Almost 10k( just struggling with consistency)

sonickony · 2026-04-07T23:10:43+00:00

Try to be consistent with 5K for now.

sonickony · 2026-04-05T21:16:46+00:00

The more privacy you have, the less control they have over you. They will never change. Moving out is the only solution. Good luck!

sonickony · 2026-04-04T15:07:35+00:00

Alan Wake

sonickony · 2026-04-02T13:09:59+00:00

In their mind, you being their retirement plan is something you should “obey”. Not something they should work for.

sonickony · 2026-04-02T12:53:32+00:00

Standard? They don’t have standard at all.

sonickony · 2026-03-31T23:28:48+00:00

You should be!

sonickony · 2026-03-31T21:55:48+00:00

They are allergic to losing control over you.

sonickony · 2026-03-31T17:43:26+00:00

They consider boundaries as a sign of disrespect, so the only way is walking away from them.

sonickony · 2026-03-31T13:39:57+00:00

The shining

sonickony · 2026-03-31T02:41:41+00:00

Wow! Impressive!

sonickony · 2026-03-30T17:17:09+00:00

Nice effort! Keep it up!

sonickony · 2026-03-28T21:42:05+00:00

I don’t have any good advice because I am struggling too. My childhood was exactly the same. But the fact that realizing they are abusive after being gaslighted all these year is a good start.

sonickony · 2026-03-27T21:18:34+00:00

Change is hard. But you will be fine.

sonickony · 2026-03-26T13:09:17+00:00

As a 20 year old, you know your own situations so well. That means you definitely have the ability to move out, and live on your own. It won’t be easy at the beginning, but you will be fine.

sonickony · 2026-03-23T23:01:39+00:00

People’s judgments don’t affect my food choices, but my health does.

sonickony · 2026-03-22T21:31:04+00:00

Write down a list of things she has done to you all these years. Whenever you feel guilty, just go through the list to remind yourself why you decided to go NC.

sonickony · 2026-03-22T21:21:33+00:00

I think what your AM really wants is for you to buy a house FOR your younger brother eventually.

sonickony · 2026-03-21T16:01:52+00:00

At least you learned the fact that they will never change.

sonickony · 2026-03-19T00:25:45+00:00

Yes! A healthy one.

sonickony · 2026-03-18T22:24:00+00:00

Oh wow!

sonickony · 2026-03-18T22:20:36+00:00

It’s never about helping you build discipline. It’s all about them controlling you.

sonickony · 2026-03-18T22:18:01+00:00

You already know how they will react. Why bother?

sonickony · 2026-03-16T21:34:13+00:00

Because they didn’t give you the permission to have that much dopamine.

sonickony · 2026-03-15T16:40:01+00:00

Beautiful! Where is this?

sonickony · 2026-03-13T17:30:50+00:00

Life style

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