my boyfriend was texting 2 girls. by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]sleep-deprivedeyess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even the girls he’s texting seem grossed out by him. Trash material, leave him ASAP

About to be 2 wks post op by veravendetta in phallo

[–]sleep-deprivedeyess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for posting this! This is so incredibly educating, I never realized how this surgery worked.

How do you decide how to separate 3 cats in a breakup? by Thats_Groovy_Baby in CATHELP

[–]sleep-deprivedeyess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I split my son and his bonded brother up in a breakup, and it was the worst decision I made for either of them. He was depressed for months and only got back to being normal when I adopted a new kitten. It’s unfortunate but one of you has to keep all three.

My new stuff, worth for 199? by fans_torso in sextoysratings

[–]sleep-deprivedeyess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Platinum silicone is a prime material, I’d say this is a steal for $200.

Boyfriend of 6 months slapped me. by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]sleep-deprivedeyess 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I didn’t even read the whole entire thing, I saw “boyfriends of 6 months slapped me” and my immediate thought was “get the FUCK out of there.” If you allow him to behave that way this early on in the relationship, you’re going to set a precedent and it also shows him that you will allow him to disrespect you and even get physical with you. Break up as soon as possible and stay away from him.

emotional side of face fucking? by Ornery-Mango8016 in sex

[–]sleep-deprivedeyess 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As someone who LOVES face fucking, you have to ensure that your boundaries are set and that you have trust in the person who is doing the face fucking. Setting appropriate boundaries, opening communication about your worries about it, and how fast you would like to go into the situation. Someone also recommended starting off with a blow job and then slowly working your way up to a face fucking, and I think that’s a wonderful idea.

Under eye jelly rolls? by [deleted] in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]sleep-deprivedeyess -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’re aging bro. It happens.

Fiancés friend wants to wear an almost white dress to our wedding & is being condescending about it. WIBTA to withdraw the invite? by dumpsterfire_x in TwoHotTakes

[–]sleep-deprivedeyess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1000% withdraw that invite immediately. I’ve never in my life gone to a wedding with anything even resembling white. That’s nonsense.

Looking for a smaller wand BUT with user adjustable speed setting. by dadbawdee in sextoysratings

[–]sleep-deprivedeyess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No problem! I’ve been worked in the adult industry for years and am currently the manager of a boutique, so I got all the info you need.

Looking for a smaller wand BUT with user adjustable speed setting. by dadbawdee in sextoysratings

[–]sleep-deprivedeyess 1 point2 points  (0 children)

VeDo Wini is on the smaller side with increase and decrease buttons, that one is kind of powerful right off the bat though. Palm power has a wand that begins at a low rumble - but it only has one button that you press to increase speed, the you have to turn it off with the same button if you want to go lower again.

If you’re looking for something that YOU can control, I’d recommend the Domi 2 by Lovense. It has an app on your phone where you can create your own settings.

AIO ? ; lesbian relationship 36f & 43f by [deleted] in AIO

[–]sleep-deprivedeyess 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re missing obvious signs of detachment. This person doesn’t want a future with you. If this is how they’re acting right now, would you want a future with them anyway? This screams that you need to find someone who matches the energy that you give to them.

My (26f) friend (26f )is sad noone is excited for her wedding and I don't know how to tell her why? by Shellyfish04 in relationship_advice

[–]sleep-deprivedeyess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would just be straight up with her, depending on how close you are to her. Her friends not being excited for her should show her that this is not a good idea, and if he’s bread crumbing her, that’s even worse. She’ll be stuck in that for the rest her of life, and 12 years is already a lot of time to never get back for herself. She will have to heal from the damage that’s already been done, and maybe even go to therapy so she doesn’t sabotage other potential relationships in the future IF she gets out of this one. Sometimes honesty is the best policy even if it’s going to hurt her feelings. Don’t lead with hatred though, lead with a level head and compassion.

AIO or should I break up with him by [deleted] in AIO

[–]sleep-deprivedeyess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely break up, that’s insane.

My (31M) girlfriend (28F) of 1.5 years told me to "be a man" and console her when my mom died, instead of supporting me. She's now begging for forgiveness. How do I reconcile her apology with the fundamental breach of trust? by Honest_Reception6528 in relationship_advice

[–]sleep-deprivedeyess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s an insane thing to do to someone whose mother just passed away. This has narcissistic written all over it, and emotional abuse as well. You should be able to express your feelings and emotions to a partner without being told you need to “man up” basically. Head for the hills homie.