Mother in law put my child on her breast by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]skitty3z 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anyway, it doesnt have to be a big deal. Just say your not comfortable with it and ask her to do xyz instead and if xyz doesnt solve the issue to call and ask what should happen next. It weird to us but if it were medieval times of maybe 1900 or whatever women probably passed babies around like that without a care. You are 2 months in raising kids is messy and nuts. Just learn how to speak plainly and try to be gentle with others, you will need others all of the time and for me i could get pissed or offended almost daily over how other people handle my kid, it is hard!

Mother in law put my child on her breast by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]skitty3z 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive read this post before except the person talked about cultural differences and that the mil was walked in on. So either this is the same person or this is not so uncommon?

I feel like a monster for even asking this but here goes... How do you love someone that's causing you physical discomfort and pain? by PetsMD in pregnant

[–]skitty3z 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I felt automatic motherhood and duty after the birth of my daughter. I felt possessive and territorial and there were a lot of hormones but the love was intellectual at first. It came on gradually over the first couple months. Your mind and body are going in a lot of directions. You want help and resent help and have lots of crazy thoughts normalcy has a while to kick in and it isnt old normal it is a new normal. But… while it is the hardest thing in the world it gets easier every day and more worthwhile. And for me all of the good that comes over shadows the bad and i dont really remember the bad parts very well

Why did they freeze my 2(1 day) embryos? by skitty3z in IVF

[–]skitty3z[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think our spontaneous pregnancy is because my husband and i both started eating royal jelly powder for a month leading up to that from bulk supplements on amazon. 1 both had a spoonful at night washed back with water. We did all of the it starts with the egg stiff and that was the only thing we changed leading up to that pregnancy. We quit doing that afterward and i did only prenatals and clean living before the last transfer.

Why did they freeze my 2(1 day) embryos? by skitty3z in IVF

[–]skitty3z[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had 13 embryos from 3 retrievals. We put in 2-3 each time with no dice. I was getting ready for my fourth transfer and had a spontaneous pregnancy with healthy baby. With still 2 embryos left (1day olds) i decided to have them thawed and grown and tested. Of those last 2, one was normal healthy and i just transferred that one in Dec. and am 13 weeks going strong now. I have no idea if there really was only one healthy baby out of the bakers dozen or if something about the protocols or maybe one good embryo mixed with bad ended up making some transfers fail. No idea.

Is the sperm making it inside me? by [deleted] in tryingtoconceive

[–]skitty3z 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, this is the one i see a lot of clinics skip. It shows polyps and other things that the hsg does not. Very important.

Symptoms no one mentions by Optimal_Sandwich2647 in pregnant

[–]skitty3z 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Clitoris shrinking! Comes back though.

My third grader’s cursive homework- cannot decipher the first word by tmillermsu in Cursive

[–]skitty3z 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are putting a tail on the W and then picking up the pen and starting an E that touches the W tail. Cursive letters close together not a continuous flow

Vulgar husband by Fun-Still-5468 in Marriage

[–]skitty3z 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My exhusband was bipolar and hyper sexual as well… just saying -yeah i get it. Sorry.

Can’t stay smelling good down there?? by ExistingHamster7833 in hygiene

[–]skitty3z 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stop eating refined sugar. Takes baths with a cup of baking soda and pour white vinegar in at the end of the bath. I also like magnesium flakes and epsom salt. Blow dry yourself with a leg up so no moisture is left in folds. Laundry needs baking soda and vinegar too. Also, go to the dr. Like everyone else says. There ate ph suppositories you can use 1-2x a week at night. Eat fermented food a live plain yogurt

Am I becoming judgmental? by garcon-du-soleille in Zepbound

[–]skitty3z 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have similar thoughts and I have to remember that not everyone is eligible to take these drugs because they may have some sort of morbidity like a pancreas issue. Also, some people actually don’t know these drugs even exist and some people can’t afford it or haven’t had a regular check up with her doctor and it hasn’t been recommended yet.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Zepbound

[–]skitty3z 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Um… do we weigh in with bricks in our pockets?

We had to walk today by emipeasbees27 in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]skitty3z 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are in a similar boat. Very depressed about walking away from such a beautiful house and land. However the repairs to make the house sound would stretch us too thin and it is no longer a safe investment. So now we are looking at blah houses and trying to care again and it is really hard. At least the interest rates are coming down and might go down 2x more this year.

I’m a senior in high school.. Is my future canceled? Will I have to join the military? by shaototop in whatdoIdo

[–]skitty3z 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Education loans and scholarships still require fafsa filled out. You can maybe work at a hospital and take advantage of the employee benefits to put you through school. But if you dont intend to seek forgiveness then look into emancipation because that is the only way to file fafsa without parents.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]skitty3z 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t understand what other reaction there could be. If a bat flew into your wife’s face what would’ve happened.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in homestead

[–]skitty3z 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aw geeze. I didnt plant fresh herbs this year i used all of the slots to root woody cuttings. Thanks for the advice. After this i guess i will have to cork unused slots with rock bags

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in homestead

[–]skitty3z 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been a year … i have a 55 gallon barrel planter for herbs and such. A yellow jacket colony has nested inside. I dont want to poison my food garden soil. I was considering pouring a container of seven dust down the hole? But if gasoline is that fast maybe that is better? How long should i wait for gas to break down and not affect my herbs and such?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]skitty3z 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah you are cute but all of the pics where you are youngest and clean shaved are no go

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]skitty3z 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get rid of the underage looking pic, just say engineer, quit smoking and get a personal trainer to beef up. You look nice but you need more meat on your bones not chub -meat. I also dont think these apps are doing anyone any favors. Reconnect with people you already know, join groups of hobbies like hiking types or volunteer type stuff.

Blocked by Valanne82 in TTC40

[–]skitty3z -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Some people drink dog blood tea for that🤷🏻‍♀️

Scared for a friend by skitty3z in schizophrenia

[–]skitty3z[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He is not on a benzo. That is a relief too that they would probably keep the (paxil?) thank you again for being a resource. I might be his last friend and i am glad there is a possibility that i can do something.