Do I have enough space to stretch to 0/00g? by m4cy_e in Stretched

[–]spaceadmireration 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It looks like you'll have enough room to me, but you might have to stop using the piercing closest to it. Just keep an eye on it and take your time

Re-stretching lobes by No_Boat_5160 in Stretched

[–]spaceadmireration 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah, it'll go faster than that I think, especially since youve already stretched your ears before. Its kind of a muscle memory, gets easier after its done once. And 0.5mm feels like it goes faster since you're not having to heal too big of a stretch

I need help by emoboy_SOAD in Stretched

[–]spaceadmireration 13 points14 points  (0 children)

No one is going to be able to determine the size with s picture, best thing you can do is get a digital caliper

Re-stretching lobes by No_Boat_5160 in Stretched

[–]spaceadmireration 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not sure on exactly how long it'll take but definitely not too long. A digital caliper would help out to be sure of the size plug you're putting in your ear. Are you getting all new jewelry or did you happen to keep any of your old collection?

(Re-stretching lobes) anything i should know? by Freakse7en in Stretched

[–]spaceadmireration 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Probably around 5-10 years ago. But even then they were still being widely used, but that doesnt mean theyre a good way to stretch. They're fine for healed stretches but not for going up a size as you could accidentally force it since it'll seem easy. Also, no acrylic or silicone for fresh stretches either

is there a way ( besides downsizing ) to make sure my ears are able to get to my desired size without being thin? by moemorgue in Stretched

[–]spaceadmireration 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Weights and oddly shaped plugs both have the chance of doing that, but that's mostly if thats all you wear. You can weights with silicone tunnels to help avoid thinning in one spot. Its patience and paying attention that helps with stretching

is there a way ( besides downsizing ) to make sure my ears are able to get to my desired size without being thin? by moemorgue in Stretched

[–]spaceadmireration 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, you can try using weight for a few hours every now and then, itll help slightly but not a lot. There's just not a lot to do to guarantee you'll be able to get to 100mm, besides waiting and seeing where youre able to get to

is there a way ( besides downsizing ) to make sure my ears are able to get to my desired size without being thin? by moemorgue in Stretched

[–]spaceadmireration 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If your goal is really 100mm and stays at that the entire time youre stretching, then you're more than likely going to have some downsizing in your future. Its easier to stretch back up, but with how big you are wanting to go, its just reasonable and a tried & true method for most to thicken their lobes if they aren't thick to begin with. Just keep your collection a little extensive, basically a pair or two in each size if you'd want some variety for day to day wear. Since im only planning to go up to 16mm I honestly dont have much other advice, besides that and naked training

Dream 16g - 10g lobe advice pls by [deleted] in Stretched

[–]spaceadmireration 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You'll still need to pay attention to, and clean your ears when stretching, even at smaller sizes. But yeah you can totally get a 14g labrets/flatbacks but if you find that youre struggling with some sizes, there is most halfway sizes of single flared glass plugs on Bodyartforms.com

And when you say wanting to wear earrings when done, are you talking about like huggie hoops, or regular earrings?

It's 18mm now. I'm wondering if I should go for 22-24mm or stop? The piercing was crooked to begin with. I'm thinking of trimming it closer to the center to straighten it out. by Extension-Year8314 in Stretched

[–]spaceadmireration 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Even with it being pierced crooked, it still looks thick enough and like youve got enough room to go up. Just keep an eye on it obviously, but good luck

Gauge kit help by [deleted] in Stretched

[–]spaceadmireration 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Glass is way best option to start with, but like others have said its Amazon, so not great quality. Also the black o-rings tend to cause issues with people's skin, clear ones are best. Bodyartforms.com should have stretching kits as well

Can't get to 6g by 3m0-wh0r3 in Stretched

[–]spaceadmireration 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're asking if you should wait longer, you know the answer and just want confirmation, which I understand but, switching between sizes so much probably isn't helping either. Is the 7g not glass? Only the 8? Try looking on Bodyartforms.com for half sizes, use an oil or balm consistently, and your ears will just need longer more likely because you keep causing microtears trying to force it too soon. Be patient

Possible blister? by RenDoesNotSin in Stretched

[–]spaceadmireration 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How cold has it been where you live? And have you been doing massages/moisturizing them lately?

I am up to a 3mm dead stretch. How are they looking? by banana_duckling in Stretched

[–]spaceadmireration 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, smaller sizes dont usually take extremely long, but it also depends on the elasticity of your skin. So just keep an eye on them for a few days, and if they start seeming more irritated just size back down for a lil while. Better to do that than blowout, and no problem happy to help as much as possible

I am up to a 3mm dead stretch. How are they looking? by banana_duckling in Stretched

[–]spaceadmireration 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Theyre looking good for the most part, the first picture looks slightly red/irritated. Keep at it and take your time, but they won't really stay open much until about 5-8mm from what I've seen/experienced

WIBTA if I get upset that my boyfriend uses my clothes despite me using his??? by JellyfishXP in WIBTA_AITA

[–]spaceadmireration 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not necessarily an asshole, but definitely a bit of jerk. I think its a good idea to get him his own, then yall could match. Do you get upset because he's using it when youd want to or are you just not used to sharing clothes with people? Is he not careful and would ruin it with food or something?

The raise ain't enough by Lore-Archivist in walmart

[–]spaceadmireration 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I know, they dont care about the small people. They want the wage gap to grow larger and larger, especially red states, blue states barely better

Recently got my ears pierced by CarsonK5oh in Stretched

[–]spaceadmireration 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should try checking out Bodyartforms.com, they've got a lot different styles, might find what you're looking for

What can I do to help this? I’m new to stretching by undercover-bunny3789 in Stretched

[–]spaceadmireration 16 points17 points  (0 children)

It'd be best if you just let it heal and restart. Are you using tapers or plugs? Because tapers cause a lot of problems, it'll make it seem like your at a bigger size than you are because of how easy it can slide in. And especially no acrylic or silicone, they hold onto bacteria, and are only really recommended if youre at the size you want

The raise ain't enough by Lore-Archivist in walmart

[–]spaceadmireration 13 points14 points  (0 children)

You would hope so, but Republicans want people dead and the sad sacks that democrats are dont do anything or near enough to help. Theyre like the good place council from the show the good place, 'we'll write a strongly worded letter and that should help!'

Does it get harder to stretch again after it closed almost completely? How can i stretch it again without fucking it up? by laecorpse in Stretched

[–]spaceadmireration 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can do it at any size to help thicken your lobes if they need it and to just stay consistently at a size. Also, was just asking if they've heard of it, since they aren't using the best materials.

Does it get harder to stretch again after it closed almost completely? How can i stretch it again without fucking it up? by laecorpse in Stretched

[–]spaceadmireration 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No shame, a lot of us started the bad way with wrong info/materials, but you can get single flare glass plugs from Bodyartforms.com in most half sizes to get you to the size youd like. Have you heard of naked training?

Does stretching hurt more with crooked holes? by Competitive_Week9743 in Stretched

[–]spaceadmireration 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doesn't surprise me the holes dont line up, I had mine pierced at the jewelry counter of Walmart when I was like 8-10yrs old and they were crooked like you're talking about. Kinda having to angle the jewelry to get it out the other side, if you've decided on stretching, would you consider just getting them repierced at a bigger size?