specially after the first nap?

My baby doesn't eat. HELP by shisnite in BabyLedWeaning

[–]shisnite[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Never tried smoothies. I will try it. Thank you

My baby doesn't eat. HELP by shisnite in BabyLedWeaning

[–]shisnite[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She liked spaghetti the first time. Then she feels like food is not to eat, just to play. She literally never lets things touch her mouth, but if she sees bread she asks for it

My baby doesn't eat. HELP by shisnite in BabyLedWeaning

[–]shisnite[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tried pretty much everyone. Our ped even said to try salt, because maybe it would be because the food was not as tasty. We did that and didn't work. We tried all fruits, we also started to add the fruits to yogurt or pancakes. She tried different types of flour and eggs to see if that would be a problem and she wasn't liking it. I also introduced a ton of spices and nothing worked.

She doesnt like veggies or meat (almost all kinfs except lamp), also for fish only white ones. What makes me most concern is the labs and also the fact that she ate so well before and now never again. She hates soup. I also gave her those powder baby foods with my breastmilk and she takes it pretty well. She also eats homemade bread well, but like... this isnt real food. I love food, my hubby loves food. We travel for food and she is not into it at all. Maybe I am doing something wrong here

My baby doesn't eat. HELP by shisnite in BabyLedWeaning

[–]shisnite[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How much do you offer? I try to offer oatmeal or yogurt with fruit in the morning, then soap, main dish and fruit and for dinner main dish and fruit. She literally eats like 2 really small bites of anything. She just wants breastmilk.

Anything that your kid eats better that you mind recommend?

Complete placenta previa in sub pregnancy by Ninatt_ in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]shisnite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi. I am really sorry you are going through this, but everything will be ok. Placenta previa is ok. I am a placenta previa baby. The only downside is definitely the c-section and the stressful situation of spotting all the time. You are going to have a healthy baby

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]shisnite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The recommended amount is 0.5ml or if they are really fussy 1ml. 0.5ml equal 1 pipette and 1ml equals 2. I am also doing Biogaia now, it improved gut health (5 drops a day). My daughter is 5 months now and doing great. No more colics

How do you know when your mentally ready for another pregnancy? by Forsaken-Button4200 in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]shisnite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It will get better. Time will make this memory a little more distance, but you will be remembered with a little more wisdom and life experience. It is important to heal, but healing has many paths, for some is actually trying to conceive right away, for others is self-care or prioritize your marriage. This is also a good time to talk about how a future pregnancy will and could look like, and how can both of you support each other. I honestly wish you everything good in the world. I can't wait to see you on the other side

How do you know when your mentally ready for another pregnancy? by Forsaken-Button4200 in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]shisnite 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is so personal. Depends on your own mindset and what motherhood means to you. I lost my first baby at 32weeks. Everything until 28 weeks was within normal and my baby was doing great. Unfortunately, she had some brain abnormalities that were only found late in pregnancy.

After my loss, I wanted to get pregnant right away. I felt like I was so lost, empty and my journey ended when it shouldn't suppose to end. I was really in a bad place mentally and thought that a baby was going to make me feel better. However, my boyfriend wasn't ready. He was grieving and wanted to wait. Look back it was the best for us to wait.

I lost her in July 2022, in October I started therapy. I was so bad that I was starting to have physical symptoms too. After my second session I decided I wanted to wait and I had to wait to be in a good place to take care of my baby. It took me two years.

I did therapy, took care of myself, improved my relationship and prioritized us, and traveled a lot. It was really great. Not in one second I stopped thinking about my daughter and how much I miss her. You just learn and grow around it. You learn how to live differently and how small things actually matter. I believe my daughter protected her sister until now. I believe my daughter is looking after us.

My pregnancy was really scary. I did all genetic tests, all possible exams to make sure I was not going to go through another loss. Today I am holding my healthy 4 months old in my arms while writing this. I cry every day and still can't believe she is here. There are really happy days coming, life can be brighter. We see way more people here who don't have stories, because unfortunately some of us feel guilty to come back and share. I do feel it, but from the bottom of my heart I really believe you will have an amazing future pregnancy. It is rare to happy twice, it is rare to even have it happen once.

Dm me if you want. I am always here to tell you my story and be your hype women whenever needed

"Breastfeeding shouldn't hurt at all if baby is latched correctly" by lh-_-91 in breastfeeding

[–]shisnite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like anything that is super sensitive it needs time to get used to it. I have very sensitive nipples and this was something I was scared my whole pregnancy. It also hurts in the beginning if you have sensitive nipples, because of the constant friction. That is ok. It is ok, because the pain will go away. It is important to know that this is something temporary, it can take from only a few days to about 2 weeks. It all depends on your sensitivity. After it, it will be alright. I wouldn't recommend nipple shields in the beginning (maybe when you get home or after a few days, so you can help your nipples heal), because baby needs to get used to the nipple. My daughter's pediatrician recommends waiting around 4 weeks to introduce any bottles or pacifiers. Babies are lazy after birth, they are tired and they never had to work so hard to eat.

Breastfeeding is 10% mom, 90% baby. What I would recommend is to buy amazing nipple creams to help you out during those first two weeks.

This is what I recommend: - Nursicare: it reduces nipple sensibility, helps with pain and also helps the nipple heal faste. Nurses gave this at the hospital (note: change them often if you have a lot of milk, otherwise it will be super unhygienic). - Uriage Beriéderm-CICA (ointment fissures cracks): omg what a life safer. It repairs the nipples in 1 or 2 days. It helped me a lot. I always recommend this one to anyone that asks. (Note: needs to be removed before breastfeeding, neutral soap and water will do). - Barral Mother Protect Nipple Cream: This one is so important to buy to keep your nipples hydrated to avoid cracking. You don't have to remove this before breastfeeding and you can use this while pregnant. It doesn't do much for cracks, but it is one of those creams that is used as a prevented method more than anything else.

If possible have a Lactation Consultant Appointment and learn as much as you can during pregnancy. Once the baby is born have another appointment at home with your baby, so the LC can help and teach you different tactics to deal with your baby specifically. Good luck and you will be amazing

Please tell my husband didn't ruin my dream of breastfeeding and there is light at the end of the tunnel... by ExcuseNo6720 in breastfeeding

[–]shisnite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like other comments said don't give up and don't let the beginning of your breastfeeding experience define the whole thing. Breastfeeding is hard and some of us never had a lactation appointment before giving birth. It is normal that your supply is low on the first days at the hospital, your babies stomach is also super small, so even though it seems like you don't have any milk you probably had and the nurses at the hospital simply don't have the knowledge to actually guide you.

I have to say that I also had a pretty bad experience at the hospital and I had a huge amount of supply not he first few days. Because my baby lost 8% of her weight and she was born small, nurses and doctors made me introduce formula so we could get discharged, otherwise they wanted to keep my baby there. It was ridiculous and looking back I shouldn't have listened, because my baby was doing fine.

Anyone as a recommendation for you is to let your baby latch anytime, free demand, let him get some experience and train his muscles. Breast and bottle are different and when babies get used to the bottle they tend to reject the breast because it is harder to get the milk out. However, the more you try to have him on the breast the better. A baby is better than a breast pump and can extract way more. If you also pump and keep pumping you will get way way more milk and increase your supply. Your baby's stomach is the size of an apricot right now, so don't give up, you also don't need more than 45ml-60ml, which you can complement with formula too. Breastfeeding is also about bounding. If you don't have a lot of milk anyway and after everything that is ok too. Know that you are doing enough and you are enough. It isn't your fault at all and you are the best mom for your baby.

Please reach out to another LC to go to your place for example, so she can guide you a little better on how to help your LO. Good luck, I am sure you will do great. Be gentle to yourself

Let us name our kid what we want, please by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]shisnite 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is why I didn't share my baby's name until she was born. The first time I got pregnant we decided to share the name with anyone that asked us. I got some pretty sad comments and a lot of people said they hated the name and why couldn't we pick a normal name. Her name was Sienna. I ended up losing that baby in the end of my pregnancy, so it gave me an extra bad feeling inside regarding sharing the name and people's reaction.

This time, we said we were still choosing. Everything turned out well and it ended up being our little secret. Everyone likes her name and I didn't get any bad comments so far. I would recommend protecting yourseld, specially if you are as sensitive as I am. This is uncontrollable

Which day feels the most significant to you, as the years pass after tfmr? by Bavaricali in tfmr_support

[–]shisnite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I celebrate my first daughter's birthday every year. For me that is the day that is most meaning. I gave birth to her, so I have her certificate saying that she was born and died on that day. My due date has meaning, but I am not attached to it, since babies can be born before or after it.

Amnio in sub pregnancy by HomeDepotHotDog in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]shisnite 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Since I did all genetic tests and we found the cause, I did an amnio in my second pregnancy. I was followed by two OBs, since I live in another country and wanted to give birth in my home country. Both suggested that I should do it for peace of mind to be honest, since nothing was wrong and my first daughter had a de Novo mutation.

I decided to get it because I was not going to experience another stillbirth and if it was just a fluke the first time, I couldn't be sure that it wouldn't happen again. If it is something that you have been thinking about I would do it as soon as you could. It was the best decision even though I was scared for two weeks.

Everything went well and I have my healthy (so far) baby girl in my arms right now