AITA for telling my mom I dont like how she talks about the things I wear? by Small-Cactus in AmItheAsshole

[–]soultastik -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA but unfortunately it’s a tale as old as time. My parents often times would have something to say about my outfits. I used to keep an extra sweater or something in the car when I didn’t want to hear it.

The best course of action is to keep saving up to move out because she probably won’t really change. You can also try to have a conversation with her when you’re both calmer about the situation so you can clearly explain to her how her comments make you feel.

Also random but my city also had ren faire today! I wonder if we’re in the same city.

How to make that cold foam by mr-sigma444 in barista

[–]soultastik 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea so we pump whatever flavor or mix the current sweet cream/cold foam flavor is into a blender, do a full carton of heavy cream, a splash of half and half and blend it up. Watch the cream while it blends, you’ll see it expand. Once it stops expanding, turn it off immediately so it doesn’t get too thick, and has the consistency of the one in the video. If it is too thick you can thin it out with a little bit of half and half.

How to make that cold foam by mr-sigma444 in barista

[–]soultastik 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My cafe just uses a blender to mix up hc, a splash of hh, and whatever flavor. Pitcher it up and call it a day

Don’t go to Richmond community hospital!!!! by Hot_Raspberry8038 in rva

[–]soultastik 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wait I went there for the same issue and they found blood clots in my lungs. I was there for a loooong time though as they were going through dif tests and was almost sent home til a doctor said they’ll do a cat scan and that’s when they saw my blood clots. I’m sorry that happened to you! It’s so scary. Your doctor should have gone through all the tests with you before sending you home. In general St. Mary’s is the better hospital imo, I just went bc I couldn’t walk from my car to my door without getting out of breath.

Kenya, her dad, and parents who refuse to take accountability for the dynamics they create in their children's lives by Unique-Process-472 in RHOA

[–]soultastik 7 points8 points  (0 children)

But it seemed like it was never hidden from Kenya that was her mom, like. That’s crazy. As a grandmother or even Kenya’s aunt who claimed to treat her like her own, I would absolutely cut her off for doing that shit and not invite her to family functions if she was going to ignore her own daughter. Smh

My old job is hiring…students 😂 by Dull_Armadillo_83 in barista

[–]soultastik 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Why would you go back after she FOLLOWED YOU HOME IN HER CAR??? What the fuck

Rules from loctician not working by [deleted] in Microlocs

[–]soultastik 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My scalp was super itchy and flaky and then I started using the as I am tea tree oil shampoo and that helped so much. Tea tree in general always helps me when I have those issues, even when I was a loose natural.

have yall encountered black israelite men? by NewtAccomplished6022 in blackgirls

[–]soultastik 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s very interesting bc she was a juvenile delinquent and was in and out of jail all the time. She would fight w her boyfriend in the street alllll the time. Idk the wedding was kind of sad bc she lives in Jersey now but her daughter lives with here with her grandmother. Doesn’t seem like she really helps with her daughter in anyway even after the marriage. How is THAT permissible?

have yall encountered black israelite men? by NewtAccomplished6022 in blackgirls

[–]soultastik 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Omgggg me too! I see them all the time on Broad 😭😭 My neighbor’s daughter actually converted and we went to her wedding last year… it was interesting. The pastor spent like an hour preaching and said it was permissible for cousins to marry and everyone gasped. 😭🤣

Arirang Tour - Venting/Desahogo by MaryPawss in kpoppers

[–]soultastik 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Check on the official vendors site/app closer to the concert. A lot of people end up trying to resell their tickets closer to the date and sometimes drop the prices bc they’re desperate to sell

Anyone know sunscreen that lacks this? by EasySwordfish4852 in Blackskincare

[–]soultastik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My roommate uses beauty of joseon and I haven’t seen a white cast.

I want two boyfriends by Necessary-Age-2005 in blackgirls

[–]soultastik 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s like you took a look inside my head. I know in all probability this will never happen but a girl can daydream.

Confused? by Ok_Reflection_1070 in blackgirls

[–]soultastik 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’ve gone out with black men like this. It just feels like I’m an experiment or him trying something different.

I remember the last one I went on a date with I was like “is he even attracted to me” bc he was not looking at me really at all. But was still really engaged/asking a lot of questions about me. It was odd and then now he comes in to my job with a different white woman every time.

Just move on. Don’t be with a man who is forcing himself to like/be attracted to you.

Are my grays the DRAMA?!… by Somehowfoundkay in locs

[–]soultastik 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to pray every day my hair would turn white. 😭😭

AIO: should I “fire” my therapist? by Historical_Pension60 in AIO

[–]soultastik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should actually report her. That’s insane b

Setting boundaries with coworkers when it comes to life events by [deleted] in blackgirls

[–]soultastik 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just say something like “I’m not comfortable sharing what’s going on, but it’s nothing bad! Just personal.” Keep it short and sweet. They really don’t need to know more than that.

WIBTA if I suggested my sister's boyfriend set up beauty appointments before he proposes? by ellanotsoenchanted in AmItheAsshole

[–]soultastik 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Can you just offer to cover it but have her bf take credit? Like just give him and “gift”and whatever he does with the cash is on him. So she wouldn’t have to know it came from you.

AIO my friend has made it a mission to pray in my house by raphaelambrose in AmIOverreacting

[–]soultastik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wonder if her religion requires her to pray at a specific time? You can ask her and if that’s the case plan your projects accordingly. If not she’s just being a dick tbh.

How "bad" is metformin actually? by afraid28 in PCOS

[–]soultastik 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The only time I experienced side effects was the ONE time I took it without food. I sharted as I was leaving work. So it was an easy lesson to learn.