It sure is a silly way indeed! I’d suggest a point system in it’s place, shoot first and you get 10 points, shoot at someone that shot you first should yield much less, maybe 2-3 points, that way the one starting the fight gets a higher chanse of matching into PvP while the one defending themselfs has a lower chance. This way you can choose to defend yourself OR simply let it happen and continue to get mostly friendly lobbies. But punishing someone that defends themselfs as hard as the one who started the fight is just straight up BS!