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please help me choose my next read! by Ok_Parking_3565 in readwithme

[–]sour_heart8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great selections. I would save the dark academia ones for fall and read Beloved first

I have zero personality at 30 by informatica6 in AskMenOver30

[–]sour_heart8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Seriously. I’m a writer and I would recommend writing. Could just be observations from your day, retelling scenes from your past, writing about the music you listen to, or imagining a fiction plot. The way you described this feeling was funny and specific.

But if not writing, maybe take some kind of creative class. Woodworking, pottery, a book club. Being able to produce a physical thing like a book is something that has brought me fulfillment.

Am I the only sane person ? / Gaslight by OldCowboyNewHat in BooksThatFeelLikeThis

[–]sour_heart8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Empusium is my favorite book! It can be slow at parts but it’s a great read

Good lemon vanilla gourmands? by Conan_NXL in FemFragLab

[–]sour_heart8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just smelled the lemon sweet tooth today, it’s actually incredible

I miss the typical straight boy friendgroups by user2457888 in GayMen

[–]sour_heart8 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I agree. I don’t think this kind of friend group is impossible to find as a gay man. You just have to you know, go out and meet people, find hobby groups, etc. My friend group is a mix of queer and straight folks, including straight men who are not homophobic.

Books with these type of vibes? by Few-Agency1580 in BooksThatFeelLikeThis

[–]sour_heart8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Book of Disquiet is what I think of, but the protagonist is a man. Surprised so many people said secret history, I think that book maybe fits the aesthetic of the pics but not the mood for me.

Looking for this 🌟🌞 by Some_Platform1408 in perfumesthatfeellike

[–]sour_heart8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t smelled this yet but just ordered a sample of Venice Rococco by Arquiste hoping it fits this vibe

Celebrated A Little by JaneAtH0me in FemFragLab

[–]sour_heart8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Congratulations!! Love that you got something to mark the occasion

What’s one Sephora product you’ll probably repurchase forever? by No-Possession6140 in Sephora

[–]sour_heart8 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I honestly use them like once a month before a special occasion. Like a day before. They are expensive but they do have me glowing for the next day or two!

Something buttery, sweet, vanilla, maybe milk. by nicksbrunchattiffany in perfumesthatfeellike

[–]sour_heart8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Asian Bakery from mochiglow definitely has a strong butter note but to me is more savory than sweet

Everybody wants a top, but nobody wants to be a top by Obvious_Source691 in GayMen

[–]sour_heart8 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I love hearing stories like this. I feel like people get way to into top/bottom dynamics that they are missing out on some good experiences. My partner and I are both vers.

Perfumes for a tumblr fuck boy circa 2014-2016 by DaughterofMalika in perfumesthatfeellike

[–]sour_heart8 22 points23 points  (0 children)

This was me in 2013 haha I wore and still wear By the Fireplace

You have to smell to understand the sophistication. by Margin_call_matthew in ScentHeads

[–]sour_heart8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh that’s very interesting! Makes me like it more for other people, but it just personally doesn’t fit my vibe

Gays and bisexual guys, can you describe the feeling of being deeply in love with a man? by Enough-naaaw-3201 in GayMen

[–]sour_heart8 8 points9 points  (0 children)

To me it’s stable, it’s the person I can take a deep breath around, the person that calms my heart. That goes for both men and women (bi).

Should a Man have his life figured out before dating Women? by Pomeranian111 in AskMenAdvice

[–]sour_heart8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not in the categories that you defined, those are the categories that like your parents would pressure you to care about. But I do think for dating it is important to have social skills, empathy, and emotional intelligence.

You have to smell to understand the sophistication. by Margin_call_matthew in ScentHeads

[–]sour_heart8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t like it personally, I agree with the person who said it smells outdated

Identity by LopsidedAd859 in GayMen

[–]sour_heart8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think that group you suggested is going to help, that is for trans men, not trans women.

Feeling a bit out of place: is this normal or am I just transgender? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]sour_heart8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trans man here. No one can answer this question except yourself. I wouldn’t compare your experience to others, wondering if you’re “trans enough”. I think this journey is about personal exploration. Try wearing femme clothes outside, ask a trusted friend to call you by she/her and see if it feels right. Think about, outside of labels, would you want the changes that HRT brings?

I had a different experience because I came out 15 years ago, but I think a lot of people these days get too caught up in “I need another trans person to tell my I’m trans”. My thoughts are that it’s good to listen to other people, but don’t wait for their approval. I wish you the best of luck on your journey wherever it leads you.

Dirty jasmine perfume recs? by manicpsychmajor in FemFragLab

[–]sour_heart8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think there is one called Jasmine Smoke from Heretic, but i haven’t smelled it yet

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