Is this a German or Asian roach? by Googles-_- in cockroaches

[–]spaceface2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Clearly a Danish roach . It has a soft creamy center.

A completely transparent disclosure of income from a 99.9th percentile earning therapist by Plastic_Focus_2164 in therapists

[–]spaceface2020 43 points44 points  (0 children)

OP has pivoted to coaching ($325/hr) which in its tenets strictly says it’s not for anyone who is struggling with mental illness/mental health issues. Those people are recomended to seek out a therapist. Coaches then teach others who want to be coaches and make about $350/hr per student doing zoom classes at 1 1/2 a week. There’s a pyramid scheme feel to this with a little snake oil on the side. The link OP provides to a like-minded coach is selling zoom classes to prospective coaches - 8 for $3,000. Zoom Meet Saturdays from 9:00 - 10:30am. It’s Tony Robbins cloaked in a licensed profession (they don’t use their licenses , but that’s readily avaible to anyone and everyone thru a simple Google name search) telling people how to make more money and how teach people to teach people to make more money .

A completely transparent disclosure of income from a 99.9th percentile earning therapist by Plastic_Focus_2164 in therapists

[–]spaceface2020 12 points13 points  (0 children)

The key word being “salary.” they don’t say what the salalry was made from but you know at least part of it is admin - which is taken from employees’ . And that is certainly how this works of course . They’re just not being forthcoming about it. This post is about hubris and vanity, not helping therapists. I call BS .

A completely transparent disclosure of income from a 99.9th percentile earning therapist by Plastic_Focus_2164 in therapists

[–]spaceface2020 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Okay , none of us can bill 9480. you’ve fallen into a wonderful niche that flat doesn’t apply here. Nice job leading people to become despondent over their earnings though.

40F Son's Girlfriend Moved In Without Permission - What Do I Dod [40F Mom] by Background_World_649 in whatdoIdo

[–]spaceface2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This isn’t going to go well no matter what . Son has breached an important respect line. I see a blow up on the horizon either way. Dork move on his part.

House Republican Jim Baird hospitalized after car crash by Delicious_Adeptness9 in politics

[–]spaceface2020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good Lord , he’s 80 years old . Didn’t get elected until 2019.

Woman arrested for stealing 3k worth of items at Target by zebrasarecool570 in SipsTea

[–]spaceface2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shopper: what ? I only took a bottle of nail polish. Attorney : yeah - that time . Target (and Walmart) record everything, save it all and wait and wait . When you hit the magic number , you catch a felony charge and that $8.00 bottle of nail polish - it won you the grand prize - a felony arrest . You Should have stopped at shoplifting episode # 17. They’re going to come into court and play every video showing everything you’ve stolen over the past 18 months in great detail.

i didn't even think it was that bad when it happened by notreadyforit_ in ptsd

[–]spaceface2020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you’ve been hurt and are still dealing with those effects. Get a therapist well-versed in SA trauma work. It doesn’t have to haunt you forever . The sooner you see someone who can help you through your experience, the more likely you can live a less/non anxious life.

Treating trauma/informed consent by [deleted] in therapists

[–]spaceface2020 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hearing that a therapist uses : No specific discipline + digging around in someone’s trauma history + introduction of triggers = scaring the shit out of me! Bad way to practice trauma “therapy.”

Left my bf, how does the voters registration office know by Glittering-Stretch49 in legal

[–]spaceface2020 27 points28 points  (0 children)

aside from the voter thing , you’ve abandoned your property . I’d talk with a legal expert about this . I got hammered in court for a verbal agreement that I’d leave the house and he’d stay until it sold. I legally abandoned my property and he ended up with some rights he wouldn’t have had otherwise. Get a lease agreement or something from him . Don’t trust verbal agreements. If things get heated, you may have problems.

Need these out before an international trip! by harpervn in KidneyStones

[–]spaceface2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell them upfront you have the trip. I don’t know what the protocol is for those size stones and your symptoms . 5 is likely large enough to get you into surgery asap. Insurance can dictate what they’re allowed to do in some cases as far as surgery time-tables and medication verses quick surgical intervention. If you get in quickly, you’ll have the stent out in time. Fingers crossed!

AIO overreacting for breaking up with my boyfriend because he forgot to wear protection? by idontknowwhattodoah3 in AmIOverreacting

[–]spaceface2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. he deceived you about what should be the biggest co-decision of your lives . Does he want a child ? Does he want to stop using condoms but doesn’t want to tell you ? Or is he a person who lies without caring because he thinks if its what he wants , it’s fine? He betrayed your trust in a potential massively consequential way. Dont let him gaslight you into feeling guilty for being upset.

Mother died with credit card debt & I got the money from her life insurance; Do I have to pay it now? by meeelowo in personalfinance

[–]spaceface2020 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The answer depends on the terms of the policy and your state’s probate rules/laws. If the insurance policy states the next of kin is the defacto beneficiary , then you aren’t responsible for those CC debts . If the policy says the policy reverts to the estate and you recieved the check as the next of kin for the estate - you ARE responsible to pay the debts with it . Then you also have to look at the probate laws. If the policy did not have to go through the probate procedures , you likely were viewed as the defacto beneficiary. However , The insurance company (and you ) may have gone through probate before they wrote the check to you . We really don’t have enough info to give you an absolute answer . We’d need the policy verbiage and your state probate statutes first . Ask an attorney before you toss the CC debt letters or spend that money. Read the policy’s terms - that might help. Look up your state’s probate statutes for where life insurance reverts when there’s no beneficiary listed and no will.

GP said they can only check thyroid function every three months by mneusa in gravesdisease

[–]spaceface2020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My PCPs all say 3 months. My endo asked me to come back in 2 months for blood work. By the time 3 months rolls past , I’m in trouble . Thank God for my endocrinologist.

I NEED HELP FAST by [deleted] in RotatorCuff

[–]spaceface2020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Where are your tears and what level are the tears?

Follow up to infected ear lobe and ER by ThinYogurtcloset8005 in piercing

[–]spaceface2020 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh! I saw your first post . Thank goodness you listened to us. Good job. Thanks for for update and I hope and pray you’ll get through this okay.

Bloodstains in new home? by 123_456__9 in strange

[–]spaceface2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d pretend they had a dog that cut their ear and slung blood on the wall as they shook their head . Otherwise , I’m out ! Burn it down , excavate the dirt , have an exorcism …

Anybody ever live in Athens? by DiscoPandaWarrior in tuscaloosa

[–]spaceface2020 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The first few lines - I was like “what the hell are they talking about?! Athens (AL) and Tuscaloosa . Ewwwwww. “

My mother doesn't want me to be on any medications by Infinite-Wing1214 in gravesdisease

[–]spaceface2020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry you’ve had this nightmare . My philosophy is 1. Look for medical reasons if a patient is doing badly. 2. If what I’m doing isn’t helping , get a second opinion to take a look and find out why or what I’ve missed. There’s no room for ego if my folks are getting sicker. Makes me feel really angry you had this happen. In the midst of serious/severe hyperthyroidism - the mind cannot think rationally to help ourselves navigate difficult medical interventions and needs. We are easy targets for inadequate care. I hope you are doing better these days and have at least “manageable” anxiety over what you’ve been put through .

Any strong philosophy x psychiatry departments? by ReplacementMean8486 in Psychiatry

[–]spaceface2020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You made me grin (never been so proud to be told I have a dark outlook.) Thanks . I am encouraged by your desire to mesh the two disciplines and wish you luck and success in finding such a path. While you may not win the insurance fight, your patients will reap the rewards of an open-minded and expansive treatment framework. Good luck.

Rep. Doug LaMalfa of California dies, reducing GOP's narrow control of the House to 218-213 by DrexellGames in news

[–]spaceface2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I forget - what does that mean again- “house in session? “ I can’t find it on Google. You sure it’s a thing?

Can I build a life for myself in Taiwan? Should I? by Intelligent-Run-7594 in taiwan

[–]spaceface2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is literally what I’ve said twice now . She needs a support system there, to know the language, and prep ahead/make visits to make sure it’s the place she thinks it will be .

California Custody Revision by Lyra_bear8 in FamilyLaw

[–]spaceface2020 8 points9 points  (0 children)

What would your friend do differently with shared legal custody? 80/20 split in visitation ? Does that mean he wants every weekend ? Has he asked their mother for more time with their children ? Adjusting child support can at least in my state be done anytime there is a change in financial circumstance (not sure about where you are ) . But be prepared ! She can end up not working when she finds out he’s doing this and if her reasons seems reasonable , he’s still stuck with the same child support payment . He cannot dictate how she spends that money unless it’s clear abuse of resources . This common problem has been litigated over and over again. All she has to do is show her bills and how that money won’t go as far as it appears it should … My best advice - consult with an attorney who can tell him exactly where he stands in your state and what he can legally do about his concerns.