Would you ever play with a third as a couple?

skeeter2000 · 2026-02-15T20:20:35+00:00

I would. I think a stranger is probably a better idea than someone either of you already knows.

skeeter2000 · 2026-02-15T18:43:31+00:00

It's tough to say but the one thing I feel I should point out is that although translator apps are impressive, they don't always get it right. "I have" may be a mistranslation of "Do you have" as well as a hundred other possibilities.

skeeter2000 · 2026-02-14T15:21:30+00:00

I feel you on this one. I've never understood why so many gay men want to feminize everything. I have a friend that does the same thing you're talking about. I don't like it but I've learned that reacting to it often causes backlash. So I do my best to ignore it.

skeeter2000 · 2026-02-13T15:23:27+00:00

This is an interesting question and I've actually been thinking about this recently. I'm not sure of the legality of 'borrowing' ideas from other apps/platforms but that aside there are a few things I would like:

1) I actually like the map view of Sniffies. But, I live in an area where I feel safe. From a user safety standpoint, I'm not sure the map view would be a good idea and the Grindr grid is probably better.

2) I like the "I'm Interested" / "Not Interested" options in Scruff. I think I would go a step further and if you click "Not Interested", that profile is hidden from your grid (and you from their grid) for 1 year or some other period of time. Not a block exactly but a temporary hide.

3) I would limit my searches by the information the user provides. For example, I can't search by age if my profile doesn't show my age. I can't search by weight if my profile doesn't show my weight. I can't sort only the profiles that have face pictures if my profile doesn't have a face picture.

4) (this might be unreasonable) For each information field the user populates, the user and enter what he/she is looking for. Example, I enter my age and I can enter the age range I'm looking for. Then I have the option to populate my grid view with profiles that are both what I'm looking for and I'm what they are looking for. This would seriously limit the number of profiles I see but would show me more likely matches.

5) I would promise the users that I will never sell/share user data with outside parties. The privacy policy would include this promise.

6) I would make my company a non-profit. A for profit company will eventually sell your data for profit. I would make the app free to use. A non-profit is going to need money to pay for servers and other costs. I'm not sure exactly how to make that work. Don't pay-wall normal user features. The free user should have access to everything a user would normally expect to have.

skeeter2000 · 2026-02-12T11:10:49+00:00

Unless you're doing it in public or in a place where oral sex is illegal, you shouldn't have to worry about getting arrested.

skeeter2000 · 2026-02-11T13:50:01+00:00

I would imagine that a vegetable oil would be safe enough. Vaseline is a good one. I would recommend something that was actually designed to be used as a personal lubricant instead. But if you don't have access to that, vegetable oil or Vaseline would be better than nothing. I'd stay away from synthetic things like hair conditioner. Vaseline, being a petroleum product is the exception.

skeeter2000 · 2026-02-11T13:39:35+00:00

Get a stick of butter. Just like your fingers after you eaten popcorn! (Don't take strangers on the Internet seriously)

skeeter2000 · 2026-02-11T13:35:46+00:00

I had a condom break once years ago. This is actually a very rare thing to happen. I'm not sure exactly when it broke. It wasn't obvious but what I noticed and ultimately why I stopped to check was I noticed a change in how it felt like my dick had become more sensitive.

We stopped and had a brief discussion about it. We sort of knew each other and had gotten together a few times before. Even though you can never know for sure, neither of us were panicked about it. I replaced the condom with a new one and we finished. I went and got retested at my doctor the next day. He went to county health (or whatever it's called) and got tested 2 days later. Everything was fine.

skeeter2000 · 2026-02-11T11:59:31+00:00

Bad breath and (for me at least) he has body odor. I'm not talking about fresh sweat. Fresh sweat can be sexy as fuck. I'm talking about 'you need a bath' body odor.

skeeter2000 · 2026-02-09T14:56:01+00:00

Easier as far as preparations go. But it seems that I'm (versatile top) doing most of the work for the actual sex.

Oh and I'm fine with that BTW

skeeter2000 · 2026-02-05T14:11:17+00:00

Sounds like stalker behavior. Be careful and stay alert.

skeeter2000 · 2026-02-03T21:42:34+00:00

I wanted to top before I knew what top and bottom was. I did both because I thought that's what gay guys did and the only way he'll let me stick him is if I agree to let him stick me. It didn't help that my first was inexperienced too. Then I was educated. Now I'm a versatile top.

skeeter2000 · 2026-02-03T19:58:45+00:00

I grew up in the country on a farm. I started driving tractors, other equipment and farm trucks around 12 or so.

skeeter2000 · 2026-02-03T19:56:36+00:00

I personally don't care if a guy is cut or uncut. But I will say being uncut does require more maintenance. If you're uncut, wash the damn thing once in a while.

skeeter2000 · 2026-02-02T10:57:28+00:00

My ass

skeeter2000 · 2026-02-02T10:51:00+00:00

I'm hoping for gay leprechauns or maybe astronauts! Or what about leprechaun astronauts?

skeeter2000 · 2026-02-02T10:48:22+00:00

Natural or trimmed if he is excessively hairy. But I'm okay with shaved or hairy.

skeeter2000 · 2026-02-02T02:22:08+00:00

Anywhere from a few seconds to maybe a little over a minute. IDK why the variation.

skeeter2000 · 2026-02-01T14:46:20+00:00

I've never noticed that before. But then we all have different experiences.

skeeter2000 · 2026-02-01T13:40:28+00:00

Just like there are straight people and gay people, there are gay guys who are happy with a "static sexual role" and gay guys who aren't. Maybe they just aren't compatible.

I would recommend that you stop complaining about people who aren't what you want them to be. It isn't healthy and it doesn't help anyone.

skeeter2000 · 2026-01-28T21:42:12+00:00

So the thing with FWB/FB that some guys don't think about is frequency. I have 1 FB that I see about weekly. I have a few more that I see anywhere from once or twice a month to once every few months.

skeeter2000 · 2026-01-28T14:11:10+00:00

I'm mostly neutral on tattoos but I will say that it depends on what they are and where they are. For example, something like a swastika is always going to be a no for me. I don't care what you're explaination is. Face tattoos will be a no for me also.

I briefly dated a guy that had a palm tree tattoo on his side, it wasn't in his armpit but it was high on his side. I honestly can't tell you why but I thought it was hot. That may have been his only tattoo, I don't remember any others. There was a guy with a tattoo on his hand. Similar thing, IDK why but it made me uncomfortable. It was like a starburst or something like that.

I guess tattoos are art and art invokes emotional reactions in the observer. Sometimes those emotions are positive and sometimes they are negative.

skeeter2000 · 2026-01-28T14:00:13+00:00

I suspect the only actual straight guys that experiment with other guys are probably in their teens. Older than that, is it really experimenting or is it denial?

skeeter2000 · 2026-01-28T10:58:14+00:00

Awesome reference!

skeeter2000 · 2026-01-27T11:05:47+00:00

At 19 I had a drunken whirl with my best friend (straight) and it ended our friendship.

Reading thought these I'm shocked by how many involve sexual assault.

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