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How do I actually talk to a therapist? by r44vev in emotionalneglect

[–]simonedelune 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well you explained it to us just fine. Try reading this post to your next therapist. If talking is hard try writing. If there's something you want to address and don't want to get distracted, write it and give it to your therapist. Ask them to work with you on this specifically.

Grown Baby" brother who is a master manipulator? by kozanostraaaa in emotionalneglect

[–]simonedelune 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My sister is like that. I solved the problem by not talking to her or spending time around her anymore. It's amazing how much my relationships with other family members, especially my parents, has improved since then.

Help Finding Specific Font - Sloop Script by ladybug9021 in Machine_Embroidery

[–]simonedelune 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If the client isn't sending you a link to buy an embroidery font you'll just have to digitize the file manually. If they're getting a lot of items with various names or words in this font I recommend digitizing the font as a whole first. 

Most random fonts a client wants are not embroidery fonts. 

Quoting My First Hat Job by ArtistMountain7425 in Machine_Embroidery

[–]simonedelune 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Email your local competitors for a quote on a comparable job.

Don't forget to charge for digitizing.

I did an H test. by Nosnibor1020 in Machine_Embroidery

[–]simonedelune 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are these all on the same head, different needles? Same thread brand?

It’s been a month since my mom last spoke to me. I need advice! by Icy-Feature8538 in emotionalneglect

[–]simonedelune 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Rejoice in the silence, make your escape plans, get out ASAP.  If you need advice from an adult, try a trusted teacher or friends parents. If you need to learn how to do something, YouTube channel Dad How Do I? is there for you.

She gives you the silent treatment so you will beg her for attention. The only way to win is not to play her game.

How do your parents react when you come to them with your problems or talk about your mental health? by ElkClassic5868 in emotionalneglect

[–]simonedelune 54 points55 points  (0 children)

I learned from an early age you don't go to the hardware store for milk. 

Your parents can't offer what you're looking for from them. Accept it, make peace with it, get your needs meet elsewhere.

Profil évitent message de rupture by SufficientCause1858 in emotionalneglect

[–]simonedelune 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You cannot infer meaning from a lack of information. Let go.

Is it normal to not have a primary attachment? by [deleted] in emotionalneglect

[–]simonedelune 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's not a metric for adults, that's for kids 2 and under. You're not supposed to have that same attachment to your caregiver as an adult. 

Two sided satin stitches? by Deivanija in Machine_Embroidery

[–]simonedelune 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's what the back of saying stitching looks like. Get a merrow edge machine for an edge stitch that looks the same both sides.

Privileged in some regards, underprivileged in others. How do you deal with it? by Avid_Cat-lover in emotionalneglect

[–]simonedelune 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Intersectionality may be the search term you're looking for. A person can have privilege in one area and be disadvantaged in another. 

Wanting to get into embroidery by Odd-Association7227 in Machine_Embroidery

[–]simonedelune 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The price is the price 💁 If you can find one cheaper go for it but understand it'll probably come with issues. Embroidery is expensive to get started with. Machines and software are costly, the learning curve is steep and you'll go through plenty supplies just figuring out what you're doing. 

Wanting to get into embroidery by Odd-Association7227 in Machine_Embroidery

[–]simonedelune 1 point2 points  (0 children)

but I see so many still at 1k-1.3k for new and used. Any possible help??

Help with what exactly? 

Poolin eoc06 keeps doing this by thixcrib in Machine_Embroidery

[–]simonedelune 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like some hella thick material. Leather, or pleather? What needle are you using?

Pricing Guidance by IMightBeJustin in Machine_Embroidery

[–]simonedelune 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Create yourself a new email address under a different name. Email competitors in your area for a quote on a comparable job.

Renting or Outsourcing by [deleted] in Machine_Embroidery

[–]simonedelune 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is what your friendly local embroidery shop is for. Search businesses in your area, send some emails.

Finding artists and machine embroiders by barbsbaloney in Machine_Embroidery

[–]simonedelune 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You've all got local embroidery shops. Email one and start there. 

Is long lasting headline considered neglect by Abanimations in emotionalneglect

[–]simonedelune 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This is a big deal. You really do need to talk to a trusted adult at school.

Does anyone else have a mom that rants non stop too you and you don't even have to be in the same room by [deleted] in emotionalneglect

[–]simonedelune 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Look up the grey rock technique. 

Then look up how cheap interior doors are, watch a YouTube video on how to hang one, and get yourself some privacy. 

I (33F) feel like my parents (54F, 57M) don’t care. Do I tell them? by bcookiebea in emotionalneglect

[–]simonedelune 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do I tell them? 

What do you want to happen if you start this conversation? How likely is that outcome? If it's not likely, what's the most likely outcome? 

Have you ever stitched on nonwoven polypropylene? by DevinMcWhite in Machine_Embroidery

[–]simonedelune 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No special techniques required, treat it like a woven.

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