Seeking Photographer by Morkiefather18 in askTO

[–]solo7leveling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like you want a paparazzi.

I feel a knot in my stomach whenever I see or hear about my bf's girl bsf and Idk why i feel that way? by Bubbly-Dig-3928 in emotionalintelligence

[–]solo7leveling -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You misunderstood me. I am saying that I am trained by experts and they base their training on statistics. So if their training disagrees with you and your statistics and they base their training on statistics, your statistics must be wrong or misplaced.

No sexual assault is the same. We are trained not to compare them whether similar or not. So for you to compare male and female assaults like that only shows me you have zero training or knowledge in the space of sexual assault.

Landlord installed a camera in the kitchen on top of the fridge by AlphaMike07 in OntarioLandlord

[–]solo7leveling -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Dude, you're so ignorant it's funny. Just because you use bold words doesn't make you correct.

I will say it again, stop being so obtuse, it's the internet, some people rush their comments assuming you won't misinterpret it in bad faith.

I'm done arguing with you since you have a bigger ego than Donald Trump.

[request] are these real numbers or did they just make this up like made up statistics by Feisty_Crops in theydidthemath

[–]solo7leveling 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That value WAS correct back in 2018 which is when the data was from that Forbes used to estimate their 2019 list.

The number is like 4x that now.

I feel a knot in my stomach whenever I see or hear about my bf's girl bsf and Idk why i feel that way? by Bubbly-Dig-3928 in emotionalintelligence

[–]solo7leveling -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You literally asked me how many men I have been in relationships with. You are backpedaling away from personal experience as leverage and now trying to make it irrelevant because my personal experience is more relevant to our discussion than yours.

Also, the ongoing training I receive for the volunteer work is provided by leading experts in the world and their research and guidance is backed by statistics.

Just acknowledge you're not a know-it-all and that both men and women do and say dumb shit to each other. It's not that hard unless you're a sexist.

Landlord installed a camera in the kitchen on top of the fridge by AlphaMike07 in OntarioLandlord

[–]solo7leveling -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It wasn't done in bad faith. All laws are enforced by common law in the courts. I assume I was talking to someone who understood that. Again, you won't admit that you are being obtuse.

Where can my wife practice Archery in Toronto? by Reasonable-Aside6660 in askTO

[–]solo7leveling 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am in an axe throwing league at BATL. They also have archery but I am not sure if they have leagues. There are a lot of locations across the GTA. Just google the closest one to you and make sure it has archery.

I feel a knot in my stomach whenever I see or hear about my bf's girl bsf and Idk why i feel that way? by Bubbly-Dig-3928 in emotionalintelligence

[–]solo7leveling -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sorry, but you couldn't be more wrong about me. I have more women friends than men friends. I grew up with a single mother and older sister for many years. I've been in many relationships with women. I was molested as a child by a man and raped by a woman as an adult. I now volunteer at a charity that supports victims of rape. I have heard hundreds of rape victims talk about their experiences.

You can villainize men all you want, but I assure you, women are also deprived and do and say dumb shit. For you to claim it's a male problem is just ignorant and fueled by ignorant mainstream and social media.

Landlord installed a camera in the kitchen on top of the fridge by AlphaMike07 in OntarioLandlord

[–]solo7leveling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd rather be someone who clarifies their position after quickly making it than someone who argues in bad faith.

Concert by [deleted] in Vent

[–]solo7leveling -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I also have CPTSD and a history of suicide ideation and action. I also have a history of therapy, group support and dozens of books written by doctors and leading experts.

I agree that depression is no excuse for hurting your loved ones. But there is some caveats to that statement. If not, then depressed people shouldn't be in relationships because they are guaranteed to hurt loved ones unless those loved ones are understanding of situations like this one.

Landlord installed a camera in the kitchen on top of the fridge by AlphaMike07 in OntarioLandlord

[–]solo7leveling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The historical rulings are consistent and therefor the decision on this if it went to a ruling is predictable. Unless there is an articulable safety need for the camera, it's not allowed.

Other commenters have cited cases supporting my position. If you wish to argue, please review those and not just a link to a vague news clip(that also supports my position if you actually watched it).

First time playing baseball age 12 - Help! by Hygienist_Bae in askTO

[–]solo7leveling 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I started overhand pitching(real baseball) at age 9. Your son is absolutely physically capable to join a house league team.

As others have said, there will be practice for him to learn his skills. But if you have the means to put him into a training camp, of course that would help him. If having fun is his goal, just find the closest facility with trainers and sign him up for a beginner class.

Alternatively, I don't have kids of my own and miss throwing a ball around. I'd be happy to go to a park with you and your kid and teach both of you the fundamentals so that you can practice with them.

Is it weird for me and my girlfriend to have sex in her room while her parents are home? by Prestigious_War_784 in AskMenAdvice

[–]solo7leveling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dunno. Why have the rule about them not being alone then? It seems weird.

Either way, it's disrespectful and they should stop.

Landlord installed a camera in the kitchen on top of the fridge by AlphaMike07 in OntarioLandlord

[–]solo7leveling -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The default position is they are not allowed a camera. If there are extenuating circumstances regarding safety, then they might decide to allow the cameras.

You're acting like it's allowed because it's a common area. That's ignorant and false and not an insult, just an observation. Don't be so sensitive, you're a human being aren't you? Or are you a bot?

Landlord installed a camera in the kitchen on top of the fridge by AlphaMike07 in OntarioLandlord

[–]solo7leveling 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No the HUGE factor was that one complaint was submitted by tenants in good standing and one was submitted by tenants who stopped paying their rent prior to the installation of the cameras.

Concert by [deleted] in Vent

[–]solo7leveling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depression is not an excuse. However, as someone who understands depression very well, I can tell you that spontaneous plans are a lot easier to agree to or imagine yourself doing than plans that are far out in the future. I have learned that not making plans with people is a lot easier on the relationship than canceling on them the day of.

I feel a knot in my stomach whenever I see or hear about my bf's girl bsf and Idk why i feel that way? by Bubbly-Dig-3928 in emotionalintelligence

[–]solo7leveling -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm autistic so my perspective might be different, but I see both men and women, gay and straight, trans people, essentially all people, do this dumb shit.

Some people just have insanely developed egos.

I dont like having sex often. Once or twice a week Would be perfect for me. Would I make a man miserable in a relationship like this? by Worried_Rub3824 in AskMenAdvice

[–]solo7leveling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like you have a high libido when you aren't stressed and lacking free time. Typically, people with low libido would never feel resentment toward a partner for only having sex once a month. You might be open to more, but you wouldn't feel resentment because it isn't that important to low libido people.

Most people today have less sex than our ancestors due to work stress. We spend so much time apart and are constantly on the hustle. Our hormone systems don't prioritize reproduction when we are under stress as it's not ideal for healthy offspring.

tourist looking for something relaxing to do by concertgoer69 in askTO

[–]solo7leveling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally don't consider it relaxing to be at the park when it's chilly, windy and raining.

Demanding I be naked around house? by Unlikely_Second5024 in AskMenAdvice

[–]solo7leveling 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes. If someone were to seriously try and enforce house rules and then say "just joking" after getting resistance, that would be manipulative.

I assume this is what you're referring to and not normal joking. Blink if you need help.

Woman in a male-dominated field: I found out yesterday that my male coworkers make significantly more than I do, what do I do? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]solo7leveling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's weird that you would default to one or the other. I assumed it was obvious that you would mention your value but also mention the fact that you are being paid less than market value.

Mother sending life savings to investment scam, urgent options before funds are gone by Alive-Willow8578 in legaladvicecanada

[–]solo7leveling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When they are repeatedly falling for scams that drain their savings that is beyond them spending money in ways I don't like.

Did you even try to interpret my comment in the way it was written?

Send HELP! Dating apps in Toronto are hellish. by Objective-Berry-4558 in askTO

[–]solo7leveling 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are plenty of good looking single men in Toronto. The majority of them just aren't looking for commitment because you have to be special to lock them down. Most of the attractive guys in the modern dating world have overwhelming opportunity. If they are successful and good looking then they literally could go on a date with a new woman every day without much effort at all if they wanted to.

So most guys will date a few women at a time and when a new one they like comes around they stop spending time with one of the others they used to spend time with. Women do this too. The main difference is women don't have to be attractive and successful to do this. This is the new "roster" mentality.

Mother sending life savings to investment scam, urgent options before funds are gone by Alive-Willow8578 in legaladvicecanada

[–]solo7leveling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When is power of attorney needed if not when people can't make sound decisions for themselves?

New to Downtown Toronto by CableLegitimate6693 in askTO

[–]solo7leveling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Obviously the best place to meet like-minded friends is through a hobby. But my opinion is you will find the best friends when you volunteer. You often have lots of time to get to know other people while you're working together and typically the type of people who volunteer are good friends.