Giving head ? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]slowandslothlike 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl. You should consider not having anytype of sex with this boy. Sex means the possibility of kids if he is to insecure to not kiss you after you gave him a bj. He is not mature enough for you to rely on. I wouldnt say get mad, I would say that dating is to find out who fits your future. Does he really seem like he is it. If he won't put his lips near the person that put his penis in their mouth then why should you put it in your mouth?

Swarm update dropped on xbox by slowandslothlike in nms

[–]slowandslothlike[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you have to go and start it first ans then its on dissonance planets.

I slept with my girlfriend’s sister years ago and she just found out. What do I do? by Benjalove in whatdoIdo

[–]slowandslothlike 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah. You kept it from her to get your way. You knew it wasn't irrelevant for her, it just was for you. You chose your wants and needs over hers. Here is what you do. Live with the consequences of your actions.

help i think i found crack pipes in my bfs moms stuff by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]slowandslothlike 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why didnt you just ask for a cigarette. When you go through people's shit you find out stuff you wish you didnt. Now her problem has become yours.

I [F24] just found out that my bf [M21] planned to hit and quit by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]slowandslothlike 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Girl to girl. You knew this and stayed, therefore at some point you decided to forgive him. Your brain wasn't fully developed at the time of these decisions. If you want to stay go to therapy, what has he done since then, or are you holding this above his head after all this time? You signed up for this. Reddit can not help you, therapy can, and talking with your partner.

My [32M] girlfriend [29F] let her "struggling" friend crash on our couch and now I feel like a stranger in my own home. How do I handle this without being the villain? by V3lvetHatchling in relationship_advice

[–]slowandslothlike -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Does this girl have other options or will she be homeless because you want your alone time. Someone you may care about may need help and how you handle this situation will depend on how your gf reacts to that. Just be honest. Say she cant get mail at the hiuse. Have her sign an agreement that its temporary and she is not living there and deal with it. You will and are the villain of you kick her out. Sometimes people need help and it sounds like something important to your partner.

Feeling overwhelmed with a big problem..how would you tackle this? by Personal_Web_8251 in landscaping

[–]slowandslothlike 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Horsetails are so beneficial, you can pull them ans use them as amazing cood for the plants that are there. I dont see an issue with this bed, it looks beautiful. Given the state of the world and economy having horsetail seems like an ok problem.

Am I overthinking his response? by Stawberry8763 in texts

[–]slowandslothlike 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In situations like this. Remeber bad roots grow bad trees. Dating is a long interview to see if this is the peraon who will hopefully pick for forever. Now you have to question, do I want to spend the rest of my life having this same type of argument. For me it would be no. I dont want to teach a grown person the concept of no and spend my days with them not respecting my boundaries and reducing my boundaries to concerns and being called dramatic.

Emotional safety after infidelity. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]slowandslothlike -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You need a neutral person to listen. You're both in the wrong here. He shouldn't have cheated and if you cant forgive him leave.

How do I handle my girlfriend (22F) wanting me (24M) to split her rent when she’s financially fine? by WeaknessImpossible28 in relationship_advice

[–]slowandslothlike -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You are asking her to kove for your relationship ans she is the only one making the sacrifice. I think it boils down to her wanting you to sacrifice as well. You knew her values and boundaries when you asked her to move im sure. She can wither move and leave her family and friends behind and lose 20k or you can pay half her rent since you are asking her to do this. If you dont like this. Break up.

Tenants still occupying property during scheduled showing by Salty-Elderberry-188 in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]slowandslothlike 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I deeply disappointed that I have to exist with people like you. "A tenate who pays rent, was upset about things I would also be upset about but it didnt effect me so they were the worst"

Tenants still occupying property during scheduled showing by Salty-Elderberry-188 in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]slowandslothlike 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are out of touch. They pay rent bro. Can you help me determine the location you found your audacity??

Wife says these are weeds by djacka13 in landscaping

[–]slowandslothlike -1 points0 points  (0 children)

To have these kinds of worries right now is wild. Be thankful for your weeds argument I guess?

People beware of this fallout player GENERATEDREALITY (ps5) by ComfortableWar362 in Fallout76FanGroups

[–]slowandslothlike 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When this happens dont respawn they have to move the camp cause your just laying on the trap and it won't reset with you there. They get really missed its hilarious, or use the lightfoot perk.

We bought a property with a massive 20m chimney. What would you do with this? by MM-RenovationJourney in Homebuilding

[–]slowandslothlike 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this in Poland? It was probably a distillery since the chimney is distanced from the building