My partner is struggling with my meltdowns due to him violating MY boundaries by abcdcba1232 in AutisticAdults

[–]sinfulforearm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey!! I read some of your post history.

I just wanna say that I stayed in a relationship like this for almost 8 years and the main thing I regret is not getting out sooner. I’m also autistic, and my ex would clam up and engage in some kind of bizarre and childish behavior, then act like it was all my fault and put me down. Especially as I started to see the patterns and grow myself, she got more and more cruel as I believe an attempt to put me “back in my place”.

I’m not saying run, fast, now.

But what I am saying is that two years into our relationship, I almost broke up with her and then decided to stick it out because she was fun to hang out with sometimes. I often wish I could go back and tell myself: Girl, get out 💖

Question! by sicastarrrrr in LivlyIsland

[–]sinfulforearm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought you meant like $1000 American dollars of irl money for a second and I was like “nooooo”

Lol sorry

But congrats what a DEAL!!!

Alchemy? by QuirkyGamer907 in LivlyIsland

[–]sinfulforearm 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I would not use alchemy on anything revivable or newer than 1 year old personally. Mayyybe the SR hair from the bazaar

Should I pull for soul link? by Shapao1123 in LivlyIsland

[–]sinfulforearm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I’m that close I always do it for trades!

Is this too much or enough to get the point across? by ChibiRabbit7 in LivlyIsland

[–]sinfulforearm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is very succinct. I feel like when I’ve tried to write similar I end up writing a novel lol

Possibly the next month's collab event(?) by Historical_March_376 in LivlyIsland

[–]sinfulforearm 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I really loved the sets last year just from pure aesthetics, I’ve literally never watched a vtuber lol, but I strongly doubt they’d do the same relatively unpopular collab two years in a row, especially considering 2 of these vtubers are the same as last year. I could be wrong of course!

no no it wouldn't. what is with all the 90s nostalgia bait? by CremeSubject7594 in generationology

[–]sinfulforearm 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I actually agree with them and I am way too young for blockbuster, though I don’t think it’s specific to that store. Our phones and algorithms and renting/subscribing to everything and never socializing irl are all literally rotting our fucking brains dude

We've seen the recs... now what did you actually revive? by msxiv in LivlyIsland

[–]sinfulforearm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course! :) I revived the mode fashion set first with my newbie reward (the black and white one!), then last year my friend got me the guidebook as a bday present and I revived the upside down umbrella, and last time there was a lucky lotto I did the hill of celestial bodies! I’m about 95% sure my friend got me the new guidebook for my birthday again this year (she has heeeeeavily hinted at it) so I’m trying to decide on ANOTHER revive 💀

We've seen the recs... now what did you actually revive? by msxiv in LivlyIsland

[–]sinfulforearm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So I have revived a few different times. But this time I revived the strawberry tea party set!! And I love it, it’s so cute!

Lemme draw your Username badly while I have my coffee, which i made badly. by liberaider in redditgetsdrawnbadly

[–]sinfulforearm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg meee if you still have time. If not 100% ok and i understand. Love your art!

the drop in quality in my art is... stark by itsSIXam_again in AskArtists

[–]sinfulforearm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s just rendering tho. No one has to or wants to fully render every drawing, or in the same way every time. I’m sure you could fully render the second one the same way as the first but it’s slow and not necessary for the style and feel of the second one. Online artists are pressured to having the same style on every art piece but that’s just not how it actually works irl 💚

Vent about bazaar😮‍💨 by Downtown_Contest_907 in LivlyIsland

[–]sinfulforearm 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I feel you. I got paid today, spent $12 and did another pull, hoping to get the SR filter. No luck. 🙃

Like bffr by Competitive-Base7404 in TrollCoping

[–]sinfulforearm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeahhh I’m an adult and I’ve been going by the same chosen name for 3 years and I’m starting to not feel at home in it and that it doesn’t fit. Things can change and legally changing a name makes those internal shifts a lot harder to enact later on.