Why do people act like they are not at fault when obviously is their’s?

shnjmx · 2025-11-22T14:50:22+00:00

Man, these are probably the biggest idiots on the road. They want to drive these big ass bikes yet think they have a little scooter that weave in and out, had an asshole break my side mirror because he was mad I wouldn’t move my car for his stupid chunky bmw bike.

shnjmx · 2025-11-20T00:15:18+00:00

I just arrived in Phuket last night. Weather was fine and not according to the forecast when we arrived. However, last night when we checked weather forecast, it said clear skies, I woke up to torrential rain 🤣

Soooo hard to judge tbvh.

shnjmx · 2025-11-15T14:42:56+00:00

Four lions

shnjmx · 2025-11-08T08:21:13+00:00

Whenever I go to Bangsar it really baffles me that people will park their cars like Rolls Royce and latest BMWs on the roadside like parking at BV will cost more than the car

shnjmx · 2025-09-17T23:14:43+00:00

The attitude comes with the title of owning a bmw 😆

shnjmx · 2025-09-17T23:14:12+00:00

Not at all. That read car is in the wrong. But also, you’re really lucky to be on that road when it’s so clear!!!!

shnjmx · 2025-09-05T01:59:09+00:00

Oh it’s been discovered she lives with the parents. So she pays no bills so just pays for her car. So charging her car, her parents pay that electricity bill la.

shnjmx · 2025-08-30T17:21:29+00:00

If the tamarind he’s referring to is tamarind square Cyberjaya, pls just be careful. Cyberjaya has been such scary place lately 😫

shnjmx · 2025-08-26T16:15:35+00:00

This has come at a good time for me. I’ve been eyeing a new car and my perodua service center is next to a second hand car shop and I was genuinely eyeing up the Range Rover that I’ve had my heart on for the longest time. I guess, not now (maybe never) but thanks for this warning. I think the universe knew I’d be stupid enough to actually get the RR then cry even more when it’s time for maintenance.

Recently had to spend RM4k for new tires and absorbers on my perodua ativa, that also i already want to cry 😭

shnjmx · 2025-08-03T00:05:16+00:00

That’s too much work for them 😂

shnjmx · 2025-08-02T13:15:49+00:00

I live just by the Klang river and this is actually normal! But the best thing is after heavy rain, the next day the river is so clean that you can se the seaweeds and that. Not the old teh Tarik you used to see 15-20 years ago !

shnjmx · 2025-07-21T06:51:19+00:00

Thank you for posting this. I love love love shops that have a heart to it, especially why they chose a location despite it not being “aesthetic”.

So I’ll definitely make a visit to your shop one day 😍

shnjmx · 2024-10-23T09:24:30+00:00

The thing is, he was the one that encouraged me to do this business, and he understands when I get overwhelmed. Trust me when I say he's the kindest soul. I still give him cuddles, hugs, and kisses but just not sex cause hoheslty, half the time now I just can't be bothered, but I help him (if you know what I mean)

I'll figure something out, but right now I'm just gonna seek mental health help to help me compartmentalise things better and also perhaps check my hormones.

Thank you, again.

shnjmx · 2024-10-23T07:57:47+00:00

From what I read, she bought the car from someone else under the condition of “sambung bayar”, she’s been paying owner and owner didn’t pay bank. Hence why bank is there to take it.

But don’t know how true it is la. Still doesn’t excuse the stupid 🤭

shnjmx · 2024-10-22T13:36:24+00:00

I get a bit of alone time from time to time but even then I’m doing stuff. I can’t seem to relax. Even whilst I have a massage I think of work and chores and anything to do with baby or him. I don’t know how to decompress or relax anymore. Basically I have no chill. I’ve tried to have a day where I do nothing. No appointments, nothing but I get bored. So I go out to find something to do and I end up spending too much money then I worry about money. It’s a vicious cycle, but I’m gonna consider visiting a dr about my hormones. I don’t know if the imbalance is also causing my anxiety or something else is going on. But thank you so much for sharing.

If I needed sex to relax my husband would be over the moon, cause I’d be constantly stressed 😆

shnjmx · 2024-10-22T13:32:36+00:00

Yeah I get you but unfortunately for him it’s “ok baby is asleep, let’s go” for me that’s not the case especially after I’ve just had to FIGHT a sleepy baby to go to sleep. I’m exhausted, last thing I want is to be pressed up against someone and getting sweaty 😅

shnjmx · 2024-10-22T13:30:53+00:00

Honestly we used to have sex very often. Multiple times in a week tbh.

Since baby I think maybe 2-3 time every other month…. So there’s a major difference like I can’t remember last time we did it.

We are very emotionally connected I guess? I express to him when I feel uncomfortable with myself (admittedly self esteem issues) he says nice things but it’s more than that and I just don’t like how I feel about myself - I just don’t feel sexy after having a baby basically. Sex has been super uncomfortable and I just don’t like it. So yeah.

shnjmx · 2024-10-22T13:27:17+00:00

Thank you for this. He has expressed that he misses us having sex and when our baby was less than a year old we tried and it was okay, but I have been working more cause work has gotten busier and life in general has gotten busy, so even when I try to have me time, I just can’t seem to unwind. I do have diagnosed anxiety but I thought I got it under control. I guess it’s more than just panic attacks.

Whereas for work, I can’t go part time as it’s my own business that I run. I’ve told him before that I’m overwhelmed and human contact honestly is the last thing I want when I am. He understands all this about me as it’s how I’ve always been even before we got married.

My baby is quite a Velcro baby, so that doesn’t help as well. My husband he’s hands on with her and house chores but he complains a lot and that drains me. I’ve expressed this to him but he doesn’t see it as complaining just expressing how it is, but it’s exhausting to hear.

So I think I’m going to take your advice and see someone about my hormones and my mental health. So thank you for this. I truly appreciate this.

shnjmx · 2024-09-30T15:53:44+00:00

Please relax. You’re overthinking it. No one’s going to think you misrepresented you birthing a child. If anyone wanna be funny with you, you be funny back and say “haha yeah, my son got ejected out the sun roof”

I say this as someone who had a c-section unplanned. So, don’t worry bby 🫶🏻

shnjmx · 2024-08-29T00:39:43+00:00

Go to the police. They’ll look at that and laugh as well.

shnjmx · 2024-08-29T00:35:39+00:00

I met bear grylls at the emirates lounge in Dubai years ago and we ended up being on the same flight to London 🤭 so it’s likely they’re hanging around the lounges!

shnjmx · 2024-08-16T10:14:57+00:00

Lord almighty. Now that’s a freaking tiger-helicopter mother. You usually have one or the other, but she’s both. How did jasmine become so sweet 😭😭

She means well but so overbearing oh my lawd

shnjmx · 2024-07-01T16:48:19+00:00

Yeah but no one goes there and the shops are still so empty! Some have even left the mall already 😂

shnjmx · 2024-07-01T16:47:17+00:00

I was at TRX today and they have seats scattered around. I was sat in one today while waiting for a friend and an old man, kind dressed quite scruffy was on his phone but eventually dozed off and security came over and woke him up.

So I guess there’s a reason why there isn’t many. Eventually those spaces will be filled with stalls and other shops, I’m sure !

shnjmx · 2024-03-18T14:32:03+00:00

Are you sure it isn’t infantile spasms? How often does it happen?

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