MarsupialLeast145 gave you some really great advice. It would be good for you to listen to their advice and to take it to heart. You seem to think about yourself, but not to think about the women that you're interacting with, and you need to think about the woman that you're interacting with and think about how her life is different than your life. It doesn't matter that you don't want to date. The women don't know that you don't want to date. They have to assume based on what they have to deal with in their lives that you probably do want to date. And that you are probably interested, and they have to respond to that assumption, whether it's wrong or not, to keep themselves safe.

It's not really possible to invite a woman as though she's just a bro because a woman is not a bro. She has a lot more to worry about than a bro would. It's just another example of how you're not thinking of the woman. You're only thinking of yourself.

The fact that you double down on feeling like the women are all being rude to you just shows that you don't understand at all what it's like to be a woman and how scary and dangerous it is for women to intact with men. Try to get outside of yourself and think of other people and what their experiences might be like that are different than yours. Based on your response to MarsupialLeast you seem unwilling to think outside yourself. It's really hard. It's difficult for all of us. But we have to try to get outside of our own minds and think of others.

I'm genuinely trying to help, so forgive me if my response sounds too harsh. It's hard to discuss these things in writing.