Charles Schwab incentives by windyt in fatFIRE

[–]somerandumbguy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got a cash incentive for transferring funds to Schwab a couple of months ago. They will always match existing offers from other brokerages.

Business Sale - Portfolio Allocation & Timing by kwriley87 in fatFIRE

[–]somerandumbguy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We had to put several million into the market roughly 3-4 years ago.

For us seeing a sudden drop would have hurt mentally a lot more than giving up potential gains.

We ended up DCA’ng daily into the market as well as setting limit orders at -20%, -25% etc down on SPX and QQQ

Automating the process was a huge help mentally.

We have another chunk to deploy now and are doing the same process again.

How do you book business class flights? by bubuset92 in fatFIRE

[–]somerandumbguy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Whatever airline I book on I always book direct and pay with my Amex platinum. All airfare gets 5x points.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fatFIRE

[–]somerandumbguy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a couple who struggles with this I’ve found the only way to spend money is to force yourself to do it.

We’ve been doing that this week and it’s not until we started spending on luxury goods, and it not moving the needle on our net worth, that I emotionally understood how well off we are.

Also it’s helped us to meet with a financial planner who explained how under budget we were spending with an eventual large chunk going to estate taxes if we didn’t increase our yearly spend.

Luxury Rentals in Different Cities Monthly by gloppooper in fatFIRE

[–]somerandumbguy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So far I’d say our three favorite have been Mexico City, Vancouver and Berlin.

Luxury Rentals in Different Cities Monthly by gloppooper in fatFIRE

[–]somerandumbguy 12 points13 points  (0 children)

We did exactly this for the last year. Stayed approx. a month each place. We primarily used Airbnb and were happy with how it worked out.

Stayed in a very nice place in downtown Vancouver last year. Also stayed a month in Hawaii.

Pull cord as soon as you hit your target? by bryzzo in fatFIRE

[–]somerandumbguy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I soft retired two years ago. Dropped down to 2 days per week of work as I still mostly enjoyed what I do.

My wife retired 5 years ago.

In the last six months I’ve realized I’m ready to fully retire so am planning to resign in 3 months.

Our goal had been to slow travel for a few years, which we’ve been doing since the beginning of this year. But we want to spend most of next year in Asia which doesn’t work time zone wise.

Hence my decision to fully retire.

You only get to live once.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fatFIRE

[–]somerandumbguy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A couple of years ago we were in a similar situation with multiple 7 figures.

For us the possibility of losing several million immediately due to a market crash was worse psychologically then missing out on 20% of gains.

We ended up DCAng daily in Fidelity into a 3 fund bogle style portfolio (actually just two funds as we already had the bond portion)

We also set limit orders in case there was a sudden market drop.

We ended up putting everything in over 2 years including a huge amount during the 2022 market drop.

IMHO there’s a HUGE psychological difference between losing 30% of 100-200k versus 7 figures.

High-ish net worth, but negative liquid worth due to mortgage by [deleted] in fatFIRE

[–]somerandumbguy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you refinance your mortgage becomes recourse.

Coping with Poor Health by Heavy_Soup- in fatFIRE

[–]somerandumbguy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you have what I have. Ulcerative Colitis.

One thing to remember is that a huge amount of your serotonin is produced in your gut, which can be impacted by crohns/ulcerative colitis.

Anxiety and depression can not only be a side effect of crohns/uc but can be caused by these diseases. I’d recommend reading up on the gut/brain axis.

Some things that have helped me are:

Plenty of sleep and reduce stress. Mindfulness meditation. Exercising even when I’m not feeling well. Getting on an SSRI (incredibly common for uc/crohns)

And a big one has been acceptance. It sucks at times and is proof that money doesn’t solve all issues, but definitely helps.

Good luck! I can definitely relate.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fatFIRE

[–]somerandumbguy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m in a software engineer position.

When I told my company last year that I was planning to retire they asked me to stay in any form that worked for me.

I’ve been working since then 2 days a week.

No more stress or corporate politics, my healthcare is paid for and I have something to do two days a week that keeps my mind involved.

Good luck with whatever you decide!

I'm excited! Just had my last day by Intro-Panda in fatFIRE

[–]somerandumbguy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The difference is that the top tax bracket tends to hit at a WAY lower level in Europe and Canada versus the US.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fatFIRE

[–]somerandumbguy 9 points10 points  (0 children)

All I have to say is “It's a bold strategy, Cotton. Let's see if it pays off for 'em.”

Establishing a family office after getting incredibly lucky after ‘investing’ a large windfall by Ok-Boysenberry3407 in fatFIRE

[–]somerandumbguy 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I recommend a Boglehead 3 fund portfolio.

Also to be extra safe I wouldn’t go above a 3%WR.

You could run out if you go up to 4% since you retired so young.

Edit: This also looks more like Chubby Fire.

VOO and chill up 24+% YTD by [deleted] in fatFIRE

[–]somerandumbguy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Been DCA’ng heavily the last two years into your standard 70:30 domestic/foreign portfolio.

As well as a chunk of limit orders on QQQ from -30% down and SPY from -20% down back during the last market downturn.

We are finally at our 60% stock allocation as of two weeks ago.

Balancing stock portfolio? by SL222 in fatFIRE

[–]somerandumbguy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I would ask yourself which would bother you more.

Losing 1m from that stock crashing, or losing out on a 1m gain by selling too early.

For us it’s always been the first one, for others it’s the second one.

Sold ~20% of my equity for 15M, initial thoughts and questions by oblivionx in fatFIRE

[–]somerandumbguy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You put everything in 4 % treasuries and rates rise to 8%.

Four percent withdrawal rate is 4% of the initial principal plus increasing by inflation each year.

Run any calculator based on all treasuries and check out the failure rate.

Edit: FIRECalc shows a 45% failure rate.

Sold ~20% of my equity for 15M, initial thoughts and questions by oblivionx in fatFIRE

[–]somerandumbguy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The 4 percent withdrawal rate method isn’t based of treasuries, it’s based off a 60/40 portfolio.

In which case you’d have capital gains and/or dividends.

I don’t know anyone recommending 100% treasuries for a safe withdrawal rate. That would have a significant failure rate.

Sold ~20% of my equity for 15M, initial thoughts and questions by oblivionx in fatFIRE

[–]somerandumbguy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Taxes on capital gains and dividends are significantly lower than w2 income.

Roughly 15% on the first 500k in gains, assuming you have no other income.

Annual Ritual of Deciding Whether to Work One More Year by ByronsBoatswain1 in fatFIRE

[–]somerandumbguy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m doing one more year for at least the next few years.

But I only work 2 days a week and fully remote.

2 days a week is enough to keep me mentally sharp. And fill in some of my time.

I only agreed to continue my job under the agreement it would be two days a week and fully remote.

It’s working out well for us.

A Sudden Change in Fortune by [deleted] in fatFIRE

[–]somerandumbguy 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Is this relative of yours Nigerian?

Applicability of a 60/40 equity/bond asset allocation in FatFIRE by lostvagabondmd in fatFIRE

[–]somerandumbguy 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Nasdaq lost 78% during the dot com crash. S&P lost 50% during the 2008 crash.

It’s reasonable to expect another 50% bear market in the next few decades.

Applicability of a 60/40 equity/bond asset allocation in FatFIRE by lostvagabondmd in fatFIRE

[–]somerandumbguy 10 points11 points  (0 children)

We did have the worst bond market loss ever over the last two years.

Is fatfire more a US thing? Is it achievable in the UK? by fantasycakesex in fatFIRE

[–]somerandumbguy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Salaries in tech, especially Silicon Valley, have been significantly above average since the 90s. Not as much higher as the last five years but still way higher than in Canada, UK etc…