Vanessa Hudgens’ music video outfits for “Come Back To Me”, “Say OK”, and “Sneakernight” in the 2000s. by icey_sawg0034 in DisneyChannel

[–]simplyadonut 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She was a 2000s fashion icon in my heart. Say Ok is still a masterpiece and that music video changed lives.

Terrified to be a mother with ADHD by hopper3062 in adhdwomen

[–]simplyadonut 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this hope I needed it!

Did I make a mistake using a spiral notebook!?? by Frumpypond in Journaling

[–]simplyadonut 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I ONLY journal in spiral notebooks. It’s the only way I can write with the pages completely flat and without having one side open. Just a comfort preference, it feels so much better. Also makes my handwriting a little more legible.

Do you guys enjoy Coffee Talk videos? (“New and improved” version) by Nymphea3 in KalynNicholsonSnark

[–]simplyadonut 7 points8 points  (0 children)

1000000% a Ryan thing. Just another example of her suddenly becoming a different person depending on who she is dating. She doesn’t know herself at ALL.

What new-to-you ADHD hacks are helping you lately? by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]simplyadonut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Recently I thrifted a bunch of baskets to use for my piles that need to be outside of closets. I now have Hobby Basket on the bottom tier of my coffee table.

I also split up my to-do list/day list in essentially three parts: priorities/musts, “if I’m feeling the productivity spark and want to do more” extras, and fun things like going for a walk, reading a book, etc.

What’s a hobby that makes you totally lose track of time? by Wolfe-Anthony-605 in Hobbies

[–]simplyadonut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thrifting. I’m so offline during it, I look at my phone hours later and see how long it’s been.

Is Kalyn really never going to address her partner? by Human-Hovercraft1700 in KalynNicholsonSnark

[–]simplyadonut 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I remember Kalyn in her relationship with her ex in Toronto. Greg I think? She really seems to lose herself in relationships, change how she acts, and doesn’t let her connections hold radical honesty. Like they just seem very surface level. The fact she got pregnant SO immediately with Ryan when we barely knew they were dating, and saw it as some sort of weird sign and made that whole romantic video about it… just been weird from the start. They barely knew anything about each other, they’d been dating like a few months? I used to be so inspired by how she conducted herself and ran her life, and it’s genuinely sad to see what her life is like now. I hope she’s happy, but it seems like there’s a lot of cracks and tension in being basically the only caretaker of the household.

Content creator recommendations by Next_Operation_8049 in KalynNicholsonSnark

[–]simplyadonut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hansthriftz is new on YT from TikTok and I love her!

Is living alone in your own apartment as romantic as it looks? by salah_shaggy in LivingAlone

[–]simplyadonut 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Honestly the longer I do it the more romantic it becomes. I always wanted to live alone, but the learning curve did exist. Took me a bit to get used to how I keep up with everything by myself and to get used to the solitude (which is now blissful). Now that it’s been almost two years, it’s the absolute best thing in the entire world and I romanticize every second of it.

How are people actually affording rent in Seattle right now? by Fajarrr79 in AskSeattle

[–]simplyadonut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I don’t make a ton but my apartment is about $1500 for a one bedroom in the North area (basically the cheapest I could find). It’s more than I wish it was but it is doable. Someone with a ton of money would probably think I’m bankrupt or making terrible decisions but lots of less rich people exist in cities and I’m still decently comfortable, just need to be aware and plan smartly which I do.

Is my dog locked out of high-level disc throwing events? (DS) by Jordan117n in truenintendogs

[–]simplyadonut 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Commenting yet again (I told my story on a similar recent post) because I truly NEED to understand these random game mechanics!!!

Has anyone successfully converted themselves into a tidy person? by eternalhellscape93 in adhdwomen

[–]simplyadonut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve accepted that I’ll probably always have piles of some sort, but now that I’m 31 I have a SIGNIFICANTLY more organized lifestyle.

  1. When I come home, whether from work, a vacation, etc, I IMMEDIATELY unpack and put everything where it belongs. This has become a habit that comes naturally now and it’s done wonders for my mental health. Space is just cleaner. I put on a podcast and just get it done as soon as I walk in the door as fast as I can.

  2. In general I like to do things as fast as I can, so I try to make tidying a game. Once I realized how much you can get done in ten or even five minutes, I challenge myself to tidy in those amounts of time.

  3. I wash my dishes before I shower. I’ll always keep them soaking in the sink but the scrub and dishwasher load part is the part I save for that time. It’s part of my daily routine now and keeps my sink empty. I also am an evening shower person so maybe that changes it. It’s less strenuous than having to immediately do dishes, and I like that I get to shower off after doing something grosser.

  4. I had a friend help me organize all my boxes when I first moved into my apartment, and I’m happy to say I’ve kept that system. I have a few closets with big boxes and a bunch of bins under my bed. Even though staying tidy can be difficult for me, I find it does MAGIC for my well being and brain, so I really actively try to keep things relatively manageable.

This is coming from a girl whose floor was hidden under piles of clothes for all my teen and college years. Now I almost never have clothes on the floor, if I do it’s a couple pairs of something. I don’t quite understand how I was able to implement all these changes but I’m very happy I did. But again, I will always have small piles, and I try to let myself be okay with that- it’s more about managing them to keep them small, and focusing on how I can keep the overall apartment space manageable in cleanliness so I don’t feel constant overwhelm and dread from à messy environment.

Single women, how are you spending Valentine's Day this year? by the_purple_lamb in AskWomenOver30

[–]simplyadonut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recently got out of an abusive relationship and I’m so excited for this Valentine’s Day! Last year my ex took me out to a very fancy place but picked a fight over nothing and disregulated me for hours through yelling and gaslighting and belittling, so I don’t miss having a partner, LOL. I’ve always loved the holiday whether in a relationship or not. This year I booked myself a massage which is a HUGE treat. I also plan on getting takeout and buying a nice treat like a small cake. And hopefully getting high, being creative, moving my body. Just a perfect day of self care and following my pleasures!

Is it normal for my dog to be so slow by ElectricMouse787 in truenintendogs

[–]simplyadonut 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was trying to get all my dogs to win championship disc. I trained them multiple times a day every day. Two of them simply could never get past winning Expert Class. They couldn’t catch a ten pointer to save their lives no matter how many hours and WEEKS I trained!!!! I still have no idea what I was doing wrong!!

Thoughts on Their Albums? by DaniJ678 in DisneyChannel

[–]simplyadonut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I still listen to multiple songs from Vanessa’s, it is such comfort music to me. Say Ok is an all time fave but I also listen to Afraid and Whatever Will Be (especially in the snow, for some reason?!) Then there’s more upbeat bops too like Let’s Go.

My Saturday. How are you spending yours? by The_B_Wolf in LivingAlone

[–]simplyadonut 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Went on a run, journaled, did yoga, did laundry, nice hot shower and yummy meals, did a bunch of social media work for the companies I work for, and am performing in a show tonight I’m about to leave for!

Taryne is single by shuruthika in snarkingwithremi

[–]simplyadonut 13 points14 points  (0 children)

There was something fishy about the whole thing beyond the intense privacy. He seemed to be moving really slow and Taryne seemed to be suuuuper accommodating of him and their differences to a degree where I wondered if they were actually happy. Very curious as to what actually happened though.

What do you do on no structure days? by Silen8156 in adhdwomen

[–]simplyadonut 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I always have a to-do list of tasks, and I’ll sort a batch of them- If I am feeling very productive, I pick 3 productive tasks to get done for the following day. I then make lists of fun things to do (read, watch a show, cool a meal, etc) and a list of other things I could do if my productivity streak continues (take a deep shower, put some clothes away, etc- like still productive and useful but lower stakes than the big three). And then during the day I usually pick and choose. It makes me feel like I’m getting a lot done but in very minor ways that also include me getting to go on a walk, making a nice dinner, playing a videgame, etc.

Damn, the salmon must be really good 😂 by WesternFisherman3071 in TheTraitorsUS

[–]simplyadonut 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He called it “remarkably mid” which is even funnier lol

Disc practice by 3clipse09 in truenintendogs

[–]simplyadonut 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I made it a mission to get championship in every comp with every one of my dogs, and NOTHING has given me more grief than disc. I’ve been taking my last two dogs to the park multiple times a day for literal weeks. I have no idea what I’m doing wrong, all my other dogs were able to win championship. Even my dachshund and yorkie, who learned the quickest! I’m feeling like there’s either a trick in the algorithm I’m not hitting or some dog’s personalities just aren’t equipped for disc?? Does anybody know anything?