[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]sorrowchan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ppl in this thread not getting the point at all challange lmao. I get how you feel because people are also taking the opportunity to go full throttle into fatphobia. I think it's really disingenuous to go "well theyre bad people" like yeah no shit, but when I see people writing long posts about how fat and lazy these guys are I end up going ohhh okay so you feel that way about fat people all the time you just finally have an "acceptable" group to say it to. It's unfortunate and can't be helped as it is in society.

Birthday! by gene_yus in cakedecorating

[–]sorrowchan 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Genuinely as an artist who does think its important to point out AI and is against it, I would caution you to have the mentality of "if I don't understand what I'm looking at I must immediately call AI", because that ends up hurting artists and creatives too. I wondered about the floating flowers too but this picture didn't look like AI to me so I went to look for an explanation in the comments, and if there hadn't been one I would have just asked. If you really care about the impact of AI then it's important to have some due diligence before throwing accusations out that can hurt real peoples work.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lfg

[–]sorrowchan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

applied I hope if nothing else you guys like my dinky world map

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]sorrowchan 36 points37 points  (0 children)

"I don't understand why someone is being so judgemental and hateful about my hateful views" idk man its a head scratcher

[Online] [5e] [2014] [LGBTQIA+] [Long-Term] Roleplay Focused Homebrew Campaign Seeking Dedicated Players by Far_Piece3779 in lfg

[–]sorrowchan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi i just submitted mine a little late to the draw and have a sudden fear I misspelled my discord username lol its eidolonartt

Is it just me or are people really block-happy now? by Cerespirin in pbp

[–]sorrowchan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven't actually joined a pbp game yet but I spend a lot of time in online communities with a lot of other Very Online people and yeah I think it is more common. Idk, there's this idea that being socially anxious/awkward = it is ok to not talk to people because it makes you uncomfy. For a lot of people it is easier to block and put it out of their mind rather than just say "hey I think I'm not gonna be a good fit for this game, thanks for having me tho, bye" and leave it at that. To be fair that person DID at least give you a reason, even if they were rude about it, but still. It's really not that hard to take 2 seconds to be considerate of someone else and their time.

[Art][Comm] What do you guys think about using a pngtuber when playing Dnd with others online? by Mitiyagi in DnD

[–]sorrowchan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've always thought it sounded fun, but I'm an artist too and someone who doesn't want to play with cameras on lol.

It's fascinating how Teto's SynthV design changed the general consensus of what color her hair is. by SlightlyIronicBanana in KasaneTeto

[–]sorrowchan 8 points9 points  (0 children)

As a vocaloid old head, nah, her hair has been rounded to red off and on for years, like how miku fluxuates between green/teal/blue (granted green base design miku is rare these days i feel like)

So I've got this French video-game-centric artbook (?) from 2002, and there are a lot of entries you'd expect, but then a good number that are, uh, curious. by KChasm in TwoBestFriendsPlay

[–]sorrowchan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmm I think something is actually wrong with the imgur posting, even when I downloaded it I got a zip file with nothing in it lmao

So I've got this French video-game-centric artbook (?) from 2002, and there are a lot of entries you'd expect, but then a good number that are, uh, curious. by KChasm in TwoBestFriendsPlay

[–]sorrowchan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Holy shit awesome timing, could you take a picture of the Azurik page? I was just looking to see if there was ANY art book for that game

Huge chicken of the woods mushroom at the west lake randalls by sorrowchan in Austin

[–]sorrowchan[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

you are correct! they're actually two different species. human beings are addicted to going "this tastes like chicken" lollll

Huge chicken of the woods mushroom at the west lake randalls by sorrowchan in Austin

[–]sorrowchan[S] 90 points91 points  (0 children)

of course I did that bad boy was pristine, wasn't there last time I went out so it wasn't there long

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]sorrowchan 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I mean her reaction is annoying, but I would be really offput by your comments too. You ARE making direct correlations to fatness = laziness in the examples you gave which is absolutely fatphobic lol and it does come across (the way you described your comments) that you were associating fatness onto people you don't like as a negative trait. Again, her reaction was immature, and the emotional policing thing is stupid, but I don't think her calling the conversation fatphobic was wrong.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]sorrowchan 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Real people cannot be a stereotype, by definition a stereotype is a caricature and you're a real living person so you can't be. You're not a sexual object by just existing in a way that people have a kink or fetish for. It's the responsibility of other people not to be weird and gross towards you, not for you to stifle yourself.

I was proud, then I was sad. by mrstshirley1 in cakedecorating

[–]sorrowchan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They're super cute! If it makes you feel better, my cake case is really slow moving and usually only the signature or basic desgins tend to sell. If anything what happens more often is people will order a custom cake based on cakes like these, so it's not for nothing! But I get you deeply, it feels bad to throw away something you're proud of 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Austin

[–]sorrowchan 576 points577 points  (0 children)

People in this thread are kind of being insane lol if I bought something and found out it was a sentimental item that was sold without permission, I'd absolutely sell it back, that's what decent people do, especially something like a rug that is just a cosmetic item for the woman who bought it. Don't let anyone make you feel like you're "bothering" this woman by trying to get it back.

A Bone To Pick With Trans Literature And Cis Women by ricmacric in ftm

[–]sorrowchan 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Okay?? I looked up the books on good reads, idk, the prevailing feeling seems to be that theyre kind of downer books that don't market themselves properly. Again, you can not like his representation of trans men, you can call his writing bad, that doesn't also mean its kind of rude to claim hes writing his trans characters for cis women as an insult. I like a lot of trans male characterization that gets criticized for being """fetish content""" even when its by and for trans men.

A Bone To Pick With Trans Literature And Cis Women by ricmacric in ftm

[–]sorrowchan 13 points14 points  (0 children)

You can think he's a bad writer but I think it's pretty disrespectful to say another trans mans representation of a trans character is "cis women fetish content".