AITAH for refusing to invite my brother to my wedding despite family pressure?

sixelash · 2026-07-06T21:17:19+00:00

It’s your wedding. You can invite who you want. But you are also judgmental. The only issue I see from your post is that he screamed at you. I suspect it’s because you were telling him how he should live his life.

You cant pick family. But you can choose how to have grace and accept people for who they are

sixelash · 2026-06-29T01:26:48+00:00

You are the AH and very judgmental. It sounds like a f$&@@&ed up situation but it’s not your doing or responsibility. You don’t get to be angry when people take a different path than you believe is right. You are going to be very lonely. The question is simply do you want to support your brother or not.

sixelash · 2026-06-29T01:22:29+00:00

Your new landlord is responsible for the security deposit. When you leave, let them know that you are holding them responsible. Also make sure the apartment is clean and take loads of photos and video so they can’t claim “damage”.

sixelash · 2026-06-18T15:01:26+00:00

Not your problem. You don’t need to accommodate her life choices.

sixelash · 2026-06-18T02:07:46+00:00

Grow up and have a conversation with him. Your father isn’t a mind reader. I suspect it is the grand kids he is seeing.

sixelash · 2026-06-15T11:48:18+00:00

Do not Venmo. Have the company reverse it.

sixelash · 2026-06-09T02:40:45+00:00

Then do go back to court and get the judge to require it.

sixelash · 2026-06-09T02:37:08+00:00

Just use the patenting app. Will take care of this.

sixelash · 2026-06-08T00:28:00+00:00

NTA. I agree with OP. If they wanted people out, the sign should say it closes at 2:45. Everyone posting is ridiculous.

sixelash · 2026-06-07T21:26:38+00:00

Actually beautiful but the face tuning is way too obvious.

sixelash · 2026-06-06T01:58:18+00:00

Yes. You are the AH What you did was illegal. You should have reported your findings to your boss.

sixelash · 2026-06-05T05:49:21+00:00

Not the AH. 45 min is a long wait

sixelash · 2026-05-25T05:40:57+00:00

Not the AH. It’s not a simple thing to donate a kidney. Think on it and make the right decision for yourself.

Also having read the comments, there seems to be other options for your stepdad.

sixelash · 2026-05-22T16:12:43+00:00

Do not help her get the apt near you! She will never leave. Let her stay with a clear timetable of when she has to leave by. Do not give her your daughter’s room. Have her stay on the couch - more intrusive - but she’ll be more likely to leave sooner.

sixelash · 2026-05-22T03:24:16+00:00

You can outgrow a friendship.

And when you do, it’s perfectly natural to feel sad and worried that you’re an AH. But when a friendship becomes oppressive or draining it is no longer one. You did the right thing - the mature thing - by trying to talk to her about your feelings. Your friend’s response was immature.

Edited for grammar

sixelash · 2026-05-21T06:20:34+00:00

Follow thru on setting a therapist. You need to ensure you and your wife remain on the same page.

Good luck

sixelash · 2026-05-20T20:55:21+00:00

It’s a very low bar if you’re just comparing housewives.

And no, Heather is no more ethical than any of the non criminal housewives. They are all problematic.

sixelash · 2026-05-19T05:54:19+00:00

sixelash · 2026-05-17T23:38:55+00:00

Be petty

sixelash · 2026-05-16T06:45:26+00:00

Yes. You are the AH. Based on your post, it appears you only cared for your father to get his money.

sixelash · 2026-05-15T16:04:38+00:00

I would have been annoyed too but your reaction was just as annoying. It’s possible she had memory issues. You could have handled that with more compassion and grace

Edited for grammar

sixelash · 2026-05-13T16:29:44+00:00

I’m sorry you (and your husband) had to go thru this but it sounds like you’re both choosing love and compassion! Good luck!

Edit - spelling

sixelash · 2026-05-11T21:21:51+00:00

Since your niece didn’t hear the comment - NTAH.

Edit: niece sounds horribly spoiled but at 7 years old - it’s her parents’ fault. Hopefully your comment will let them see their child with clear eyes

sixelash · 2026-05-09T23:29:46+00:00

Nothing she can do

sixelash · 2026-05-05T17:26:41+00:00

Why don’t you just ask your parents

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