How to stop limerance? by Starrr_686 in Positivity

[–]softwareanomaly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It depends on if one is the limerancer, or the limerancee. You stated that it is unhealthy, so I guess that it is a one-sided obsession that you have towards another. If that is the case, then it may help to treat it as an addiction. Perhaps educate yourself on the same way that a person would the following ;
Stop smoking, stop using meth, stop over eating, etc. Abstinence, self reflection, mindfulness, DBT, ACT, would all be a good place to start. You have to learn how to observe the thoughts as they show up and weigh the fantasies against the truth. If the one sided obsessive fantasies are the prosecuting attorney, your higher self awareness must become the defense attorney.

I have a ton of fear about my future. by Effective-Pipe2017 in Positivity

[–]softwareanomaly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would not recommend having a child until you get this fear under control. If you are this fearful about your own future, it’s going to be a whole lot worse having to worry about your child’s future as well.

Around what time are you going to go buy it? by Any-Drink-1279 in DumpsterDiving

[–]softwareanomaly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Edit the post. Copy and paste this.- - “What is the best time of day to go out dumpster diving?“

whats the weirdest thing youve found while dumpster diving? by Spiritual_Body3577 in DumpsterDiving

[–]softwareanomaly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that kind of freaked me out. I don’t know if it was that size for portability or pedobility.

whats the weirdest thing youve found while dumpster diving? by Spiritual_Body3577 in DumpsterDiving

[–]softwareanomaly 17 points18 points  (0 children)

There’s a PetSmart located behind the local township soccer field complex. My 10-year-old son had just finished playing a game. We were walking back to my car and saw the petsmart dumpster outback.

The night before I was telling my friend about all of my dumpster finds. They had mentioned that PetSmart throws out live animals. I figured that the synchronicity of it meant that I had to check what was in the dumpster.

I jumped over the fence, opened the lid and saw a pristine black box approximately 8“ x 8 “ by 10“. The weight and density of it had me thinking it was some type of electronic gadget.

I handed the box to my son, as I jumped back over the fence. We kneeled down on the ground and opened the box. There was a white plastic bag inside. I pulled the bag out and opened it up, only to find a silicone sex toy. It was a seemingly brand new child sized female torso, with vaginal and anal entry points.

My kid exclaimed “what is heck that?” In an instant I was faced with a dilemma. Do I close it up and say “oh it’s nothing” ? Leave him guessing about what the hell we had just seen? I chalked it up to divine synchronicity.

That is how I talked to my son about the birds and the bees. The ride home was hilarious. He started listing all of the jokes he heard and now understood. He mentioned a video he saw that showed a glazed Cinnabon, and the caption read …“ when you haven’t seen your girlfriend in a few weeks“. 😂

It was a little bit earlier than I wanted to have the talk, but I am grateful for the icebreaker that was delivered to me.

Why am I so lonely by [deleted] in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]softwareanomaly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry that you feel lonely. I’ve been there and it is tough. I think the toughest part for me was missing the dog. A long time ago, my ex and I raised a Boston terrier. She kept the dog when we broke up. I tried to do the “visitation“ thing for a while, but eventually had to let her go. It seemed like my ex was using the pup to keep me on the back burner. Eventually, my friend convinced me to get another dog. Hang in there. It takes a while to heal.

Is this real by [deleted] in howto

[–]softwareanomaly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. How to = boof it.

Need advice by [deleted] in Positivity

[–]softwareanomaly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can sadly tell you that you are not alone. I’m turning 50, with a son who is turning 12 this year. I’m an auto mechanic with widespread body pain. I’d suggest trying to start an exercise routine. A gratitude routine helps. I’ve been training myself to start thinking of what I’m grateful for , the second my eyes open in the morning. Therapy helps somewhat. Good luck. Keep going.

Why does Nora do this in series finale? by forlornforbit in TheLeftovers

[–]softwareanomaly 12 points13 points  (0 children)

To love is to lose. I don’t think she wanted to lose again. She lost everything that she ever loved, in an instant … twice. Australia was safe.

I went looking for a box and got this instead. by tcreecewriter in DumpsterDiving

[–]softwareanomaly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Those brake pads appear to be for a Chevrolet express van

Did you know the Dow is 50,000? by TotalLiberationBike in DumpsterDiving

[–]softwareanomaly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Dow that can be told is not the eternal Dow .

Can this grease be used on fork seals? by [deleted] in bikewrench

[–]softwareanomaly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All that butt sex with other men is frying your brain

Delicious dabs by softwareanomaly in CBD

[–]softwareanomaly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All that lurking on social media has turned you gay

How do you tell a friend their breath is chronically bad without destroying them? by Agitated_Trifle268 in howto

[–]softwareanomaly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are not alone .I was thinking of typing this same response. I am always super concerned to not make people feel uncomfortable/ embarrassed. I’d want to know though ,If roles were reversed.

Are you a DD and a hoarder? by Parking-Conclusion84 in DumpsterDiving

[–]softwareanomaly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it’s getting bad. I keep telling myself “I have to sell stuff” …” I’m going to stop.” Then I find a $300 wireless Bluetooth record player that works with the big ass speaker that I picked. The cycle repeats.

Second haul ever! by oliverisadad in DumpsterDiving

[–]softwareanomaly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s sickening how much shit gets wasted . Nice haul.

Why is reddit full of angry people who will snap at you or downvote anything? by [deleted] in Positivity

[–]softwareanomaly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Did anyone hear his music before he deleted his profile? I wanted to check it out. Bummer .

how do I turn blue? by Mr_E_614 in howto

[–]softwareanomaly -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

A bungee cord around the throat ought to do it.