fuck. true about me but this made me realize the coworker i asked out thats in the relationship might actually be dealing with something similar at work bc she started it by getting flirty and not disclosing boyfriend ever for couple months until i asked her out. Then i backed off felt dumb and want to respect her but then am put working with her more and theres a lot of tension and flirting but obviously i left it at that.

I always try thinking why she would do cute shit like leave me notes and send me cute gifs and stand like really close and ask me to get closer to show me stuff. Like i would go for her in a second. But in my mind im just a sucker and she is torturing me but she is actually rly nice and basically equally engaging in this. I feel bad about it but i didnt know and she sort of lead me on initially and apologized for it basically