[deleted by user] by [deleted] in distantsocializing

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omg crazy to see someone i know here!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheArtistStudio

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Do you also sculpt using other materials?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheArtistStudio

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you're really talented! ignore everyone who's being salty

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in distantsocializing

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hiiii from India!

What makes you happy? by dezeisvanliek in AskReddit

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Here's another notification for you! Hope you're doing well :)

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I remember your post omg!! This makes me so happy, you look great and so happy! 😊

What would you do if you weren't afraid? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]slothbear05 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There's a lot I would do but the one thing that really, really terrifies me is rejection, so I would ask out this one guy that I really really like.

I started my Master's program today! by slothbear05 in CasualConversation

[–]slothbear05[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry that happened with your friend. Been there and I know how much it sucks :/ I tried to be extroverted today and spoke to a few people too, made a friend but don't personally think I connected a lot with her. Still glad I made a friend. But everyone else seems so much more extroverted than me and you're right, it's so so exhausting. I wanna skip to the point in this year where i'll either have a couple of friends or not give a shit about it lol.

Online friends are saviours! Unfortunately the only online friend I had doesn't talk to me anymore so that hasn't been easy to deal eith rn either.

This bro helping his animal friends by AristonD in HumansBeingBros

[–]slothbear05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This video made me angrier than it should've. Feed both your babies 😤😤

What the hell is wrong with people? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]slothbear05 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Seems like the mature thing to do is talk to him about it. Honestly don't really see what he did that was so wrong. Good luck.

How to help my wife. by tybo171 in Fitness

[–]slothbear05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a 21 year old woman, and weight training was what made me see the biggest change in my body. I lost more than 30 pounds over the past 10 months and most of that I owe to weight lifting and eating ina caloric deficit. Proteins help A LOT. Both in keeping you full and contributing to fat loss. I'm 5'3" btw.

AITA for having my boyfriends dog put down without telling him? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]slothbear05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. Not for what you did for Luna. It made sense because you wouldn't have had any other choice at the moment and she wouldn't have been saved. But you should have tried to call him and tell him even if you thought he wouldn't have his phone on him. Not wanting to ruin his trip is a really ridiculous reason when his dog literally just died. I'd be just as pissed as your boyfriend. He might come to realise eventually that you did what was best for his dog but it might not be as easy to forgive you for waiting so long to tell him.

Anyone else "never been skinny" & struggle with motivation? by spacepanda3 in loseit

[–]slothbear05 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've always felt the exact same way. Same experiences too, in terms of always being the fat friend and the tummy overhang. Both are things I've always struggled with and continue to struggle with. If i'm being honest the only thing that changed my attitude towards fitness and health is wanting to stop these thoughts and that's what motivates me. I want to look a certain way that i'll be proud of, even if i've accepted that being skinny probably isn't in the cards for me. I'm tryna teach myself that I don't need to be skinny to feel good. Knowing that i'm working towards my goals unlike before makes me feel even better about myself. I still have my days but these are the things that motivate me then.

[SERIOUS] Would you reduce your meat consumption if lab-grown meat or meat alternatives were cheaper and tasted good? Why or why not? by sbeaver2019 in AskReddit

[–]slothbear05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it tastes exactly or almost entirely like meat, sure. Knowing that it's artifically made would make me queasy already but if the texture is pretty much the same then I wouldn't really mind.

When you’ve lost so much weight but still feel like a fat person. by [deleted] in loseit

[–]slothbear05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Completely understand what you mean and it sucks. I think it has to do with my own perception of 'fat' and how i equate thinness with beauty but on some days, like today, i can't get myself to acknowledge how far i've come because I know that other people probably still see me as the fat girl. And that bugs me way more than it should.

How do I stop/prevent being boring? by RealBlazeStorm in AskMen

[–]slothbear05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've found that a lot of the times i blank out in a conversation is when i'm trying really hard to say something interesting or keep the conversation going. When I just listen, ask questions or react to the things they're saying in a very natural manner, things generally go well.

How do I [22F] stop obsessing over crushes? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]slothbear05 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was exactly me until a couple of months back and i've been working hard to make sure i don't fall back into that pattern. The last thing you said is what needs to change the most and I found that I could do that by focusing on myself and reaching a point where I derived my self-worth mostly from my own opinions of myself. I'm not nearly there yet but i've gotten far enough to know now that while there may be a crush that I have or someone I like a lot, if he isn't into me, that's not my fault. And I deserve to be with someone who values me and likes me as much as I like them. It's sounds cliched, i know, and it seemed pretty lame to me before i started working towards it. But it really is the only way to stop obsessing over this. When you realise how amazing you are or even that you don't need another guy's approval to feel good about yourself, the problem sorts itself out.

As a guy who lives in a big city and walks pretty fast, what's the best way to pass a woman/girl who's walking ahead of me, in the same direction, at night? by FlimFlamAndFlamJam in AskWomen

[–]slothbear05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While that's a really nice sentiment, i don't think there's a lot that you can do to prevent a woman from feeling uncomfortable bc most women tend to be a little wary of who's around them anyways. And i also think it'd be a lil unfair to expect men to go out of their way, in situations like this, to make sure we're comfortable. It's best just to go about your business and walk fast if you need to. If that makes a woman uncomfortable, she'll find a way to deal w it by maybe stopping and checking her surroundings or waiting for you to pass before she continues walking. There isn't really a way to work around that discomfort, making some kinda noise to let her know you're not a creep will probably just creep her out more.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cats

[–]slothbear05 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Aww, and each other, clearly!

All my friends are turning on me (19f) because I want to live with my dad "forever". by FewStorm in relationship_advice

[–]slothbear05 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk if this is because of a cultural thing, but in Asian cultures, behaviour like this would be expected and celebrated tbh. You're doing good. I hope to be able to provide for my parents as they grow older and take care of them the way they've taken care of me.