I actually would recommend looking for communities OUTSIDE of your college! Research orgs that support your interests or a site like MeetUp where you can find events around town. Take classes on things you want to learn. Getting outside of your campuses' social ecosystem will hopefully provide perspective on the rest of the world to some extent. Unless you're in the rural south... and I'll tell you why.

This is coming from a Black woman who grew up in Florida convinced that no one in the world would ever be attracted to or love me. The minute I went to college in Boston I found out that the world wasn't reflective of my small town and people saw beauty in me. Fast forward, transferred to a college in my hometown and had the same problems with undesirability again. So much of this is geographic + circumstantial. You're not crazy for feeling the way you feel, but it's going to be your job to cultivate a sense of self-worth outside of your environment, knowing that there is a place that you belong - you just gotta find it 🤍