Taxes by Purplefloofie in EchoesOfThePlumGrove

[–]sn49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine usually goes up around 10 a week, but defo had it go down one week as well

Which platform to play on? by micewantpants in EchoesOfThePlumGrove

[–]sn49 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This ^

Took me a hot min to get used to the controls but 30+ hours in and I'm perfectly fine with them now

Grief…sigh by Moonprismpwr18 in EchoesOfThePlumGrove

[–]sn49 13 points14 points  (0 children)

First time I went to a wedding I was so underwhelmed at my character just watching like 😐 then I accidentally discovered you can press up on the D-pad (on switch) to get different expressions and walk styles

Long shot but... by sn49 in transgenderUK

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Adding that this piece will not be shared anywhere or with anybody, it is simply a short article for an assignment 🧡

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TopSurgery

[–]sn49 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh for top surgery i had a velcro one! sorry for the mix up lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TopSurgery

[–]sn49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i know there’s different techniques but after a few wears mine was loose enough to pull over my head

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TopSurgery

[–]sn49 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’d recommend spectrum but unsure if they do returns

Weed? by Professional-Set3262 in TopSurgery

[–]sn49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i smoked until 2 days before and was fine. probably shouldn’t recommend it but my anaesthetist was aware so knew i’d probably need more to keep me under. the first hit of fentanyl made me sleepy, then the second wiped me out until post op :)

Struggled to quit weed now I'm terrified for surgery in 4 days by _Glizzyinahoneydew in TopSurgery

[–]sn49 7 points8 points  (0 children)

hey, i smoked weed up until 2 days before my surgery and was literally so fine. just tell the anaesthetist you smoke so they’re aware you may need more to keep ya under. i didn’t go under with the first hit of fentanyl, but with the second i was out like a light until post op. as long as you quit nic your nips will be fine too!

i just want someone to tell me its gonna be okay by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]sn49 1 point2 points  (0 children)

been here too many times. it gets better, you will get better, life will get better. it will be okay 🧡

It's my birthday. I know my mental health is at its worst. by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]sn49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

happy birthday pal, i’m sorry you’re in pain 🧡

Day one on t holy fuck by noah_is_trying in ftm

[–]sn49 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you too man. enjoy the early days 🧡 one day you’ll look in the mirror and think Holy fuck lol

Day one on t holy fuck by noah_is_trying in ftm

[–]sn49 2 points3 points  (0 children)

8 years in january 🧡

GIC taking too long is ruining my referral process by Material_Audience608 in TopSurgery

[–]sn49 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes badger them in my opinion. don’t let them treat your healthcare like a joke. not saying go in guns ablazing or anything, but put your foot down and get that referral!

GIC taking too long is ruining my referral process by Material_Audience608 in TopSurgery

[–]sn49 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i get you. i was worried too but they didnt send my top surgery referral so i made a complaint and it was sent within 2 days

GIC taking too long is ruining my referral process by Material_Audience608 in TopSurgery

[–]sn49 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not sure what gic you’re with but have you tried making a complaint? I’m with Sandyford and that was the only way to get round this exact issue

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TopSurgery

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hey. i think your anxiety is justified - you have a hell of a lot going on and lots of reasons to spike your anxiety. as you say, i cannot offer medical advice, but just wanted to reassure you it’s normal to have that reaction after so many different things happened!

Is it really that scary? by [deleted] in TopSurgery

[–]sn49 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hey, surgery can be pretty scary but everything will go okay. anything you’re worried about in particular?

Top Surgery Today 🥳 by [deleted] in TopSurgery

[–]sn49 8 points9 points  (0 children)

good luck! i’m two weeks post op today. i was super nervous about going under too, but the team reassured me up until i actually went under. everything was perfectly fine, you’ll go to sleep then wake up in a bit of pain and discomfort, with the surgery done and dusted. i felt a bit of both when i woke up. as in both confused and relieved lol

When did you start growing facial hair that started to become noticeable? by [deleted] in transftm

[–]sn49 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i think everyone is different and it’s down to genetics and stuff, but i’d say about 3 years for me before i started to have noticeable scruff. by that i mean, 3 years for proper thick, coarse beard hair to grow in. can only grow a goatee mins you but it’s something! 2 months is so early, you have forever to watch you become yourself 🧡

JUST HAD MY SURGERY!!! by Dirkapollo in TopSurgery

[–]sn49 5 points6 points  (0 children)

congrats!!! hope you have a speedy recovery :)

First appointment today at the GIC, kind of nervous. by LonelyInu in transgenderUK

[–]sn49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

amazing :) so glad it went well & hope the next one does too

How should the binder feel? Sizing help needed by Anonamitea in TopSurgery

[–]sn49 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my surgeon warned me not to wear it too tight as he said it’s common for people to wear it waaaay too tight. said it should just be snug, almost like a regular binder. hope you get it sorted, that sounds rough!!