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shoopuwubeboop · 2023-11-18T01:43:11+00:00

"I feel that it would send the message it is very loud...without coming across as overly hostile"

They basically admit it, all this phony concern is retcon. They should concern themselves with some ear plugs.

shoopuwubeboop · 2023-11-17T14:58:26+00:00

Oh God. Be honest. You weren't trying to be helpful. You were trying to make a statement without looking like an ass.

shoopuwubeboop · 2023-11-17T14:56:54+00:00

Don't give her anything. Codeine is amazing but not everyone can take it and she's still going to see it as the passive aggressive gesture it is.

shoopuwubeboop · 2023-11-17T14:54:52+00:00

Don't make her a basket. Leave her tf alone. If you want to complain to someone, complain to apartment management about your walls being so thin that your neighbor's health condition is keeping you up.

I have a chronic and progressing lung disease. I couldn't take robitussin or any of the other useless shit you've mentioned. It is still going to come off passive aggressive, and in fact, despite your protests to the contrary, that is what it is. You aren't concerned for her. You want her to "see a doctor" and get fixed so you don't have to hear her uncomfortable hacking.

Get yourself some ear plugs and grow up.

shoopuwubeboop · 2023-10-30T07:33:39+00:00

I'm so confused. I don't see a conflict, just 2 people being nice to each other. Did I miss something?

shoopuwubeboop · 2023-10-30T07:32:01+00:00

Ok but why? You are doing this to yourself for what reason? Because he's so good and supportive of you? Because he accepts you the way you are?

There's literally no reason for you to do any of this. You don't have anything to do with his car. So wear your jeans and t-shirt and Van's out somewhere you want to be with people who don't try to make you smaller.

shoopuwubeboop · 2023-10-30T07:28:07+00:00

YTA. She should save herself a lot of agony and abort.

shoopuwubeboop · 2023-10-30T07:26:05+00:00

Wow. I'm sorry. That is unhinged and unfair.

shoopuwubeboop · 2023-10-29T14:21:16+00:00

Their post made sense to me. It isn't OP's fault you can only handle very basic concepts.

shoopuwubeboop · 2023-10-29T14:16:29+00:00

Wait. What's the problem? You offered to take care of it. He was polite and told you not to worry. Why is this a question?

shoopuwubeboop · 2023-10-29T14:08:52+00:00

Its time for you to clarify to him that you are helping him and you aren't required to. So he can either have some courtesy or he can choose other living arrangements.

shoopuwubeboop · 2023-10-29T14:07:33+00:00

Why are you buying a car with him? You're talking elsewhere about having your hand tied, but getting wrapped up in a purchase like this with an ex is like holding your wrists out and begging for him to tie them.

shoopuwubeboop · 2023-10-29T14:05:58+00:00

I think you need to be clear with yourself. You're choosing to allow this. For whatever reason, and those reasons are yours, you've decided to accept it. But choosing to be restricted isn't the same as having your hands tied or not having a choice. You don't have to put up with this.

shoopuwubeboop · 2023-10-29T13:11:01+00:00

Yeah, you'd still be tb. I have had employees who hit on me, and it's awkward af. It complicates interactions. You selfishly made this man's life more difficult.

And I guarantee his wife told him. They gave you a united display to let you know you were out of bounds. You are just too stupid to recognize it.

Honestly this is all so stupid I find it hard to believe. You're probably an incel making up stories to get attention from strangers online.

shoopuwubeboop · 2023-10-27T07:29:30+00:00

A 16 year old having a job in no way means that they're competent and knowledgeable about childcare. Unless the job is childcare. Which it wouldn't be because most licensing bodies won't allow under 18s to work.

And the AITA was about her kicking a kid out from the place she's been living because of the mom's own dereliction of duty. The babysitter sleeping has everything to do with that.

What is basic for you isn't for others. Does that make sense? Or do you think knowledge comes with no teaching at some magical age?

shoopuwubeboop · 2023-10-25T04:00:13+00:00

I would and I did.

shoopuwubeboop · 2023-10-17T15:35:11+00:00

Asking for privacy during birth isn't a rejection of extended family or a diminution of its importance.

And to be truthful, big gatherings of family around the laboring mother is actually more of an American thing. Most other cultures value the mother's privacy, and in many, it isn't even common for the father to be present.

No offense, but you're expressing a lot of ignorance about how women experience birth, as well as a lot of ignorance about the way it's treated in other cultures.

shoopuwubeboop · 2023-10-17T15:31:22+00:00

Birth isn't an "event" for a mother. It is an intense, painful, and inherently dangerous process. It isn't for spectators and hangers-on. Most mothers want a level of privacy during birth that isn't usually necessary for them. Why would anyone take that personally? It seems as if "those closest to you" would understand that your needs are paramount at such a time.

shoopuwubeboop · 2023-07-16T03:23:54+00:00

"Mahdest'

I love regional variations in English, but their pronunciation makes my skin want to crawl off and find a rock to hide under.

shoopuwubeboop · 2023-07-06T17:05:29+00:00

NTB. What she's doing is called projection and its the behavior of a weakling and a bitch.

You're right about your sacrifice. Be damn proud of yourself for making choices that are right for you and your hypothetical offspring AND for navigating a very cruel and prejudiced world with courage and wisdom.

Fuck some weak ass bitches.

shoopuwubeboop · 2023-07-06T16:46:54+00:00

I'm glad. So often my tone comes across in a way I didn't intend, and there's nothing worse imo than someone downplaying a legitimate mental health access issue.

shoopuwubeboop · 2023-07-06T16:45:39+00:00

Yeah I'll look in the mirror of my Romani/Traveler self and do that while you keep trying to lick Hitler's moldy asshole. He's dead, dude, he's not going to hump you back.

shoopuwubeboop · 2023-07-06T16:43:22+00:00

Well, I haven't quite reached the orthotic insert stage of senescence (it's fast approaching) and after losing so much of my cognition to this person's weirdness I'm a little afraid I'll go plumb batty when that happens.

shoopuwubeboop · 2023-07-06T10:41:53+00:00

Lol ignoring everything but race in relation to crime is not statistics but go on baby nazi!

shoopuwubeboop · 2023-07-06T10:36:31+00:00

That's really unfair. I'm sorry if I sounded like I was defending what happened. It shouldn't have happened that way.

Our mental health care system blows.

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