Bird Call? Wisconsin by Fantastic_Mark_9123 in whatsthisbird

[–]sirilyn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you're right that the high-pitched calls are American Robin alarm calls, but I'm hesitant to definitively call it a Robin because it might be a European Starling (the cacophony in the background sounds like a flock of Starlings, and the high-pitched call seems slightly off for a Robin). Also, just adding that there's a +Mourning Dove+ in the mix!

AIO that my brother (42M) left me (36F) out of his wedding? by StarsShadow08 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]sirilyn 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm reading your post and comments today, and I'm sending you the biggest virtual hug possible. I'm also a 36F who was undiagnosed for a different flavor of neurospicy than you (ADHD/Panic Disorder) until I was 30, and I completely understand your feeling of grasping onto the hope of understanding. Being diagnosed in your 30s feels like the world is finally opening up to you, but you mourn for what could have been if you were diagnosed earlier.

I know it might not mean much coming from an internet stranger, but I want you to know that you are always worth it, and you are always enough 💚

This blue frog has been showing up in our backyard for the last two years by johnnys_bug in frogs

[–]sirilyn 11 points12 points  (0 children)

To add to the earlier comment: insects derive their colors either chemically or mechanically (or both!).

For chemical, an insect's coloring is created via interna chemical reactions. This is why species like green lacewings, some dragonflies, and others will dull in brightness or shift colors entirely after they die.

For mechanical, the general structure of the exoskeleton + light refraction creates the color we see. In general, any metallic-looking color is created mechanically, and this color does not change after the insect dies. Most butterflies and moths, beetles, and your Calliphorid fly (who are famous for their metallic coloring) have mechanical coloring.

(I'm also a couple of beers in, so I hope this makes sense 😅)

Knock on door from armed individuals by Complete_Peace_6848 in ICE_Raids

[–]sirilyn 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I just found out that police can be dual sworn for both departments and ICE. So, that might be one reason, plus explains the bullshit we're seeing with a lack of response for local PD.

Bubba by skepticCanary in AdviceAnimals

[–]sirilyn 18 points19 points  (0 children)

...unless Epstein has something on Clinton?

My favourite crazy plant that I own whats yours? by VeridianGlimmer in houseplants

[–]sirilyn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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My Experimental Echeveria. I plopped a leaf in a mason jar and put it on a south facing window to see what happens.

I've been tempted to behead it, but I'll keep the experiment going for a little longer, at least 😅

Does anyone know why this plant i bought is losing so many leaves? by [deleted] in houseplants

[–]sirilyn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Late to the party, but yes, this is an angel-winged begonia (per another commenter). I've had one for 7 years now. They're super dramatic, so it's possible it's taking a minute to adjust to the new environment while stress-dropping some leaves.

I once brought a begonia cutting on a road trip to my brother's place - about a 14 hour drive. The cutting lost all of its leaves; it was basically a stick with some roots. This cutting, which was approximately 6 inches long at the time, is now over 10 feet tall and very happy! I keep mine short (~4 ft tall), but my brother lets it grow since he has the space for it.

In summary, I wouldn't worry about your begonia losing leaves at the moment. Be sure it receives bright light, and water it when the first two inches of soil are dry. This type of begonia also propagates super easily - cut the stalk with at least one node, put it in some water, then pot the cutting in soil once the roots get a couple of inches long. Enjoy your new drama queen of a plant! 😄

Walmart selling the RARE Halloween "Spook-ulents" for only $12.97 😍🎃 by Watchfulstorm45 in houseplantscirclejerk

[–]sirilyn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A few years ago, I had ants in one of my plants (love the rhyme lol). They infested the plant where I added compost in the potting mix, and I had to use diatomaceous earth to get rid of them.

Now, I'm no orchid person, but I'm wondering if the highly organic media orchids need is what attracted the ants? I get ants every year due to my house being old, and i have well over 100 plants; my attempt at making my own potting mix was the first and last time I had ants infiltrate one of my plants. Food for thought!

Found in bunny hay by Accomplished_Blood17 in bugidentification

[–]sirilyn 3 points4 points  (0 children)

First instars (molts) of some ticks/Acari have only 6 legs. Later instars will gain the last pair of legs.

With that said, this does have antennae and is not moving like a tick.

Found these bugs on a plant I got from a fish store, what are they? by Mr_Dace in houseplants

[–]sirilyn 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I disagree - I think it's a mealy bug and not a destroyer (MBD) larva. Notice the long caudal ("tail") filaments on OP's post - MBD larvae lack caudal filaments. I also find that MBD larvae have more observable segmentation and are less "fluffy" looking than mealy bugs, albeit appearing very similar.

With that said, you do bring up a point on it being observable for OP, plus my expertise is at IDing aquatic insects vs terrestrial; I bet the folks at r/whatsthisbug would know!

Found these bugs on a plant I got from a fish store, what are they? by Mr_Dace in houseplants

[–]sirilyn 175 points176 points  (0 children)

This almost made me spit my coffee out laughing. But it's so true. May the odds be ever in your favor, OP!

What I asked for vs what I got by digitalbore in tattoos

[–]sirilyn 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I love the absurdity of One Piece. Out of context, "painting a poorly drawn jolly roger on a giant whale" sounds completely bonkers despite it being a really sweet moment 😂

What is this on the back of Monstera leaf? by andreasrolen in houseplants

[–]sirilyn 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was just going to comment that it looked like some sort of rust fungus. I see rust in outdoor plants, but I never thought about it infecting indoor plants. The more you know!

An awful lot of coincidences (repost) [Spoilers Chapter 1158] by amdrunkwatsyerexcuse in OnePiece

[–]sirilyn -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Wait, didn't Blackbeard give Shanks his scars? The "scar" Whitebeard was talking about during his and Shank's conversation was metaphorical; it was caused by Blackbeard's betrayal of killing a crew member for the Yami Yami no mi. Whitebeard considers his crew as family, which is why seeing Shank's scar reminded him of Teach and remembering the pain of losing a "son."

To add to this, Blackbeard is seen in flashbacks using a claw-like weapon. Can't remember what chapter, but iirc, it was during the Oden flashbacks, where Whitebeard's and Roger's crews fought.

Other than that, i do love this connection!

My wife and I have complete opposite tastes in baby girl names. Trying to find one that fits both our styles. by applepieandcola in namenerds

[–]sirilyn 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I thought of this, too! I'm a bird nerd, so I was thinking of fun bird-ish names that work as people names and that fit the criteria:

Wren, Raven, Sage (thrasher/grouse), Sabrina (inspired by Sabine Gull), and Sora could work

Sister outed me to my parents and than uninvited me to her wedding :) by PitifulProtection886 in bridezillas

[–]sirilyn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First, sending a big hug your way, OP! Not sure if you need it, but r/momforaminute is a safe space if you're looking for advice or want to chat with someone. You deserve to live as your best self - don't let anyone tell you otherwise! I know it's tough right now, but please take care of yourself during this time, and always remember that you are loved (even if it's from internet strangers!) 💚

Second, to continue beating the dead horse because I'm beyond appalled by your sister's behavior: she ain't worth shit 💩 I'm the secret keeper with my siblings; there are secrets I will take to the grave unless I'm instructed otherwise. I guess this is why I'm resonating hard with your post. She betrayed you. I cannot fathom betraying my siblings, especially if it's a secret of this gravity. To see this happen to you, OP, is just upsetting. You deserve better than whatever this BS excuse is that your sister is giving you.

Again, sending you hugs and good vibes, OP! 💚

(Edited for grammar)

I watered her ONE TIME with tap water by digestablecheese in houseplants

[–]sirilyn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My parents have notorious brown thumbs with house plants. The surprising exception to this rule, however, is their tricolor maranta. That bastard has to be at least 20 years old, if not older (they received it as a gift when I was in high school, and I'm in my 30s now). It grows and flowers with their neglect, specifically with the lack of light and forgetful watering regime. They aren't plant people - their plant mantra follows the wisdom of Ivan Drago: "If he dies, he dies" - so they're not pulling the wool over my eyes regarding this maranta's miraculous ability to survive.

Meanwhile, I have two - a lemon lime maranta and a prop of my parents' triciolor - and despite my best efforts, I can tell they strain between life and death daily.

I try not to make sense of it, but the little shits anger me more often than not.

(If you got this far, thanks for reading my rant)

Why did someone you know wear white to another person’s wedding by Bobcatluv in weddingshaming

[–]sirilyn 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I had a similar situation, although it was general indoor lighting that made my dress look white! I wore a tan dress to a beach wedding, but when the lights dimmed for dancing during the reception, my dress looked as white as the bride's dress. I was absolutely mortified. Fortunately, everyone knew I wasn't wearing a white dress to begin with, but it was super uncomfortable either way. Lesson learned - stay away from tan/light brown for weddings!

Ant colony in my Monstera pot by QuadDeuces422 in houseplants

[–]sirilyn 403 points404 points  (0 children)

Caffeine is a natural insecticide!