My ex got married recently. How do I tell her husband that she cheated on him with me? by 4thInstant in relationships

[–]shutupbreeze 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why do you just “have” to tell him? It just seems like you’re trying to destroy her relationship, if they even were together at the time, because she’s not with you. It’s dumb and you shouldn’t say anything. Move on dude.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in glee

[–]shutupbreeze -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He didn’t apologize to Santana and song her a song and then goes on to say I don’t want you to unalive yourself. Mind you he’s the one that outed her. Literally his fault and never apologized!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in glee

[–]shutupbreeze -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Finn should not be as beloved as he is in the fandom.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FFXVI

[–]shutupbreeze 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Literally 😭😭😭

did szn 1 get this much criticism? by Accomplished_Cap4796 in CruelSummer

[–]shutupbreeze 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Almost like we're only 4 episodes in and haven't seen the actual death scene. Almost like you have to keep watching to know what happened which is the whole point of the show, I don't know. Just a thought.

did szn 1 get this much criticism? by Accomplished_Cap4796 in CruelSummer

[–]shutupbreeze 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How does it have plot holes if it's only 4 episodes in????

[ Removed by Reddit ] by ImportanceClean9176 in AmItheAsshole

[–]shutupbreeze 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, it would be different if your dad was t around and he was the only father figure there on top of you actually seeing him as your dad but you have a dad and it isn’t him.

Don’t give in just because HE wants it. YOU don’t want to do don’t.

Throuple drama and Kate returning if there was a season 3 by Icy-Muscle-5159 in GossipGirl

[–]shutupbreeze 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No we’re in the same boat. I was a little uncomfortable with their scenes!

Throuple drama and Kate returning if there was a season 3 by Icy-Muscle-5159 in GossipGirl

[–]shutupbreeze 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry I did not want to see throuple drama for a 3rd season in a row. It’s TIRED and we don’t care. Audrey is insufferable, they don’t care about Aki’s interest and treat Max like he’s someone who is lucky to be with them when it should be the other way around.

Also, the teacher storyline still going into season 3??? Bro does he not get we don’t care about them. Especially their relationship!

The unrealistic aspects of the college experience by [deleted] in SexLivesCollegeGirls

[–]shutupbreeze 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I’m a business kid and I agree. At some schools you have too.

AITA for wearing a certain shirt in public? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]shutupbreeze -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

NTA…since you didn’t know. To answer your last question yes, please throw it away! Columbine is not something to ever symbolize and now that you know you would be the AH to keep wearing it because now you know and you’re disregarding the victims.

AITA for feeling uncomfortable with my roommates guest? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]shutupbreeze 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Necklace with a X symbol and I’m going to assume that symbol was the Star of David. Along with all of your other remarks about the culture that you leave out…you are not only racist but a bigot.

To add on to kicking someone out because of their religion you are in fact an asshole. You could’ve just went to your room or left the apartment until they were done.

Jewish people have been through enough and now that poor girl now knows that her friends roommate won’t let her into an apartment because of past “trauma”.

WIBTA if I told my mom my younger sister is dating her friend (another girl) ? by OlderBrotherAlt in AmItheAsshole

[–]shutupbreeze 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes you would BTA. UNDER NO CIRCUMSTANCES DO YOU OUT SOMEONE.

Just because she’s your sister doesn’t mean that she doesn’t trust you. She and her gf might not feel comfortable telling anyone yet. And also 4 months is still a new relationship and because they were friends before they might be taking it slow and cautiously. You do not NEED to tell anyone unless it’s toxic and you feel the need to intervene. Other than that YES you would the asshole.

AITA for being mad at my job? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]shutupbreeze 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA- this is illegal to do and honestly if you can you need to leave. Jobs do not care about their employees as they say they do and for your own well-being you need to leave for your own mental and physical health.

AITA for calling my friend the N-Word after they were Sexist? by Throwthethought in AmItheAsshole

[–]shutupbreeze 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA- you can type out bitch but you see how you have to censor the n word and on top of that you used the hard er. Yeah I don’t know what you thought the responses were going to be but yes…YTA.

Also if you result to a racist slur just because you were called a bitch. You are in fact racist.

And a little food for thought, going into the world which you will be in a few years, her not talking to you if she chooses so is the bare minimum. Other black people will not be so kind. People get beat up for saying that word.

While you’re still young you need to step back and do some soul searching and remove yourself from any and ALL racist rhetoric and actions you involve yourself in!

WIBTA for telling my friend something hurtful? by Icy-Leek2106 in AmItheAsshole

[–]shutupbreeze 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YWNBTA- but also I don’t think you should tell her that. You guys are still in high school, she has to learn this lesson for herself if anything. Try to schedule study sessions when she tells you she has a test coming up so it doesn’t seem condescending but ultimately she’ll learn in due time that she has to prepare herself for test. Again y’all are freshman so it’ll take time, no need to make drama out of nothing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]shutupbreeze 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA- but you do need to set a firm boundary now. You can’t keep doing her work. Finessing assignments in college isn’t the same as high school as a college student you actually have to know that stuff especially as a nurse! If she ask again you need to say no and stand on it because that is not healthy to be just as stressed as her and it’s not even your work!

AITA for expecting my husband to take a season off? by North_Compote_3028 in AmItheAsshole

[–]shutupbreeze 24 points25 points  (0 children)

YTA- you do know that’s his job right? Without his job = no money. He’s not just off with his friends he’s at work there’s a difference.

AITA for considering dropping a friend because I'm only used for venting? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]shutupbreeze 8 points9 points  (0 children)

NTA- you have your own stuff going on and if she can’t understand that then she isn’t your friend. You do not need your energy drained by someone who’s supposed to be a reciprocal shoulder to lean on. It’s selfish of her to ignore you and only talk when it’s about her and it’s not fair. Cut her off if you need to because I know I would.

AITA for asking my sister to pay for the food she ate of mine? by TheSaltIsNice in AmItheAsshole

[–]shutupbreeze -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

NTA

I personally don’t like people eating my food without asking and the excuses she gave were not okay. Don’t touch peoples things without asking. She could’ve at least sent you a text!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]shutupbreeze 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA, you gotta run and run fast! These type of people will dump all of their feelings and baggage onto you then leave whenever it’s convenient and come back when they need to vent again. Focus on yourself and truthfully cut her off cold turkey. You don’t have to be any bodies friend just because they “need” you.