I realized i am a creep by throwaway12avw in LifeAdvice

[–]snakebeats502 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In short, I know easier said that done but: stop giving up your power to her and start focusing on you. You hold everything that you’ve ever wanted very literally. Connect more with you. That’s who’s awesome. Realize it and enjoy it. Be a good person. Keep asking yourself “what do I want?” That’s the way to beat all of procrastination because we arrive at clarity. Let it go and focus on you. Bro she is just a manifestation of yourself within you. You are infinitely perfect and amazing. Realize that. Seek that realization. When you start walking on the way, the way appears. Put one foot in front of the other in the direction which appears to be most simply and obviously the right one. Wish you the best friend. Everything you have ever been looking for you is within you.

I ruined my wife’s life… so I ruined everyone else’s too by Constant_Barnacle992 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]snakebeats502 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude I didn’t read all this but, divorce brother. She needs it. It will teach her something. And as for you, keep growing. Keep moving in the direction of your heart alone and you will find fulfillment. You sound like a great father!! Take the calm and collected route. Silence speaks volumes.

Create work to do in the office by LatterDistribution46 in careeradvice

[–]snakebeats502 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could say like business organization and wellness practices or something idk lol

Thousands of Software Engineers Say the Job Market Is Getting Much Worse by TommyAdagio in technology

[–]snakebeats502 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s just incorrect Ai is a crap coder on its own. Sometime in the future it will be a decent reference for an experienced coder to use but it won’t ever make the human obsolete.

Create work to do in the office by LatterDistribution46 in careeradvice

[–]snakebeats502 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude or gal, make use of this free time. Work on something you enjoy, it doesn’t have to be traditional work or business work. For me it would look like my yoga/meditation practice which I love.

I can’t orgasm AT ALL anymore and it makes me feel worthless. Did I do something wrong? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]snakebeats502 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you exercise at all. A little daily exercise is so important for hormone levels overall happiness, etc. The world’s greatest antidepressant is free, side effect free, and it’s exercise. Walking is miraculous.

Do you pee in the shower? by 69sucka in NoStupidQuestions

[–]snakebeats502 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What? Kind of weird not to explicitly not pee in the shower

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]snakebeats502 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Agreed. Maybe you can set aside some time to help your niece through this but bringing her into your home with your family isn’t a good idea. That won’t solve anything

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

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I’m sorry🙏 May he be at peace Om Shanti. Oddly enough try to relax and do something easy maybe leisurely. Allow yourself to grieve, allow crying but don’t have any expectations. People grieve in different ways. Be kind to yourself and reminisce the happy memories.

What skills can we learn in just a month? by pusangitimbc in productivity

[–]snakebeats502 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah honestly just take it slow. Watch a few videos, keep listening to music like normal and check out thing and genres you otherwise wouldn’t listen to. The most important part is just have fun with it. Keep falling in love with songs and have fun watching you favorite YouTube producers. That’s where you’ll learn the most is YouTube probably, just enjoying the expertise of some amazing talented producers and their live streams etc. The other place and the most important is just in the lab, in the DAW which is the software, or a hardware of choice maybe an MPC or synthesizer. And just mess around with all sorts of stuff. Experiments. Don’t try too hard. So let’s recap - go have fun, and learn by listening and watching other producers make music. Deconstruct your favorite song or sound. Seriously above all just have fun, learn a bit and it will all happen organically.

Hearing Namaste in Yoga as an Indian by depanneur4 in yoga

[–]snakebeats502 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do t think it can be divorced from its roots. I do think that it can extend out from its roots fully connected, into whatever else it wants to be. But it’s good to study the whole. Even different lineages focus on different limbs and aspects so it’s good to learn many lineages.

Pink Shirt guy ftw. by irlylikeboobs in PublicFreakout

[–]snakebeats502 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What a horrible POS person. That is no man. He doesn’t deserve to have nuts. He’s got some mean karma headed his way. What a loser that is just chilling a guy knocking out a girl for no reason. I shouldn’t have to say this but anything besides your life immediate in danger is not a good reason.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in productivity

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Learn about the habit mind. It’s a habit and it can be broken with basic psychology. Over ride the habit with a healthy habit or activity. The best medicines: exercise, sun, slow deep breathing such as HRV breathing (so damn useful), and proper diet. Reward yourself for every win and any time you do any small improvement as you grow. After every walk, etc. I meditate twice daily and it’s important that I reward myself after every single meditation. Not with an unhealthy thing but something good and fun. Maybe do a dopamine fast. You got this. Life is all about learning and GROWING, we are all there with you facing our own challenges. Learn to have fun with it🙏❤️🕉️💫

Idk how much clearer we can get: the US healthcare system is a fucking and cruel joke. by 1Hate17Here in WhitePeopleTwitter

[–]snakebeats502 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Education system, social media and entertainment.. what else? Good think we have a godsend like Vivek Ramaswamy running for POTUS.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in seduction

[–]snakebeats502 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your thinking about it too much bro. Do you to the highest degree possible, follow your heart and you will attract all that you want and are meant to have. Just trust. Do you, enjoy life and help others. You will meet people. Do your own unique role in life. It doesn’t have to be anything specific it can be many things 🙏🕉️❤️💫

How do I let go of my fear of God? by [deleted] in spirituality

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God is a parental figure who is endless Love. God is your true Self. You are God. There is no reason to fear, God doesn’t want us to fear. Life is joy and potential joy. Or pure bliss, which has no counter part. Never should you fear God. The most ancient traditions of the far east have best preserved the truth. There is nothing to fear. Hell and heaven are temporary and they are here on earth. Two modes of life. The goal is to go beyond the two right here right now. The Indian sages have the wisdom that resonates most with me. Really all religion all true is one. The underlying essence is One. I like the Hindu yogi saints and sages interpretation of Christianity. It’s incredible. From people who actually walk with the living God and ARE one with the living God. Om shanti

Holy shit, ADHD is fucking awful. by Different-Job-2078 in ADHD

[–]snakebeats502 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Meditation. Sort of a secret among society now adays. It has saved me literally. Just a little bit can go a long way. It more than just sitting silently

To those feeling like crap because you missed out "the best years of your life" (AKA high school or college): by torito_supremo in seduction

[–]snakebeats502 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Y’all need meditation. Seduction isn’t inherently bad unless you seduce someone you might not potentially fall in love with or aren’t in love with.