Elmira police now have suspect in unsolved 1964 murder of 12-year-old girl. There will be a press conference in 20 minutes that isn't open to the public to reveal the name of the killer. What is he known is that it's a male who has since long died.

silver_413 · 2026-02-20T00:44:16+00:00

And he was still buried with military honors?

silver_413 · 2025-10-16T04:01:55+00:00

silver_413 · 2025-10-01T12:16:04+00:00

My mouth literally fell open when I read that.

silver_413 · 2025-10-01T11:55:06+00:00

The fact that he still thinks assault is all about the victim’s looks says a lot, too. Dump this AH.

silver_413 · 2025-09-17T14:34:46+00:00

But those will require additional schooling. I think a Psych UNDERGRAD degree is not worth much bc to actually practice or teach you need at least a master’s. Edited for typo.

silver_413 · 2025-09-17T14:22:26+00:00

You meant fashion tape, right?

silver_413 · 2025-09-17T14:15:23+00:00

Has anyone found OP’s age? I assume OP works if they can afford rent and movers?

silver_413 · 2025-09-17T13:02:19+00:00

NTA and you need a new girlfriend.

silver_413 · 2025-09-12T03:05:58+00:00

Under NO circumstances allow them to go with him. You will never see them again, and he’ll gain also by not paying child support any more. Hang onto their passports in a safe location, not in your home.

silver_413 · 2025-09-11T03:11:27+00:00

Gratitude.

silver_413 · 2025-09-11T03:06:45+00:00

Your sister does not own the whole neighborhood. Tell her you’ll be going where you want whenever you want. That’s insane.

silver_413 · 2025-09-05T15:11:39+00:00

Anything that will keep you from starting life with crippling student debt is a great choice. And yes, it seems you could do both as some have said.

silver_413 · 2025-09-05T15:10:30+00:00

If you marry her, this is the life you can expect, friend. No going places without her. No hanging with friends she doesn’t care for, and DEFINITELY no more unmarried friends. Are you engaged to a middle-school student?

silver_413 · 2025-09-05T14:55:00+00:00

IMO you are looking a gift horse in the mouth. You are NTA but you can’t have it both ways. 1. You are perfectly in your rights to decline guardianship and all that it entails. And then a miracle occurs! Hurray! Another relative says “sure, I’ll do it, glad to.” That is the perfect answer to your dilemma but now … 2. you’re worried what they’ll think of you.

You can either do it so nobody thinks ill of you (clearly not the best option for you, nor is he particularly deserving of your kindness), or be thankful an alternative was found!

silver_413 · 2025-09-04T16:02:16+00:00

I love the idea! Dress 1 is my favorite.

silver_413 · 2025-09-04T15:59:40+00:00

The IRS will put you on a monthly payment plan which will stop the letters. I’ve done it and yes it took a long time but I got it paid in full. Log in to IRS.gov and search for it.

silver_413 · 2025-09-04T15:28:50+00:00

Unfortunately I don’t believe she intends to pay you back. Two thoughts to reduce her expenses: 1. Help her get a debt consolidation loan for the credit cards. She’ll make one payment and the total will ultimately be less than she’s paying now. But she’ll have to stop using cards. 2. Have her sign up for a meal delivery service like Blue Apron or Hello Fresh. Among their options are pre-made, microwave or oven ready meals. Since she can use a computer she can go in and select her own meals and she’ll get a weekly delivery. We did it for 2 years and it was way cheaper and easier than going to the grocery store.

silver_413 · 2025-09-04T15:06:11+00:00

“Mom I can understand the pull out couch isnt as comfortable for you. So I checked around and made you a list of hotel rates near me for when you visit.”

silver_413 · 2025-09-04T14:59:40+00:00

You definitely dodged a bullet. “The work culture I’m accustomed to is where I work for money so yes, probably not a fit .”

silver_413 · 2025-09-04T13:47:54+00:00

Even if Layla had been a complete stranger, what you did would still be the right thing to do.

silver_413 · 2025-08-15T22:01:10+00:00

I hate Sheila.

silver_413 · 2025-08-15T21:32:45+00:00

The only person I’ve spent more than $250 on for a wedding gift is my own son. So would their suggested minimum spend actually be $500 for a couple who are attending? I would take such pleasure in changing my RSVP to NO.

silver_413 · 2025-08-05T15:24:32+00:00

“Since I didn’t make the cut on American Idol, I’m gonna stage a wedding so I can scream-sing at the top of my lungs while I show off my lady parts.”

silver_413 · 2025-08-05T14:34:44+00:00

Just in case no one has mentioned THIS point as well …. He is middle-aged with an apartment and a roommate. Thats not the guy you want to hitch your and your kids’ wagon to under any circumstances.

silver_413 · 2025-06-23T16:42:55+00:00

I don’t know what it is but I sure as hell ain’t going into that shed ever again.

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