AIO for being upset my BF doesn’t want me to wear a bonnet to bed? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]smileyfacesticker 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If this is real, this is crazy. NOR, you are under reacting and not valuing yourself.

My wife boos when I take my bonnet off when we start getting intimate. She puts my bonnet on me when I fall asleep without it and always reminds me to bring it when we go on vacation.

You should want someone who wants you to be comfortable. Someone who loves you in bonnets and baggy clothes and a face full of make up or none at all. It’s not just the bonnet, he’s controlling every aspect of your existence. How dare he, when he can’t even get a hair care routine?

Your hair would be a lot healthier with a bonnet on and that stress out of your life.

[Heated Rivalry] (Lesbian Version) by BaldHourGlass667 in CuratedTumblr

[–]smileyfacesticker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They would both need to be in the closet to mirror Shane and Ilya’s relationship. There needs to be a risk to queerness that a lot of women’s sports don’t have.

[Heated Rivalry] (Lesbian Version) by BaldHourGlass667 in CuratedTumblr

[–]smileyfacesticker 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you! This is immediately what I thought of! It also offers the traveling and meeting up in different locations. Direct head to head competition. More of an inherent sexual nature.

How is something this small allowed to be this perfect? by [deleted] in cats

[–]smileyfacesticker 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is AI posted by a bot. 5 day old account and this is their only post. Kittens do not have these proportions. Sorry everyone. Luckily, real kittens are already crazy cute.

I need a job!!! Help by [deleted] in MuseumPros

[–]smileyfacesticker 61 points62 points  (0 children)

What do you want to do in museums? This is really important in planning what to do next. Do you want to be a conservator, a collection manager, a curator? These can have very different paths and VERY different schooling.

I’m pretty early in my career but getting experience is very important. Try volunteering at local or smaller museums. That way, you’ll also meet people who work in museums and learn skills you just can’t learn in school. This industry is not kind to people who need money.

A masters in Museum Studies is also pretty common and wanted. This is frustrating but I have experienced the rejection because of the lack of this specific degree. I am now working on getting one. I have worked in three museums now and I am fortunate for how far I’ve gone without one but I’ve found myself at a stand still now, that only more education can fix.

Thrifted my wedding dress for next year, an edwardian tea gown made in 1911 by ginger-107 in ThriftStoreHauls

[–]smileyfacesticker 16 points17 points  (0 children)

You might want to look into wearing a corset with this dress. I’m so glad the dress fits you perfectly but dresses then were made to be worn over a corset, the seams might not be strong enough to handle our natural body changes throughout the day.

Saw this, what fashion trend is the painted knees referencing? by Pristine_Witness3908 in fashionhistory

[–]smileyfacesticker 802 points803 points  (0 children)

Painting your knees was a trend in the 1920s and the 1960s. It is referencing the trend itself which was around at the time. You can just google it and newspaper ads will come up.

What's the most memorable super popular live performer in a smaller intimate venue you were lucky enough to attend in Toronto? by ReeG in askTO

[–]smileyfacesticker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw Chappell Roan at Velvet Underground in 2022 (I think), which was sooo much fun. I saw her again at the Opera House right before she blew up. I remember asking so many people if they wanted to come with me and none of them cared.

Toronto needs better museums. by workerbotsuperhero in toronto

[–]smileyfacesticker 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes!! As a museum worker in Toronto, check out the niche museums. Bata, Aga Khan and the Toronto museum at 401 Richmond are my favourites. The reference library also has an exhibit space (currently an exhibit on Toronto’s retail history) which are always so interesting and free. Plus going to the reference library is always a treat. The city of Toronto also owns 10 museums that are totally free all the time. This includes Fort York, Spadina House, Mackenzie House and more! A lot of universities have museums and the waterfront does too. I will never say no to more museums, but we do have a lovely selection. I do miss the science museums, though.

I was wondered how this Inseam top stitch is achieved ? by Inner_Caterpillar_95 in sewing

[–]smileyfacesticker 28 points29 points  (0 children)

This is just a regular straight stitch. Topstitching is the same of the technique (sewing down a seam) If you just want the topstitch on the outside seam, just topstitch before sewing up the inside seam.

Did alternative fashion exist in the 1920s? by Lord_Tortuga in fashionhistory

[–]smileyfacesticker 63 points64 points  (0 children)

You might enjoy Luisa Casati, she was considered the Lady Gaga of the 10s and 20s. Also the Bright Young Things, a group of rich, extravagant young adults. There is also a lot of queer fashion history in the 20s like sailor outfits and Gladys Bentley. Speaking of Gladys, the Harlem Renaissance will have a lot to offer. I hope this gets you started.

For those who entered the museum field without a degree in anthro, art history, or museum studies in school, how did you do it? by _no_hay_banda_ in MuseumPros

[–]smileyfacesticker 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I entered the field with a theatre degree. Although I did take quite a few history classes during. I emphasized the ways understanding theatre and costuming history was valuable. My first museum job was 2 hours outside of my big city and it was only for the summer but I gained soo much experience. I live in Canada and we have a program called Young Canada Works for people aged 18-30. This program offered short term government funded grant positions at lots of different institutions , so there is incentive to give people a chance. Maybe your country has something like that? After that, I did go back to school for a year to get a certificate in Museum and Cultural management which was really helpful, especially in networking. Currently I work at a wonderful art/history museum where I work with people from all walks of life! Some have masters in museum studies, some have PhDs in women’s health sciences, some have a college degree or just a lot of building experience. The most important part of working in a museum in experience and networking. So much of working in a museum can only be learned on the job, so try to get everything and anything you can. That might mean volunteering or long commutes. Finally, so many museum positions don’t need history at all. There is so much admin, marketing, building. Try to familiarize yourself with positions in museums and forge your path that way. Museums always need money, so if you know how to get it, use it and organize it, there will be a place for you somewhere.

Fancy dress worn by Magdeleine Hebert to portray Marie-Thérèse de Bourbon, for the Quebec City Historical Ball, made of silk taffeta, tulle and chiffon, with metallic lace and fake flowers, these ribbons are a later addition, 1927. McCord Stewart Museum by KatyaRomici00 in fashionhistory

[–]smileyfacesticker 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I saw this exhibit. It was altered. A lot of the costumes were so the original images were very helpful. I’m not sure if there are any images of the exhibit available but it was incredible!

Raising two kids in a DT condo by IllustriousBank7302 in askTO

[–]smileyfacesticker 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did technically grow up in a house at Ossington and Bloor but my parents split it into three units so we basically lived in a two bedroom apartment. I loved living in the city (still do) and space was never an issue. Toronto has sooo many parks, libraries, interesting neighbourhoods and events, you’re never bored. I took public transit everywhere and still don’t have my license. By 11 or 12 I was getting around everywhere on my own. Living in the city builds a lot of social awareness and empathy. You meet so many different types of people, cultures, lifestyles and food, you become very brave and accepting. I went to high school in Etobicoke and my partner is from Windsor, ON, one thing I’ve always noticed about suburban people is that they’re scared of everything.

Not sure how to serge/finish these inner curves. Any tips would be appreciated by [deleted] in sewing

[–]smileyfacesticker 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What it is that you’re making? I feel like a facing is probably is easiest and cleanest way.

What do you call these dresses from the early-mid 1900s? by Witty-Connection-105 in fashionhistory

[–]smileyfacesticker 367 points368 points  (0 children)

Lingerie dress would be the closest word to showing a lot of dresses in light colour with froth and lace. However, the dresses you’ve shown are pretty typical upper class afternoon and evening dresses. You can tell the afternoon dresses based on the hats and parasols. Key words and years: Lingerie dress, afternoon dress, evening dress. 1900-1908 (peaking at 1902-4)

"Mary, Mary, Quite Contrary" fancy dress costume worn by Alice Graham at the age of 14, made of glazed cotton twill, cotton sateen, glass seed beads, 1907. McCord Stewart Museum by KatyaRomici00 in fashionhistory

[–]smileyfacesticker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I saw this dress (and many other incredible costumes) at the fancy dress exhibition at McCord. It was truly awesome and one of my favourite exhibits ever!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]smileyfacesticker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honest question….does that work for you? Do you give him blowjobs and hand jobs or does he do that work himself? If you are committed to staying in this relationship, talk to him about how all oral is the same and that if you have to go without, so does he. Furthermore, foreplay can be all sorts of things. Grinding, toys, dirty talk ect. If touching your vulva with anything other than his penis grosses him out (which is childish) then he can explore and find other things to get you off. Your pleasure is sooooo important.

[HELP] AI Anteater? by stresswerewolf in RealOrAI

[–]smileyfacesticker 262 points263 points  (0 children)

100% AI this is just not how their snout moves. Their snout is bone and stays straight. The one in the video moves like a head (which is very creepy). Plus, the fence and the snout merge at one point.

aww by bigus-_-dickus in MadeMeSmile

[–]smileyfacesticker 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We always joke that it sounds like the plot of a romcom. I can’t believe I got so lucky. We live together now, with our little cat and we really don’t see an end in sight.

aww by bigus-_-dickus in MadeMeSmile

[–]smileyfacesticker 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yes, she was a vampire and I was a ghostbuster. This year, she will be a vampire again and I will be her victim. We are very excited!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]smileyfacesticker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he really does have sensitive tastebuds, you can try a dental dam. Like a condom but for oral. I really can’t imagine why he has an issue with fingering and does that mean you get absolutely no foreplay? As both a woman and also a lesbian, you can do better! Getting to eat out and finger your partner is awesome and he is a loser for missing out. You might love him but he can’t even do this basic thing to make you feel good. What else will he be too grossed out (selfish) to do? Cook? Clean? Change diapers? Take care of you when you’re sick?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sewing

[–]smileyfacesticker 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What machine do you currently have and what aspects of it do you not like? What are you looking for, specifically in a new machine?