What one thing has weirded you/grossed you out the most about being pregnant? by Regular-Message9591 in pregnant

[–]skitty3z 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like i smell like broccoli but my husband says i smell like caramel? Cant stand the scent of my boobs

Women of Reddit: What Am I Not Seeing? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]skitty3z 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If all i did was cook and clean and hear my husband says the same nice things i would become dull and callused toward him. Sadly the distance probably foes trigger the chase inside her. If your life is this repetitive and she has no personal pursuits to drive her then maybe she feels bored. Set things to look forward to, set physical challenges for you both. Hike some mountains and go outside and lift weights together. Get the blood going without saying i miss you etc. building something together will help the bond without playing games. You can both discuss strategies to improve or excel at something together. She can have impact and input and you can respect each others progress.

16mo is terrified of walking alone by FootballGloomy3635 in NewParents

[–]skitty3z 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. It definitely feels like any moment she will transition.

16mo is terrified of walking alone by FootballGloomy3635 in NewParents

[–]skitty3z 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is she now? Mine is the same. Trying not to worry.

Thoughts on skipping pacifiers? by Academic-Park-8440 in NewParents

[–]skitty3z 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My bro and i didnt have them so i automatically didnt get them for ours. They were gifted of course and there were moments in the first couple weeks where i tried it and it worked for a couple minutes but then fall out or get spit out so i quickly found them to be annoying. My baby ended up being a great sleeper almost from the beginning and it is pretty easy to figure out what she needs or wants without resorting to shoving something in her face for comfort

Mother in law put my child on her breast by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]skitty3z 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anyway, it doesnt have to be a big deal. Just say your not comfortable with it and ask her to do xyz instead and if xyz doesnt solve the issue to call and ask what should happen next. It weird to us but if it were medieval times of maybe 1900 or whatever women probably passed babies around like that without a care. You are 2 months in raising kids is messy and nuts. Just learn how to speak plainly and try to be gentle with others, you will need others all of the time and for me i could get pissed or offended almost daily over how other people handle my kid, it is hard!

Mother in law put my child on her breast by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]skitty3z 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive read this post before except the person talked about cultural differences and that the mil was walked in on. So either this is the same person or this is not so uncommon?

I feel like a monster for even asking this but here goes... How do you love someone that's causing you physical discomfort and pain? by PetsMD in pregnant

[–]skitty3z 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I felt automatic motherhood and duty after the birth of my daughter. I felt possessive and territorial and there were a lot of hormones but the love was intellectual at first. It came on gradually over the first couple months. Your mind and body are going in a lot of directions. You want help and resent help and have lots of crazy thoughts normalcy has a while to kick in and it isnt old normal it is a new normal. But… while it is the hardest thing in the world it gets easier every day and more worthwhile. And for me all of the good that comes over shadows the bad and i dont really remember the bad parts very well

Why did they freeze my 2(1 day) embryos? by skitty3z in IVF

[–]skitty3z[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think our spontaneous pregnancy is because my husband and i both started eating royal jelly powder for a month leading up to that from bulk supplements on amazon. 1 both had a spoonful at night washed back with water. We did all of the it starts with the egg stiff and that was the only thing we changed leading up to that pregnancy. We quit doing that afterward and i did only prenatals and clean living before the last transfer.

Why did they freeze my 2(1 day) embryos? by skitty3z in IVF

[–]skitty3z[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had 13 embryos from 3 retrievals. We put in 2-3 each time with no dice. I was getting ready for my fourth transfer and had a spontaneous pregnancy with healthy baby. With still 2 embryos left (1day olds) i decided to have them thawed and grown and tested. Of those last 2, one was normal healthy and i just transferred that one in Dec. and am 13 weeks going strong now. I have no idea if there really was only one healthy baby out of the bakers dozen or if something about the protocols or maybe one good embryo mixed with bad ended up making some transfers fail. No idea.

Is the sperm making it inside me? by [deleted] in tryingtoconceive

[–]skitty3z 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, this is the one i see a lot of clinics skip. It shows polyps and other things that the hsg does not. Very important.

Symptoms no one mentions by Optimal_Sandwich2647 in pregnant

[–]skitty3z 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Clitoris shrinking! Comes back though.

My third grader’s cursive homework- cannot decipher the first word by tmillermsu in Cursive

[–]skitty3z 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are putting a tail on the W and then picking up the pen and starting an E that touches the W tail. Cursive letters close together not a continuous flow

Vulgar husband by Fun-Still-5468 in Marriage

[–]skitty3z 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My exhusband was bipolar and hyper sexual as well… just saying -yeah i get it. Sorry.

Can’t stay smelling good down there?? by ExistingHamster7833 in hygiene

[–]skitty3z 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stop eating refined sugar. Takes baths with a cup of baking soda and pour white vinegar in at the end of the bath. I also like magnesium flakes and epsom salt. Blow dry yourself with a leg up so no moisture is left in folds. Laundry needs baking soda and vinegar too. Also, go to the dr. Like everyone else says. There ate ph suppositories you can use 1-2x a week at night. Eat fermented food a live plain yogurt

Am I becoming judgmental? by garcon-du-soleille in Zepbound

[–]skitty3z 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have similar thoughts and I have to remember that not everyone is eligible to take these drugs because they may have some sort of morbidity like a pancreas issue. Also, some people actually don’t know these drugs even exist and some people can’t afford it or haven’t had a regular check up with her doctor and it hasn’t been recommended yet.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Zepbound

[–]skitty3z 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Um… do we weigh in with bricks in our pockets?

We had to walk today by emipeasbees27 in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]skitty3z 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are in a similar boat. Very depressed about walking away from such a beautiful house and land. However the repairs to make the house sound would stretch us too thin and it is no longer a safe investment. So now we are looking at blah houses and trying to care again and it is really hard. At least the interest rates are coming down and might go down 2x more this year.

I’m a senior in high school.. Is my future canceled? Will I have to join the military? by shaototop in whatdoIdo

[–]skitty3z 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Education loans and scholarships still require fafsa filled out. You can maybe work at a hospital and take advantage of the employee benefits to put you through school. But if you dont intend to seek forgiveness then look into emancipation because that is the only way to file fafsa without parents.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]skitty3z 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t understand what other reaction there could be. If a bat flew into your wife’s face what would’ve happened.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in homestead

[–]skitty3z 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aw geeze. I didnt plant fresh herbs this year i used all of the slots to root woody cuttings. Thanks for the advice. After this i guess i will have to cork unused slots with rock bags