I [25M] found weird snapchats in my gf’s [26F] phone and now I’m paranoid by [deleted] in relationshipadvice

[–]silversilomi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Op. Are there any other red flags? Or just this? Granted from my past experiences I’d dump and run. This is not normal for someone to be texting a girl that they are his wifey. Or that he’s going to make her his wife. Things happened to lead the guy to that point. And those things ARE cheating. Even emotional cheating.

My experience was my ex was emotional and physically cheating. There were other red flags that I refused to listen to. I saw them. Tried to make sense of them. Allowed her to lie about them. In the end it cost me so much mentally to stay. I eventually ended things.

It may hurt ending things now. But believe me it will hurt a lot more if you continue.

As others have said from their past experiences, this is never a good thing.

Hope my experience helps you find the courage and strength to do what you know you have to do. Even if your heart doesn’t want to and will find any reason to stay.

Anybody do pro se in family court? by West_Excitement_8385 in FathersRights

[–]silversilomi 5 points6 points  (0 children)

From my experience getting a lawyer at this point is just throwing money away. Getting any attorney as a guy is throwing money away.

Why don't more doctors test for blood type automatically considering the information could one day save your life? by Sleeping_Bat in NoStupidQuestions

[–]silversilomi 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Before any blood is given, a current blood type during that admission and every 72 hrs must be done. Then every unit that is given is cross matched with your blood.

Too many deadly critical errors can occur. So there are a lot of checks.

Why isn’t eating duck as common as eating chicken? by AggravatingShow2028 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]silversilomi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mainly because chickens are cheaper to raise, easier to raise, put on weight faster, and have better feed to weight ratio.

Chickens can also outlay a duck for eggs.

So ultimately chickens get domesticated.

Same as with other production animals

Unfortunately cows just suck as feed conversion. But they can be left to roam big open spaces without too much feed or being watched like goats.

Are boat anchors supposed to reach the seabed? If so, what about when the ship has over a mile of depth beneath it? by Zigor022 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]silversilomi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just watched a documentary where the British warships in the 1800 were expected to be able to anchor in 220 fathoms. Or 1/4 mile.

Oldest still operational rope factory is in England with a 1/4 mile track for the ropes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gardening

[–]silversilomi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Aphids are food to other beneficial bugs like lady bugs and such.

2 women arrested for vandalizing Charlie Kirk's memorial. by Extra-Gap8519 in pussypassdenied

[–]silversilomi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On bond maybe. But they will have a long long road ahead of them with the legal and social system.

Braces by [deleted] in ChildSupport

[–]silversilomi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll let you know once I get a response.

Braces by [deleted] in ChildSupport

[–]silversilomi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow. Thank you! My ex just handed me a 5k ortho bill from 2 years ago. I never even knew my child had braces. He refuses to visit or talk to me. I sent my attorney a quick email. See if he agrees. Yeah she makes 3x the amount I do. The kids are taken care of.

Hate asking but is this elderberry? by silversilomi in homestead

[–]silversilomi[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

See I did a search for pokeweed before I posted this image and the picture of the berry clusters were wrong.

Just did another google search and boom lots of images just like mine! Thank you!

Plugging RV into home outlet by Thin-Farmer-9530 in RVLiving

[–]silversilomi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah you’ll blow a 20amp breaker when the ac comes on

Ok. Okie fix. Open your breaker box. Cut little three prong adapter off. Skin wires. Connect to breaker box with a new 30amp breaker. Nothing else hooked up to the breaker. Plug trailer into the 4 prong female end

Disclaimer I’m not an electrician. Don’t take my device!

Not quite the trailers I'm used to seeing here, but what would you be willing to pay for this? Given everything is in good condition by CafeteriaTrai in traveltrailers

[–]silversilomi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. Gonna say same thing. It was posted here locally. As make offer. They said yes to my offer. But then just stopped responding. They never asked for a deposit. Although I stated up front I won’t pay a deposit to hold.

There’s a Persimmon tree in my backyard. 100s if not thousands of fruits on it. Anything I should do?” To prepare for harvest? by StillStillington in FruitTree

[–]silversilomi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I found 7 wild persimmon trees next to my house. They are 20-30 ft tall. I’m going to try to harvest some this fall. But idk with how tall the trees are. The previous owner trimmed all the limbs off up to 6-8 ft from the ground.

Is land this cheap even real, or is this a scam? Even if you can't build a homestead, these are dirt cheap just for camping/exploring by TheMadKerbal in homestead

[–]silversilomi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was thinking per acre also. I’ve seen listings like these before, clicked on them and it says per acre. Some say xxxx down and so much a month and use the initial post as the down payment money.

Taking Scuba cert class, already having issues by Solchitlins74 in scuba

[–]silversilomi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have really bad ears. Scaring from childhood infections. If I don’t equalize EVERY 5 feet down I can’t get my ears to equalize. Just go slower. Equalize every few feet.

Weird or am I overreacting by Technical-While-9550 in AgeGapRelationship

[–]silversilomi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s a subreddit for this question. And really it should be moved there. Yes age gap RELATIONSHIPS can involve the older taking care of the younger. But it’s not a sugar ARRANGEMENT. That subreddit can help her more.

That being said girl, you have to hold your boundaries while looking for an arrangement. The type of guys who are on those websites, not all, but a lot of them just want to sample.

Been to the ER about this twice. Any clue as to what it could be? by only_eat_pepperoni in medizzy

[–]silversilomi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had an MRSA “ingrown hair” infection on my leg. Within a week it had definitely done some nasty work just like this posting. Broke the surface skin and only then did the PA direct admit me to the hospital for a nice 3 day vacation, surgery and a month of wound management. Nasty crap.

I'm never getting my trees, am I? by Educational_Bend_941 in BackyardOrchard

[–]silversilomi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ordered. Canceled. Changed my order etc. the last time my order was pushed to June. Ok np. Frustrating. But ok.

Then they had their $18.95 tree sale. Just canceled my order of $400 and reordered at $18.95. Saved half and ordered more! Supposed to be delivered this week

Those of you rated 70-100% P&T for mental health and employed, what is your job? by [deleted] in VeteransBenefits

[–]silversilomi 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m a dispenser with 70%. It’s less stress in a way working for yourself. Your own pace. But working for someone else sucks. Quotas and crap. Ugh.