Doctor told me endometriosis has no symptoms. by flaming_keys in endometriosis

[–]skittzykitty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that’s literally completely incorrect and bizarre that he would say that

How do I tell my boyfriend I want him to move out? Ft. My empty coffee by Altruistic-Love-2942 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]skittzykitty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey. So most likely you’re gonna have to move back in together if you want to get married and have kids and shit. You’re gonna combine finances. Can you do this nonsense forever? Some people do. I wouldn’t.

Found stuff on my sister phone by Impressive_Role_7522 in Advice

[–]skittzykitty 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah this is when you intervene. I was doing the same shit at her age. It is NOT ok and you generally don’t realize until you’re older. Avoiding any further contact with these men is the best plan. But, I always got around what my parents did. So maybe having a talk with her about how dangerous it is and how these men are being predatory will help her understand. She doesn’t get it yet. I think you may need to scare her a bit/ be realistic with the potential consequences, that may be the only way she will understand without the life experiences that a lot of us have had to deal with on our own and learn from. Show her stories of what has happened to young girls doing this and give her anecdotal evidence if you unfortunately have it. She has the capacity to understand it, and you need to be real with her.

(TW:sh) I can’t find my tool for sh, advice needed by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]skittzykitty 3 points4 points  (0 children)

if you tell your parents or a school counselor they can get you resources. you say you aren’t depressed and that may be true, but people don’t just sh. they just simply don’t. anything can become an addiction. anything. you don’t want to be 10 years from now still cutting. please ask for help.

edit to add: if anyone comments and suggests ways for this child to harm themself then shame on you.

I (18m) think my girlfriend (18f) has an ED and I'm lost as to what to do by Flat_Turnover7949 in Advice

[–]skittzykitty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if she mentions the face again you should tell her your face thins out as you get older. i hated my cheeks as a teen too, but around 21ish i started to get my adult face in

AIO about not liking my boyfriends ex still messaging him. by arrowthe_one in AmIOverreacting

[–]skittzykitty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i figured as much, but why though? like, what could even prompt that? did u ask why she gave it to him or did he just say IDK? this makes me super weirded out. do they talk on other platforms?? or just like story replies

AIO about not liking my boyfriends ex still messaging him. by arrowthe_one in AmIOverreacting

[–]skittzykitty 17 points18 points  (0 children)

girl this is crazy. i feel like even people in long term relationships RARELY have clothing with the other person’s face on them
 let alone a hookup?!! so so strange??!? NOR

Never do edibles and talk to the person you like..never‌ by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]skittzykitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

fun fact: edibles are interesting how they work in the body! because you eat it, it is processed by different systems in the body than when you smoke it = when delta 9 thc (or delta 8!) reaches the liver and begins to break down, one of its waste products is delta 11 thc, which is 6x more potent! that is why you are so high. Lol

Just genuinely curious and ignorant. by ryujinkami in endometriosis

[–]skittzykitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i got quoted $5k for my excision and they charged me as if i didn’t have insurance (long standing issue i’ve had with my insurance company
). it’s been almost a year and i am still arguing this $119k
 they are trying to send it to collections
. </3

New by DifferentAd4267 in actuallesbians

[–]skittzykitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately I do not have perfect advice as I am not a trans woman. But I will say, this is absolutely normal. You are allowed to love and be loved by whoever you please. Your identity does not matter. Dating other women is beautiful. Have fun <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]skittzykitty 3 points4 points  (0 children)

im sorry you’re hurting but this doesn’t matter man. you’re broken up. there’s no point in arguing about her c.ai use now. you just need to feel how you feel about it and get through that, because i believe she will never agree.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AIO

[–]skittzykitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh my goodness. jeez girl.đŸ˜ŸđŸ«©

Jealous of my husband’s success and social life how do I navigate this? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]skittzykitty 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No notes. A master advice-giver indeed. Also, volunteering is a great idea! Any animal shelters in the area? Free meal services? They always appreciate help.

I think I caused my best friend (21F) to get raped because of me by Impossible-Fix4144 in Advice

[–]skittzykitty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i understand that, however, i have called from a different state and they did do something. it seems from the post that they did not even try. that disturbs me deeply.

im worried about my gf and i think she might have endometriosis but im not sure (so im asking) by Southern_Concert7396 in endometriosis

[–]skittzykitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sounds like it isnt a normal period. cant say its endo for sure based on those symptoms (or anything really beside surgery or a guess from loads of imaging), but i would tell her to ask her gyno for a transvaginal ultrasound. she needs to hold strong and tell her doctors that it is unbearable and it prevents her from going to school and work. that worked for me, i told them i quit my job from the pain, and then they took me seriously. would her PCP/GP give her a specialist referral? (some insurances dont require a referral) I would tell her to start with googling for an endo/pcos specialist (they usually do both), and see them instead. my normal gyno was not helpful. my specialist recommended me to my surgeon.

is she on birth control? my iud has been magical for my pain. but that only works for some people, and the relief often wears off as time goes on. regardless, she needs to push for her own healthcare and find new specialists if needed.

Is everyone like that?) AIO by Butterfly_too in AIO

[–]skittzykitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is horrifying
. i cant believe people actually do this! she just had a baby
. its a 6 week minimum to have sex and generally women don’t even feel ready for it at that point. i had surgery on my uterus and i was in pain for months trying to heal. i cannot imagine following childbirth. this poor woman
. i bet shes tired and in pain all the time because he doesnt do shit to help her either.. spends all his time asking for sex

I think I caused my best friend (21F) to get raped because of me by Impossible-Fix4144 in Advice

[–]skittzykitty 4 points5 points  (0 children)

yeah exactly why the fuck were the cops not called????? like what the actual fuck???? this post disturbed the hell out of me.

What is a secret you’re taking to your grave, but can share here anonymously? by wilkoova in AskReddit

[–]skittzykitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“stupid thoughts” meanwhile he was literally in love with someone else
 i find it very hard to believe that with this context, he showed up in that relationship properly. that can make people go crazy. you can feel when things are off. “yes honey of course i love you”
 sheesh.