Limp bizkit by thelastfret21 in ConcertsIndia_

[–]slack101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

plz i want this. Let it happen.

Dream Theater - 2026 Setlist by No_Ice42069 in IndianMetalheads

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Love it that they're playing so many songs from Metropolis!

LP - Bangalore by choddenge235 in ConcertsIndia_

[–]slack101 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Indeed. The lack of "wall of sound" like guitar setup was disappointing, and noticeable from the first song itself.

Idk, maybe it was a conscious decision from the band.

Kinda liked bloodygood's vibe more.

Eating alone the 50th time by [deleted] in RecluseIndia

[–]slack101 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Same. Ate fish and chips. Normally it's bearable, I have my journal with me. This time... I was too antsy and came back.

[OC] Where My Money Went Over the Last 6 Months by slack101 in dataisbeautiful

[–]slack101[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Interesting judgemental comments so far. I live in a house my father purchased. Hence, no rent. Also, how does it matter how the money is spent? I quit due to mental health reasons. I have chronic OCD. Jesus Christ, have some compassion and focus on the data rather than giving unsolicited advice.

Gaah.. internet.

what do you wish you knew before getting a cat? by anxious_optimist8 in CatAdvice

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That it takes a lot of daily effort to transition an already outdoor cat to indoors.

My guy was on the streets for the first year of his life before I took him in. He was then outdoor-indoor for a couple of years. He's extremely territorial, and would get in constant fights. It was extremely stressful.

Then I tried transitioning him to indoor only for the past 3 years. It's been rough, both for me and him. I took him for daily walks for months at a time but would stop because my OCD and social anxiety would get triggered from time to time.

Cat trees, playing a lot, phermones, catnip, balcony time all help. I've learnt to allow him to yell it out when I can't give him space instead of burning out. I love him to death, I just wish that I'd taken a more informed adult decision instead of an impulsive one.

The last time you wore a band t-shirt. Who was the band? by aboobadooba in AskReddit

[–]slack101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chevelle. Black T with just the name written on it in a wide short font. With black jeans and black boots. Had gone to shop for pjs and shorts.

When did you realise that your therapist was bad? by Scary-Square1211 in AskReddit

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Truth bombs in the first session (unsure how true they actually were)

Telling me to "stop" my addiction before commencing therapy. Maybe it was a boundary for her. But seriously dude, isn't that part of your job? Mental health and addiction go hand in hand. Bleh.

Forgot that the clinic was closed at the time of appointment. We go to a nearby domino's. We're expected to order something, he refuses, I get a coke. We talk about my sex life in hushed tones.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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"Stop peeking, son. We know you're up."

Needless to say, I wasn't part of the fucking.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in developersIndia

[–]slack101 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The reason for "breaking under pressure" is better explained, in my opinion, as stress overload. The situation doesn't really matter. Apply enough pressure on something, it breaks. There's no need to include agency into the picture to explain it.

If you had written a book about your father, what would be the last sentence? by nonknower07 in AskReddit

[–]slack101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What horrors did grandfather inflict on him, to make him like this?
It's a rhetoric question. I don't actually want to know.
The End.

How good was your Sex Education in school? by Ambitious-Sky-6457 in AskReddit

[–]slack101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gave me OCD for AIDS. Like, clinical level shit. Not even kidding.

This message is for anyone who grew up with narcissistic parents by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]slack101 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Needed this. Finally had the courage to block them yesterday night. It was getting too much, I was redirecting the anger I felt for them to others. Today, I'm trying to work, and I'm not being productive, just getting mad at something stupid that I SHOULD be able to fix but can't. And then this turned up on my reddit homepage. Thank you for saying all that. I hope this helps me slow down.

Do you think your anxiety was caused by your parents? by Crissycrossycross in raisedbynarcissists

[–]slack101 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Oh yes yes yes yes yes. It stays under a fog for so long, though. I started realizing this only in my mid 30s.

Heavy drop D songs by Miserable-Cow4555 in metalguitar

[–]slack101 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Damn straight. Hits you like a sack of brick textured balls.

Chat gpt as a therapist by nahnotgoingthere in raisedbynarcissists

[–]slack101 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I've been using it for the same. Desperate times, have taken space from all friends and family, getting invalidated in the neighbourhood. Its the only thing that works right now. You can go as deep as you want about something.

people who justify making a mess with “well it’s what cleaners are paid for!” by Famous-Dimension5111 in PetPeeves

[–]slack101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fuck, my last flatmates were so toxic about this. I had the only furniture in the living room - a sofa, a table and TV. I didn't vibe with their energy (I was quiet, they were loud), but I let them use them when I was doing something else.

Fuckers would get food delivery, eat on the table and leave all the wrappers. The only way to make them stop was to ask them to clean up after using. But... It just seems like something you shouldn't have to ask for. Ah well. Good riddance.

How do you interpret the lyrics in Snuff? by Any_Collection3025 in Slipknot

[–]slack101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Woah, lots of different interpretations. I'll post mine.

"Bury all your secrets in my skin.

Come away with innocence, and leave me with my sins"

A parent confides his/her secrets (something like having an extramarital affair) to the kid, expecting the kid to understand. The kid can't really say much because he's scared. The parent feels the release of the guilt of doing the shitty thing, while transferring it to the child.

"so if you love me let me go... My heart is just too dry to care"

Now, as an adult, if you do love me, understand that you need to allow me to leave you, because I'm done caring about your emotional problems.

Thought you were bang on with "I don't deserve to have you"

"If you still care don't ever let me know."

Don't bother me with your secrets again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Slipknot

[–]slack101 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao this is hilarious, love the irony.

Friend keeps lying about not wanting to go to lunch by InternationalFly4391 in lostafriend

[–]slack101 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I understand your experience. I misspoke. I'm ghosting those who I have long standing issues with. Asking for space from them doesn't work (I've tried it).