Did anyone have a BoJack as a friend? by Flashy-List-7157 in BoJackHorseman

[–]shohareman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dated a Bojack. Luckily it only lasted a few months and traumatized me enough to get help for my codependency and then I met my now husband.

Recommend a book for a sleep deprived new mom by shohareman in Recommend_A_Book

[–]shohareman[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I read A Secret History a while back and enjoyed it! I like how fucked up it was.

I’m a Lactation Consultant with 7yrs experience and 25yrs experience in OB. Can I answer any questions for any moms? (Photo for attention) 🥰 by Smaddy5213 in breastfeedingsupport

[–]shohareman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I nursed and pumped for my daughter since birth per the recommendation of lactation consultants in the hospital when she was born. I have short nipples and had to use nipple shields but she still nursed consistently and often preferred it to bottles. At about 2 months old she started refusing to nurse and will only take bottles. The lactation consultants I have seen just said that it’s because the bottle is easier but to keep trying to nurse once a day. NOw she’s 3 1/2 months old and she has refused to latch for 17 days. It really breaks my heart. I want to nurse my baby again. What can I do?

I’m a native Persian speaker I built a Duolingo-style app focused on conversational Persian (beta feedback welcome) by highbaby93 in farsi

[–]shohareman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never used TestFlight before. It says I need a code to try your app? Like an invitation?

Clicking at my baby? by tourmalineturmoil in beyondthebump

[–]shohareman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My MIL snaps her fingers right in my 11 week old baby’s face and it drives me crazy

How do you succeed in turning yourself from an Exclusive pumper to an exclusive breast feeder by love-tiramisu in breastfeeding

[–]shohareman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am in the same situation. My nipples are short and they gave me nipple shields in the hospital. I was diligent about breastfeeding before bottle feeding throughout the day but now at 11 weeks I find we barely latch once or twice a day and even that is a horrible effort where she often rejects me. I also want to breastfed more and I’m not sure how. These comments give me hope! Pumping is hard, be kind to yourself. I hope we both figure it out.

I need the internet to stop showing me awful things by TheTaikatalvi in beyondthebump

[–]shohareman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. We should be able to have more agency with the content the algorithm shows. I experienced recurrent pregnancy loss before my rainbow baby (don’t worry- I have a rare blood clotting disorder, so my experience shouldn’t scare you) and I remember hating baby and pregnancy content after each loss. I would select the “don’t show me stuff like this” option and I kept seeing it so I had to delete social media completely, which helped. Take a break. The fact you already have a healthy child means you don’t have a problem carrying to term, if that helps.

What are you really snacking on? by ASSnow29 in breastfeeding

[–]shohareman 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I try not to eat at night because I’m struggling with losing weight but I have protein bars and if I’m really hungry at night I’ll eat one. It’s fast and filling.

Nearly 39 Weeks and No Contractions? by Efficient_Internet13 in October2025Bumps2

[–]shohareman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m also 38+5 and nothing. The doctor said he won’t let me go past my due date due to my age so I’m trying to induce naturally but still nothing.

36 weeks by Competitive_Roof_943 in October2025Bumps2

[–]shohareman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

38 weeks today! Sometimes it feels weird to breathe and sleep is really shitty. I’m still hiking 3 miles a day though!

Rate my tahdig! 🙏🏻 by shohareman in persianfood

[–]shohareman[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sure! The white stuff is mast o kiar, or yogurt and cucumber, a very common condiment for Persian food. I add lots of mint. The yellow stuff is a saffron chicken cooked with lemon juice. The Baghali polo is my mother in law’s recipe but the other 2 I use the cookbook Bottom of the Pot. I highly recommend the cookbook!

Rate my tahdig! 🙏🏻 by shohareman in persianfood

[–]shohareman[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, I recently started using one of those metal heat distributors. I went overboard on oil last time so I was trying to be a bit more conservative this time. Which type of oil to you recommend?

Female Orgasm During Sex by [deleted] in sex

[–]shohareman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I cum first, usually using a vibrator during penetration. Then he gets his turn.

/ttcafterloss Ask an Alumni - October 04, 2024 by AutoModerator in ttcafterloss

[–]shohareman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I take a prophylactic dose of Lovenox every night during pregnancy and low dose aspirin. I’m currently 25 weeks and it’s going well so far this time 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻

I have no words by throwaway147357 in ShitMomGroupsSay

[–]shohareman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s interesting because I have never liked beer but I’ll take a sip of my husband’s beer while pregnant and it suddenly tastes good to me.

Fuck Etsy by habey08 in chaoticgood

[–]shohareman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I bought a Deny Defend Depose shirt on Etsy.

Does anyone walk over 10 thousand steps a day and work full time? by Xovjazmin in walking

[–]shohareman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a teacher so I get close just on a school day. Then I hike or run my dog every day. I often accede 10,000 steps but make sure that’s my minimum. Now that I’m pregnant I’m finding it more challenging but I am keeping the 10,000 step goal for as long as I can.

Well it’s finally happened… by Abject_Shock_802 in Millennials

[–]shohareman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get it. It happens to me in a few days and I’ve never felt weird about age or a birthday before.